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I sort of don't like the secret language. Actually I should say I don't use it. I listen for it but in a case like yours I find it very easy and un offensive to just ask, " am I missing a golden opportunity here because I need to be slapped up side the head with the obvious". It'll get a laugh or change the conversation to a more serious (obvious) note. People are funny and every couple is different. Somewhere between "suggestive language" and "do you wanna f**k" is a sweet spot. I/We find the simple questions work well.

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Well, I've also learned that "playing" for us means sex, but for some it just means sexual teasing and flirting, fondling, etc., so what do I really know? haha.

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Yep, vanilla is another big word we use. Shell


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There is also the terminology: Playing, for instance...most people outside the lifestyle don't use that term to describe sexual play, so keep your ears open for terms like that that only swingers might use. Lifestyle, of course, is one of those terms.

I think you did the right thing because it does sound like they were in a teasing mode, but maybe you'll get the chance again soon.

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I agree with twister; some couples are into the naughty, voyeur, exhibitionist factor. I think they would ask you straight out if they wanted to play. Shelly


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