I'm one of those horrible people with herpes. I got it in the 80's, didn't know I had it until we started swinging. We are totally open about our status, and tell everyone upfront. Wouldn't dream of hiding it, not fair to anyone. We've been able to find enough people to swing with in spite of that, some have researched and understand that with a little knowlege, valtrex, and condoms we aren't that dangerous, and some that have it like us. But here's my question for this forum...are there any provisions that would allow us to participate in a cruise, or at someplace like Hedo? Maybe like a special meet and greet? We'd, of course still disclose, but what I'm hoping is that there'd be some way to segregate ourselves, or even a special cruise or week we could attend. I get that there aren't many who are open about having herpes and that makes it a marketing nightmare...lol.

TBS