ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY DISCUSSION GROUP This discussion group is open to anyone who is curious about or already active in a consensual non-monogamous (ENM) lifestyle including open relationships, swinging, multiple D/s dynamics, and polyamory (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, solo poly...) Struggles in ENM relationships often grow out of unclear expectations, passive communication, and a resistance to being accountable for your own emotions. This group is intended to be a resource for understanding and participating in these lifestyles from an emotionally healthy lens, for exorcising mononormative cultural conditioning, and ultimately engaging in personal growth. Expect to be challenged on issues of codependence, boundaries v rules, radical honesty, and others. THIS WEEK'S TOPIC Every horror movie has the same lesson: the thing you refuse to look at is the thing that gets you. This October, were looking. Ethical non-monogamy comes with real fears, and most of us carry them quietly. What if they like someone else better? What if Im the only one having a hard time? What if opening up breaks something we cant fix? This month, were dragging those fears into the candlelight, where they tend to look a lot smaller. What well get into Things that go bump in the night. The fears that keep us up: being replaced, being left behind, being too much or not enough. Well sort the ones that are trying to tell you something from the ones that are just rattling chains. Bad ghouls. Everyone has met one. The date who forgot to mention their partner didnt know. The couple with rules that only applied to you. The charmer who was all trick and no treat. Bring your tales of red flags you spotted, and the ones you spotted three months too late. YOUR HOSTS JnPplay Patty and Jon have been navigating the wild, wonderful world of Ethical Non-Monogamy for 30 yearsand theyre here to share the ups, downs, and all the juicy in-betweens! Married for 28 years and currently thriving in a poly quad, theyve explored everything from polyamory to swinging to BDSM with an open heart and a healthy dose of curiosity. Patty, whos diving into the depths of psychology, loves unpacking relationship dynamics and the magic of meaningful connections. Jon is equally passionate about fostering trust, communication, and an inclusive space where people can be their most authentic selves. Together, they support sex positivity, LGBTQIA+ advocacy, and the belief that honesty, respect, and a dash of fun make for the best conversations. Whether youre new to ENM or a seasoned adventurer, their discussion group is a judgment-free zone where real talk happens, insights are shared, and laughter is always welcome. Come join the conversation, swap stories, and celebrate the beautiful, unconventional paths that make life exciting!
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