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TOPIC: Age Gap
Created by: Excalibur2012
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Hello all!

My questions to the group is: has anyone ever had issues or difficulties with an extreme age gap between yourself and your swinging partner? How did those issues work themselves out? How do the swingers on the forums feel about an extreme age gap? Is it something that you personally avoid? Or is age nothing more than a number?

I always had concerns when starting on this journey that it would be something that could potentially create difficulties for my husband and I. Recently, I'm starting to think that is most certainty not something that is helping our situation with finding local couples. I use the term "extreme" because IMO 24 years difference is pretty extreme. To put that in perspective, my husband is the same age as my mother...

While I happen to enjoy both men and women older than myself, I know some individuals that are not at all comfortable having sex with someone who is young enough to be their child. I also know some who are not at all interested in having sex with someone old enough to be their parent.

We haven't come across many couples around us who also have a large gap in age. And when we do, while they might have a 15 to 20 years age difference, the youngest of the two tends to be around 21. Not only is that a little young for us personally, but the difference between a 57yo and a 21yo starts to leave the realm of having sex with someone old enough to be your parent and enters the realm of having sex with someone old enough to be your grandparent. Which most people really seem to have a hang up about.

So what to do? Obviously we can't change our age, and I'm not willing to lie about it. Feeling pretty stuck and it's frustrating! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

~Em

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