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Swinging with a disability?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Swinging with a disability?       02-03-2016 05:27 AM
lucas, thats a huge disability in this lifestyle. sorry to say.
How Much Did You Pay For Gas Today
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How Much Did You Pay For Gas Today       02-02-2016 19:33 PM
1.49
Toys
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > Toys       02-01-2016 06:37 AM
the only sex toy i have is GF
Picture approving
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Picture approving       01-31-2016 13:57 PM
from what we know/see, its all pictures get approved and classified by lifetime members
Looking for 3 studs for wife
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Looking for 3 studs for wife       01-31-2016 13:51 PM
looking like she does, it cant be too difficult to find guys to do her
Gut check. MFM threesome
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Gut check. MFM threesome       01-26-2016 05:31 AM
lol @ BT
Gut check. MFM threesome
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Gut check. MFM threesome       01-25-2016 17:08 PM
Please dont forget, nothing catastrophic happened. Its sex that didnt happen. If you and the wife continue to talk about it, its a VERY good thing. If either of you close up and dont discuss, then its not good. Keep talking and be 100% honest with her on what you were thinking and feeling, it will absolutely make your relationship and swinging much stronger
Gut check. MFM threesome
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Gut check. MFM threesome       01-25-2016 17:05 PM
some good advice given here. id add that maybe you and the wife need to talk more and try crawling before walking and then running. Start out with soft swap maybe ? then move to less rules if it goes well
Don't know how to find couples that I can service orally. Bisexual
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > Don't know how to find couples that I can service orally. Bisexual       01-25-2016 05:23 AM
start out by getting your profile up to par, put some pictures on there. then get back to us for the next step
Some profile names in certs are not linked
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Some profile names in certs are not linked       01-21-2016 05:41 AM
i know in one of our certs, the guy had deleted his account. We took the cert off once we realized but have no idea how long he had been gone.
WHERE TO FIND BISEXUAL WOMEN WHO WANT TO BE WITH A COUPLE?!
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > WHERE TO FIND BISEXUAL WOMEN WHO WANT TO BE WITH A COUPLE?!       01-20-2016 05:09 AM
We have a couple here on SLS but our best luck has always been on CL. takes some time like this site does but it happens more often for us on there
13 hours Movie
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > 13 hours Movie       01-18-2016 07:04 AM
great movie
Swinging with a disability?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Swinging with a disability?       01-13-2016 20:36 PM
based on her pics, you guys should have no issue at all LOL
looking for some BBC for my wife why so hard to find?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > looking for some BBC for my wife why so hard to find?       01-12-2016 06:59 AM
you cant be looking too hard if you cant find a guy in NY
Bi-males who list themselves as straight, or are they
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Bi-males who list themselves as straight, or are they       01-11-2016 12:36 PM
by far, we get hit on by "straight guys/couples" more than we do BI. (way more)
Clean ups
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > Clean ups       01-10-2016 07:50 AM
denny, this part of your profile is exactly why we would never consider playing "" then take you and ur hot cum in my ass. "" if you wanna play that way, go for it but dont expect a lot of safe sex couples to consider having you join in.
Clean ups
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > Clean ups       01-10-2016 07:47 AM
youngbi nailed it right there. Any guy looking for that is more risky than we would wanna play with. We pass every single time.
Favorite type of party .
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Favorite type of party .       01-10-2016 07:46 AM
we just talked about this last night. overall the best party for both of us is the hotel takeover. the absolute craziness and options to chose from make it the most fun for us
69+1
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > 69+1       01-09-2016 05:51 AM
pffft, bi guys ..
69+1
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > 69+1       01-07-2016 05:32 AM
you had an hour to sit and think about this position and you STILL dont wanna ? thats downright wrong and some might call it racist or discriminatory. I think you need to sit down and seriously rethink your decision now that its been 7 hours....
