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One of the things we see all the time in the lifestyle is people who flirt, kissing touching, stroking, and talk about giving blow jobs when its safe and there is not way it could possibly happen. It's so hot that you know the party that night will be insane. Then when there is an opportunity like after the dance in the party rooms you can't find them anywhere. It happens all the time at swing conventions and events. You see the same kind of thing on here with people who send endless sexy E-mails but never show up in person. Women in the lifestyle have become very aggressive sexually. Most of them have no problem communicating their desires.

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Picking up someone in a straight crowd is extrememly difficult at best. For that reason we prefer going to swing clubs or bars. That way at least there is some common understanding that you are there for a purpose not just hanging out talking about sports. There are a lot of people outside our lifestyle who like to flirt but if you ask the question they act offended.

Like all things in the lifestyle it's up to the women, well with the possible exception of the guy who drinks beer, eats hot dogs and watches sports while getting a blow job! I think the only thing a single guy can do in this situation is wait for the woman. If she is truly interested in a threesome she will let you know. She will find a way to stroke your cock and tell you she'd love for you to join her for a little fun. If you bring up the subject you could be the bad guy, very quickly.

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There's a more direct way to figure this one out. Wait for the husband in question leaves the table...for a beer or what ever and follow him. Have a social card made up ahead of time with your name and e-mail address. You can put your phone number on it but I have both types. Only put your cell on it, never your home.

Tell him you are having a great time and would like to get to know them better. Express gratitude at their insistence that you join them. Tell him you have experience being the third wheel. And if that is that what they are looking for, you would be honored to help them out. If he says yes. Give him your card and set up another meeting.

I personally would be wary of going home with them. You have NO idea how experienced they are at this game. Someone could freak out and become violent. If he bites on playing that night, spring for a room. It's much safer to play at a hotel/motel than venture into another man's territory.

I would put in a "safe call" to a buddy. Tell him the names, car license plate #, and what hotel you are going to. Always leave a trail. Make sure you use condoms. It's always better to be safe. If they say you don't need protection, tell them you last longer with a condom on.. ;)

Good luck and plays safe.

Mischief (finds players every where.)

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Boy, ya sure can tell when these threads spin off into never never land

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so Then it's DA BOYS or the texans?

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hey the denver donkeys let the da bears off the hook..... at least my steelers have a winning record. lol

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around here it is more like a way to spend a Thursday night.............but it is fun;) only time I have ever looked forward to football nights!

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lol my favorite currently is my husband goes to his football game, a single male we know comes over (my husband does college ball, the other guy pro) when I get off work, my kids are at my mom's. The single male and I start playing and usually by the time hubby comes home to join us we have been fucking for an hour or so. Then the 3 of us get to play for a few more hours. Hubby is lucky if I remember to ask him if his team won ;)

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what's really cool is having my g/f suck my dick while i'm eating football food and drinking beer watching the steelers play.

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Sexy Claire I would almost agree with you on this one...but Unfortunately, I know some crazy fools that would rather talk football than eat, sleep, or fuck..... Not me babe, I love a good meal topped off with some hot bed time... FJ

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