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Uh oh...you're in trouble now Bob...the thought police are gonna come after you for the expectation of politeness!!!

Fairfield PA
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I thought this would be a good site (SLS) but people here in El Paso don't even respond with a no or reason why not. Most lifestyle people are more than happy to talk with you.

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**I have feelings of jealousy, not of *my spouse* being with someone else, but of the other *sex partner* being far more attractive and better in bed.**

Our answer to that statement would be,,it's a normal fear from both husband and wife swinger virgins.Don't think it's just yours. Talking about it as a subject in depth before dipping your toes into the game is productive. Not talking about it is what those that are active swingers is what we call taking one for the Team.

It's really a normal swinger virgin couples question....talk about it together and/or don't do a meet and greet and/or forgetaboutit...lol ...it's all up to you as a couple.


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Good reply MJ

Lansing MI
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PC you should ask your question in the getting started form, you would get a better response there.

But to answer your question, if it were me I would step back and not do anything now, you're not ready. In life there is always going to be someone pretty, skinnier, tall and etc than you. You have to have the self confidence in yourself and your hubby and know that you are what he really wants and the other woman is just around for fun and fantasy.

Goodluck Mrs. Voya

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Hello Everyone,

We are new to this. My husband is ready to go, me on the other hand I am a little nervous and have some issues I need to deal with. This question is for the women. I have feelings of jealousy, not of my husband being with someone else, but of the other woman being far more attractive and better in bed. Any suggestions on how to get over this would be great:)

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Try looking in your state forum. There may be club posting there. You can also click on the club link, to the left and see if any clubs are listed in your area.

Carrie

Corpus Christi TX
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Does anyone no a swingers club in or around Saint Louis MO

Huntingdon TN
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I'm going to get grammer jock corrected fuk me with that last post ~grin` fuk it don't care forgetabout I say !!!

I swear I proofed it it must be the server....LM*pirate*AO I swear I'm not drunking rum & posting.


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* snip* You never know unless you give it a try.

Write on dude...Just do it. But not just anytime "Whenever you see an attractive, married woman"

Now that would be idiotic and pathetic I'd add sad and stupid too.

Like I said in my post a couple of doors down the thread: A TASTEFULLY placed question works in the vanilla world as well as in the swinger world. Your invite to dare to ask the question or test the waters if you will would. lLke the thread starter stated in his post ...they where flirting with you in a vanilla world.

We aren't real big on swingles ourselves but I'm positive that Mrs. Finger would be turned on in a vanilla setting and that happened and a swingle used the V word to test the waters and see if we swang active that is.


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