Hey all, despite being pretty experienced we have encountered a problem and are unsure how to solve it. We often like to travel, especially Bliss cruises. There is a group of people that we have become friends with and hang out with, they are in our age range and are fun people. The problem: one of the couples we hang out with, the man's penis is REALLY big. It is so big he unintentionally hurt the wife (internal bruising) the last time we played with them. He is a great guy, I am convinced it is not on purpose, but it is still an issue. Quite often we end up in the playroom in a "free for all" situation on the cruises, and I am not sure how to approach the issue that penetration with the wife is now off the table. Do I wait until the cruise and tell them in person? Do I (the husband) bring it up in chat with his wife or with him BEFORE the cruise? We don't want to hurt feelings, and we don't want to make the time on the cruise awkward, but the issue needs to be addressed. We will probably be cruising with these people for years to come, they are really nice people, and we don't want to wreck it. How would YOU approach this?