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TOPIC: Newbie question and seeking feedback/advice
Created by: Helicline
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Like other SM in the forum, I have had very limited responses, if any, from couples that I thought in my self-centered view might be potential matches. I realized after messaging several that I had not set up my galleries correctly and so clear face pics and torso pic were not visible. I have since fixed that so I open all pics on contact, but I wonder about other things: Is my profile sending the wrong message? I try to be honest and straightforward, but maybe it is missing the pizzazz that would attract a response. I was advised to add dick pics, which I did in a personal gallery -- should these be open on first contact? I always use a personal approach based on a couple's profile (at least when they give me enough info to say something relevant), but 99.99% are completely ignored (I respond to any posts but I probably get fewer than couples do from SMs). I usually put in a message that even if we are not matches for play, I would welcome the opportunity for conversation/potential friendship, since I know almost no one in the LS in my area. Some profiles indicate that such requests are welcome, but even those give no response. Or is it just that I am married but my wife does not play and that raises suspicions? It is the truth but hard to prove.

I have read many other posts and would welcome any advice.

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