IS OWEBAMA-CARE SCREWING YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > IS OWEBAMA-CARE SCREWING YOU OR SOMEONE YOU KNOW       01-07-2016 05:24 AM
rrem, yes i have watched someone die firsthand of cancer. luckily she died fast but she did not use any of the pain meds. I still have them in case my back ever hurts me again :)
Swinging with a disability?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Swinging with a disability?       01-06-2016 16:46 PM
Pretty sure we have been to a party where someone had a fake leg and another time i recall a person being in a wheelchair. Dont remember if it was a lifelong issue or recent. I know it seemed a bit out of place but we certainly didnt have any issue with it or anyone else for that matter. My guess is you may attract some people just because of it and if you both are attractive and have some game, it might lead to fun.
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       01-06-2016 16:42 PM
from everything i read today and heard, the stuff obama is doing is a total waste
Bundy ranch take two?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Bundy ranch take two?       01-03-2016 19:59 PM
if they were black, there would be looting and rioting going on already too. (just as stupid of a comment)
Bundy ranch take two?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Bundy ranch take two?       01-03-2016 19:01 PM
RIP andrew... just kidding. Id find it hard to support idiots like them even if the idea was right. Going so far as killing or being killed is retarded IMO.
Bundy ranch take two?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Bundy ranch take two?       01-03-2016 13:31 PM
i agree.
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       01-03-2016 06:33 AM
I went inside 3 large gun shops yesterday. had to walk out of one, couldnt get near the counter to look at new guns, it was insane. The other 2 were jam packed but i was able to get the eye of the one guy who always hooks me up at one store, got to check out the 4 guns i was looking at, narrowed it down to one. Just waiting on my stupid permit to come in the mail now.
Funny thing I saw on OKCupid
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Funny thing I saw on OKCupid       01-03-2016 06:30 AM
lol , you should...
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       01-02-2016 16:11 PM
andrew, thats been my understanding so far too on the obama change. thanks
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       01-02-2016 06:57 AM
Id like to actually know what this new gun grab/law is all about before saying its bad. For the life of me i dont understand why we its not a federal law instead of state law (gun laws). i live in NJ where we have pretty damn strict gun laws and they really are not terrible except the no chance of a CCW. If his new gun law is going to hurt guys who sell more than 50 guns/year im perfectly ok with it. I dont agree my AR15 is any more dangerous than my hand guns unless i made it full auto. Id like to see them make it federal law and bring everyone up to NJ gun law standards. Maybe force gun owners to register the guns and insure them ? possibly make all gun owners prove they know how to handle guns, store guns and use them. Force gun owners to "qualify" but im probably in the minority
Asian women
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Asian women       12-30-2015 16:03 PM
@midnightdash, i have also been told that same thing. They do worry about that. Good advice
New ways to meet people
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > New ways to meet people       12-29-2015 06:18 AM
being active on SLS and FB cant be a good thing. Unless you are 100% out as a swinger and then you still have the privacy thing to worry about. Its just never going to happen for us
Cheaters in the Lifestyle
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Cheaters in the Lifestyle       12-27-2015 10:48 AM
Shesmooth, totally agree. We dont go out of our way to find cheaters but if it happens, oh well. its not our problem. We dont give out our home address, we always play in a hotel so no chance of the other partner finding us. We are not the marriage police.
Asian women
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Asian women       12-26-2015 06:29 AM
Both of us love them too. Noting hotter in our opinion. Have had a couple of them too :)
Sucking cock after having sex
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > Sucking cock after having sex       12-23-2015 13:42 PM
what bill said plus is having a guy cum in your mouth really safe ?
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       12-22-2015 11:36 AM
Just dropped off my application to purchase another handgun this morning. hope to get it back by end of january if im lucky.
