Again I will rant about profiles and photos, in the opening post. When I see a woman's "ass or tits" not a face photo or no photos of the man, I am turned off. ( can see this in a playboy magazine) Or only a photo of the man, and woman posting we are a couple, then he has the balls to say my wife is out of town, can we meet instead. What an insult to everyone that is really serious and makes a great deal of effort, to find like couples for serious playtime. I see people post often that they want to be discrete, but when you ask for a face photo they send something totally different. Another pet peeve of ours is when the man says we will be at such and such resort come say hi. Why the H_______ would I want to go to a resort, pay the fees, maybe buys drinks and food. Then the off chance I might meet this couple, let alone want to play with them. We could have saved all this confusion had we only chatted first, and maybe met at a restaurant, or bar for a drink or even a coffee. I know it may be childish on my part, but I have started to tell people what I think of them and their profiles. YES you will sat just leave it alone it will take care of itself. My problem is we have been doing this too many years, and paid for too many sites (under $1000) to let these things slip by. These people we feel, need to get called out, maybe they do not realize the damage they are doing, and may even not be getting the results they want. AGAIN comments welcome..