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It sucks being fat. I got hurt (hip and shoulder) and put on 100lbs that I had to lose so I've been there. Anyone overweight saying they are okay with it is just deluding themselves or talking smack. I will never be that way again and I don't even want to see it in a sexual context.

When I see someone that is fat I honestly feel sorry for them and I have helped several people (for free) get on track and lose weight. I've also tried to help people and watched them fail. I will answer questions when I can as weight loss is talked about so much and commercialized it is HARD to sort truth from BS.

If you think I don't have an idea what fat is like read this: It sucks to have to plan to bend over and pick something up. It sucks that people look at you weird in stores. It sucks that your pants fall down. It sucks when your feet hurt all the damn time. It sucks when you can't walk up a flight of stairs without sweating through your clothes. It sucks that NOTHING fits right. It sucks when your ass won't fit in a roller coaster seat.

Stuff you can look forward too as a fatty: (notice i'm not being politically correct sorry, nothing you haven't told yourself) Diabetes, plantar facitis (sp), heart disease, liver disease, prostate problems (guys), general ill health and a plethora of other conditions.

You guys that come in here and say how okay you are being fat keep in mind at least one guy here knows the truth. You have just given up.


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I certainly mean no disrespect and understand for some people it's a matter of genetics or health issue and that is fully understood. I have friends who are heavy and are working day in and day out to maintain a level of fitness. To me it's not washboard and or 3% body fat that is attractive but someone who is putting in time to realize whatever benefit they can. I know people who look fit and are couch potatoes and I know those who some would say are fat and they can run laps around a me in some aspects of fitness.

Having said that, Ms. SexUsinTexas really raises a valid point.


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If you go over to the BBW threads, you will find people saying "I can't understand why/how anyone could be attracted to a stick," which is just as revolting and rude. Any name calling, in fact, is a turn off. But since this is a fitness forum thread, I don't understand why someone would come in complaining about what is said here in reference to being overweight. These threads are what they say they are: for people who are fit, and who are interested in improving their fitness/health.

The only reason I ever step in here is to get advice, or sometimes to read and become a bit motivated when I am in a slump. One of the "Fatties," Gina

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FYI,,we have plenty of fun with other couples,,and they have no problem with the weight factor, I just resent anyone making comments about how they cannot understand why somebody would be attracted to a fat guy or fat woman, but then claim to be non-judgmental about it. Thats what got me pissed.


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Amen. I think that is true of both sexes. It takes little effort to increase ones physical activity level. Not talking hours in a gym but a walk or using the stairs instead of an escalator. Every little bit helps.


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You sure do and if you ever came to my neck of the woods and went to a club you would have hella more luck than me. So you big-bellied beasts tear it up!


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Hey now us big guys need some luvin too.....

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People are usually attracted to others who are similar in looks, that's just a given. Similar can mean different things for different people by the way... It can be body shape, skin color, age, etc. or any combination of those.

With that said, we will never say that people of any particular body shape aren't good lovers. Maybe they are... We'll just never know for sure because we're not attracted to all body types. And if we're not attracted to them, we won't sleep with them even if it's proven beyond any reasonable doubt that they are great lovers in the bedroom.

We've said this before... We're promiscuous, but we're not indiscriminate about whom we will sleep with. We're very particular and expect others to be like that too.

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If you are happy with how you look and feel. If you are happy with the people you swing with then great. I dont see the problem here.

You sound like you are pissed because others arent attracted to you two because you are fat. Everyone has their own preference and being fit past 40 isn't easy for anyone. It has to be important enough to make some significant sacrifices to accomplish.

One of my main motovators is the fact that I am attracted to hwp women and very few of those are interested in meeting a overweight guy for nsa sex. Shallow but I don't claim to be all that complex.


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WOW! I'm going to put my 2 cents in this discussion. I am so happy for you that your so healthy, that you work out, and so forth. What I don't see are people who are from Earth in here. I'm 55 yrs old, just quit driving trucks over the road because of my family, my health, and in general,,sick of it. Yeah,,I gained a lot of weight, after 21yrs of driving, all of a sudden in the past 3 yrs I gained over 120lbs and absolutely nothing I did was making it go away. Since I quit driving,,I have lost some, but the main post was about hot wives and fat husbands,,,news flash,,my wife is fat too,,and I love her to death. We both went on low carb diet, worked out on bowflex, she has very nearly starved herself trying to get in shape,,,and,,it isn't happening. I am having the same problem. But, you know what the biggest problem we have had in swinging???? It isn't meeting couples and having fun,,or being turned away cuz we're not all hot and sexy,, it's husbands who can't please their wives. Why is it automatic that cuz your fat you can't be a great lover? The wives of these men keep wanting us back because I am a very good,,attentive lover, but I will not have my wife take one for the team. So the assumption about being overweight negates sexual attractiveness is bogus. You want to be a hot body and attract hot bodies? Go for it, happy for ya. But shut the hell up with your comments about people who aren't obsessed with being hot. I have had the "hot" babes in my younger days,, and thats all they were, babes, not women, not adults, just self obsessed little girls.


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