Profile Critique
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Better Profiles > Profile Critique       12-21-2015 18:27 PM
looks great to us. great pics !
why is this so hard to find a guy in nnj
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > why is this so hard to find a guy in nnj       12-19-2015 06:53 AM
here since 02 with no certs, a pic of you sitting naked in what looks like a messy garage with an almost non existent profile doesnt help
Looking for information on how to open a swingers club in my town.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Looking for information on how to open a swingers club in my town.       12-19-2015 06:46 AM
Might wanna start with a local lawyer and a stop at the town clerks office and talk to the bldg inspector. They always know the laws and how well the town will respond to the idea of it. Typically its a guy and if you have any talking skills you can get a lot out of them
SLS app removed from Google Play store
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > SLS app removed from Google Play store       12-16-2015 21:09 PM
found it for ya. http ://ww w. amazon. c om/DBH-SLS/dp/B00E6QGVQQ
SLS app removed from Google Play store
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > SLS app removed from Google Play store       12-16-2015 18:00 PM
you have to get it via amazon
one on one male play
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > one on one male play       12-13-2015 16:27 PM
never knew what that scale was, googles it and found im a pretty low number lol
So How did you come up with your Screen Name for your SLS Profile
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > So How did you come up with your Screen Name for your SLS Profile       12-08-2015 20:26 PM
braggard :)
New STD to worry about
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > New STD to worry about       12-08-2015 15:30 PM
thats it, im never having sex again
Trump for President???
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Trump for President???       12-08-2015 06:40 AM
ive been in the NY/NJ const industry for 25+ years, ive never seen a trump building go non union. there is one currently being built and its union.
Great Weekend
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Great Weekend       12-07-2015 15:03 PM
yeah, sounds fun LOL lucky man !
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       12-07-2015 06:02 AM
i agree 100% that any extreme religious nutjob should be shot on sight. Extreme anything is bad. same goes for liberal and conservatives
Hands Off My Ignorant Patriotic Supremacy
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Hands Off My Ignorant Patriotic Supremacy       12-06-2015 06:35 AM
so by your thinking, (HFT/conservativers being on a liberal site) there should be no republicans in the state of cali or nj cause they are a democrat state. Neither thinking makes any sense....
Swinging, Non-smokers, and Smokers
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Swinging, Non-smokers, and Smokers       12-05-2015 19:44 PM
for us, we only play in hotels we pay for. that eliminates the smell on bedding. the clothes come off so we dont sweat that but kissing could be an issue i guess but it hasnt been so far
Hands Off My Ignorant Patriotic Supremacy
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Hands Off My Ignorant Patriotic Supremacy       12-05-2015 16:31 PM
i would agree
Nervous .
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Nervous .       12-05-2015 10:30 AM
talk to him about some more then talk about it even more..then go in with an open mind and see what happens. afterwards, talk about what you all did and liked
middleastern refugees?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > middleastern refugees?       12-03-2015 05:32 AM
actually one has been identified as muslim. as per his brother
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       12-03-2015 05:31 AM
i didnt mention it but also needed is some kind of psych evaluation as well.
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       12-03-2015 05:30 AM
its a damn shame when guns get up, walk in to a place and shoot themselves. I hate when that happens. But i do admit there does need to be federal gun registration and some type of qualification to prove you know how to handle them correctly. Maybe every 3-5 years...
middleastern refugees?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > middleastern refugees?       12-02-2015 05:59 AM
jub, you werent in the TNT factory or store so you wouldnt see them..lol
Putting BI on your profile
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Putting BI on your profile       12-01-2015 20:44 PM
kind of like going to germany on vacation for a week and returning to the US. its doesnt make me german. but god forbid i have guy suck me off once, im immediately at least bi if not gay
Why Liberals are more dangerous than ISIS
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Why Liberals are more dangerous than ISIS       12-01-2015 06:07 AM
jub, everyone knows that mass murderers are white. Batshit crazy white dudes, every damn time.. this country needs to forget color and really concentrate on the crazy
what wrong with a couple that dont want a single guy
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > what wrong with a couple that dont want a single guy       11-29-2015 07:03 AM
njny beat me to it..
