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TOPIC: Guys: Please stop saying you're straight when you're bi
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I've poked my head (pun intended ;) ) into these kind of adult websites over the last few decades, and it was obvious to me long ago that bisexual men are pariahs in the lifestyle. I honestly thought, though, that the last decade or so has seen a true change in our overall culture (at least in the US) and that it would be more "OK" to state you're bi (or at least curious). However, I continue to get emails from so-called "straight" male profiles (or straight couples) stating, "I'm bi, but people don't like seeing that on this website." (or similar).
Are we still really doing this? It's massively frustrating to see guys still "in the closet" on lifestyle websites because they know that they will be outcast from mainstream parties. What kind of cruel cliques exist where it's ok for women to be bi and not men, to the point of being UNINVITED to parties or losing friends? My feelings aren't hurt at all if your profile says you don't like bi males. It's not everybody's thing, and some guys (even in the lifestyle) still get freaked out at "sword crossings" ("Naturally, you must suspect me to attack with Capa Ferro?" - c'mon, EVERYBODY likes quotes from The Princess Bride :D ). What's annoying is getting mail from males that STILL hide their bisexuality on this site, because they know they'll get the stink-eye from lots of swingers. People, I can tell you from personal experience, somewhere between 30-50% of the "straight" men you have at parties enjoy some level of male on male contact. If I was 5'6" and weighed 280lbs, but my profile said I was 6'1" and 220, you'd probably be a bit pissed about the deception. From my POV, it's really not much different. If you're bi or bi-curious, say it, please. Ok, done ranting. I now return you to all the normal sexy-talk :)
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TOPIC: Guys: Please stop saying you're straight when you're bi
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