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TOPIC: Why You Don't Get A Response Message Back ?
Created by: georgianiceguy
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I had seen this list on another platform which is kinda interested of reading, and it's a reason why some people do not get a reply message back who they write to. I hope people take notes of this and help them succeed.

1. Read the person’s entire profile. The longer it is, the better your chances of receiving a response. The more information you have available gives you more of an opportunity to begin decent dialogue. Pick out at least two or three things the person mentions in their about me section and ask follow-up questions, offer your views on the subject, refer to a fetish and offer a story on your own experience and/or inquire about their experiences.

2. Sending a message that just compliments the person’s physical appearance isn’t going to get you anywhere. Even an unpopular woman gets a ton of messages regarding their looks. Compliments are nice, but most women want something more when having a conversation. Save your compliments until after a dialogue has started.

3. Swingers site is not an instant messenger. Sending generic hey, what’s up? How are you? messages will also get you nowhere. Who has time to send twenty boring messages before anything interesting is said? Let me just tell you: not much is up, I’m doing great, and you can see what I’m into by reading my profile. You have to put in some effort and develop your message.

4. If a woman is listed what she like to do sexually, that does not mean she wants to drop to her knees and blindly serve you. To be fair, some women do want to be pleasured and pleasure there partner, but you need to get their attention first before you can dive into general fuckery.

5. Do not message the woman and say, can I ask you a question? That is super annoying and a cheap ploy to try and get a response. I don’t answer those on principle. Just ask the question already.

6. Do not send copy and paste messages. I understand you’re trying to up your chances by sending the same message to as many women as you can, but I’ll tell you this: we can tell if it’s a copy and paste message. You will actually have better chances sending less messages that have more meaningful content.

7. If the woman has any writings available, this is a great opportunity to start a discussion with her. Read a post and then send her your thoughts on the story/post. She’s very likely to respond to a message regarding her writing.

8. If the woman has vanilla interests listed, this is another talking point as well. You might not want to jump into sexy talk with your first message and vanilla interests can be a good segue. Remember though, refrain from generic messages about the interests. Say the woman likes kayaking. Don’t say oh that’s cool you like kayaking. Say something like, I see you like kayaking, where’s the best place you’ve gone? Any exciting adventures? Engage!

9. Seduce my mind and my body follows. A lot of women follow this. Even bimbos like some intrigue.

10. Lastly, if your profile about me is blank and you do not have any pictures, chances of a woman replying are slim to none., I even got a message from a blanked profile and it was a spam, i blocked the person.

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