Putting BI on your profile
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Putting BI on your profile       11-26-2015 09:10 AM
while I understand why a guy wouldnt list honestly as BI in a profile especially if there is a face pic, it does annoy us. We get far more "straight guys" hitting us up than bi guys/couples.
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       11-24-2015 19:55 PM
NJ is a yearly re certification for retired leo as well.
West Palm SWM.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinging Single > West Palm SWM.       11-21-2015 07:03 AM
lol
Pathetic college protesters
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Pathetic college protesters       11-21-2015 06:53 AM
AR, thats some fucked up shit right there. wow this country is so fucked
Predictions!!!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Predictions!!!       11-21-2015 06:49 AM
if my only choices are career politicians, im not voting. Ill vote democrat (non politician) before i vote for a repub politician
Question from the bi guys wife :) any help appreciated
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > Question from the bi guys wife :) any help appreciated       11-17-2015 05:10 AM
the MMF positions are going to depend on if he is top or bottom i guess (do you know that answer?). Dont know of any other sites to help you but there are plenty of experienced bi guys on this site to answer some questions.
We are a couple and i am a bisexual woman seeking a bisexual woman to have some fun with us?!
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Females > We are a couple and i am a bisexual woman seeking a bisexual woman to have some fun with us?!       11-09-2015 20:08 PM
try posting hot dates.
What is it with some single guys?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > What is it with some single guys?       11-08-2015 06:41 AM
all sinbach does is whine about couples not wanting to play with older guys, dont pay any attention to the drama queen
What browsers are compatible for pic upload?
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > What browsers are compatible for pic upload?       11-06-2015 10:25 AM
chrome works fine
Issues logging into SLS last weekend
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Issues logging into SLS last weekend       11-04-2015 16:53 PM
lol@henderson
Are you a fan of anal?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Are you a fan of anal?       11-03-2015 19:32 PM
He/ME is not a huge fan of it where she can take it or leave it
Authority not valid?
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Authority not valid?       11-02-2015 05:40 AM
seems to be fixed now
Authority not valid?
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Authority not valid?       11-01-2015 20:05 PM
Same problem here
Calendar rolling over
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Calendar rolling over       11-01-2015 06:20 AM
dont see any way to get to october. sorry i couldnt help
How do we know if people are in the Lifestyle
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > How do we know if people are in the Lifestyle       10-30-2015 19:51 PM
having her wear a SLS t shirt has worked for us 2 times
Feminine Shemale
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > Feminine Shemale       10-29-2015 19:04 PM
for us there is nothing more fun than a passable TS. we have played with two so far. they are out there for free, you just gotta keep looking. Found both of them on CL of all places. NYC has a club or two im told.
On the fence with comdoms
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > On the fence with comdoms       10-29-2015 19:00 PM
We honestly dont fear aids nearly as much as we do hep C or herpes.
We need to find a REAL MAN who likes to play with a couple in Florida
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > We need to find a REAL MAN who likes to play with a couple in Florida       10-29-2015 18:53 PM
shesmooth nailed it
New Log In Page
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > New Log In Page       10-29-2015 07:41 AM
sorry cant focus on the question while drooling over your avatar picture
Predictions!!!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Predictions!!!       10-28-2015 05:37 AM
@BLT, yeah its probably not going to be expected coming from any black person or mexican. its just not what one would expect. maybe thats a stereotype thing ? im sure you get a kick out of watching the expression on their faces when you say it lol
Condoms for Oral
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > Condoms for Oral       10-27-2015 18:28 PM
no chance im putting a condom on to get blown, sorry not gonna happen.
Predictions!!!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Predictions!!!       10-27-2015 18:25 PM
id take the bill clinton years back any day. damn i made some good money then...
Halloween Costumes
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Halloween Costumes       10-26-2015 08:25 AM
stopped dressing up for halloween around 12 years old
Married Bi Males
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Males > Married Bi Males       10-25-2015 19:20 PM
definitely not the case here
Poly safe sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Polyamory > Poly safe sex       10-25-2015 19:17 PM
BLT, dang i wish you would reconsider LOL :)
New SwingLifeStyle Website Released
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > New SwingLifeStyle Website Released       10-24-2015 16:57 PM
gotcha, wasnt sure what ya meant. I tried lol wonder if there is a text only version or mobi site ?
Trump for President???
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Trump for President???       10-24-2015 16:52 PM
yep, looking like jebs run is almost done
Innie or outie
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Innie or outie       10-24-2015 16:50 PM
both of prefer innies but an outtie will do too :)
Please give us back the choice of using the old site
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Please give us back the choice of using the old site       10-24-2015 09:09 AM
maybe im the only one but i have no real issues at all with the new site. at least nothing earth shattering thats gonna change my life. If its not displaying right, try another browser to see if it helps
New SwingLifeStyle Website Released
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > New SwingLifeStyle Website Released       10-23-2015 19:47 PM
@njnybifem, im on my android phone using chrome as my browser and i just tried the forums and a profile, seems to work fine. might wanna try chrome..
Facebook swinger weirdness
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Facebook swinger weirdness       10-23-2015 19:37 PM
but if i was to narrow it down, the culprit is your phone most likely
Facebook swinger weirdness
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Facebook swinger weirdness       10-23-2015 19:37 PM
Ive never been on FB or used the app but id bet its connected to your email, phone, contacts etc...its gotta be mining the contacts for that info. maybe you signed up on FB with an email address, possibly gave it permission to do so. Id bet the app is given permission to do ALL kind of stuff you wouldnt want it doing if you actually read the permissions before DL it..
Opening up profile to single guys
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Opening up profile to single guys       10-22-2015 19:53 PM
not sure of any other way. would also be interested in the answer
I think my man is bi curious but won't admit it
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > I think my man is bi curious but won't admit it       10-19-2015 06:22 AM
No but I can easily see how it would happen. its probably the hardest thing he will have to admit in his life. give it time and maybe suggest you guys playing with a bi guy and keep reassuring him you are more than ok with him doing anything with the guy when you play with him.
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       10-19-2015 06:16 AM
ill try to post the link here, take out spaces http: // conservativepost. c o m/surveillance-video-shows-what-happened-when-3-thugs-tried-to-rob-a-store-but-faced-a-concealed-carrying-man/
Guns Guns and More Guns
FORUMS > General Discussions > Politics > Guns Guns and More Guns       10-19-2015 06:15 AM
anyone see the video of the CC guy in a store where some pieces of garbage tried to rob the place at gunpoint in iowa recently ?
first party nerves .
FORUMS > General Discussions > B.B.W. > first party nerves .       10-18-2015 15:58 PM
I (me) am typically not overly interested in bbw's. Id suggest you both to start playing by yourselves, if anyone is interested, they will come over and join in. Then you dont have to worry about it so much. From the few parties we attended, that would have worked perfectly fine
ssbbw in NJ
FORUMS > General Discussions > B.B.W. > ssbbw in NJ       10-18-2015 15:53 PM
keep an eye on CL and here in the hot dates for parties. they are fairly common
Single Men: Fakes, Flakes and Lazy
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Single Men: Fakes, Flakes and Lazy       10-18-2015 14:49 PM
We never give out a personal cell number, we use google voice for hooking up. it can be setup to email the message to one email address and direct to my phone. This way we both get it on our phones. The certs do make a difference. That said we have only been stood up once but we dont take too many chances on single guys to prevent this. We dont care if they are married as long as they show.
Improvements to Search Function
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Improvements to Search Function       10-16-2015 17:33 PM
good move starting yet another thread....
Am I going to ruin my wife's chances to experiment?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Am I going to ruin my wife's chances to experiment?       10-16-2015 09:21 AM
that was "smooth"......
Please give us back the choice of using the old site
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Please give us back the choice of using the old site       10-16-2015 07:31 AM
i dont care about the old site but maybe make it an option to use it if you are a lifetime member ? that would be a nice perk for lifetime members.

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