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TOPIC: Hall Pass Love/Hate Venting
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calcanfun2
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Not sure if this is the correct subforum for this (perhaps it should be posted in the "Getting Started" forum for maximum impact), but here it goes...
#beginvent We both yearn for more real hall pass couples, especially in our area. But perhaps this is more of a venting about general dishonesty in the lifestyle than anything else? In our experience, we’ve run across many profiles where the profile claims he has her permission to play alone and she’s either a cuckqueen, only plays in group settings with him, or doesn’t play at all. Of course, couples with that dynamic in their relationships are certainly out there. And we’re fine engaging the male half if it’s legit and there’s a connection. But so many of the profiles that claim those circumstances that we’ve come across over the years are simply BS, or there’s some underlying insecurity we want no part of. Further, some couples profiles seeking single males go so far as to state “no hall pass or attached men playing alone.” Don’t get us wrong. We get the interest in single males, and have engaged single males as often as couples or single women. But in many cases only due to the level of access and convenience. Hall pass males and females are 100% our preference. However, real hall pass males and females are just harder to find than a single male. And that brings us to a major question. Help us understand something... Why on earth would a couple looking to bring a male into their dynamic not also be interested in a legitimate hall pass male? Seems to us there are several maturity, safety and security arguments to be made for why a hall pass male might be a better option. Hall pass/hotwife females seem to be at a premium in the lifestyle, and many men (with logical reasons) actually prefer attached women over single women. Seems odd to us this would be so uniquely different for women vs. men on the whole (at least as advertised). Lastly, we’re considering taking down our hall pass preference on our profile. Why? Because it’s been our experience having it in plain view leaves the door wide open for fakes and bait-and-switch liars. With the promise of a couples match (which we prioritize, as most do) she refuses to go on any initial hall pass meets anymore because of the dishonest knuckleheads out there that have self-servingly taken advantage just to live out a one and done sole interest in her. Single males get a bad rap for various reasons, but we find the above just as frustrating, if not considerably more so. Especially shame on the mostly hypocritical couples out there that show similarly foul behavior. #endvent
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TOPIC: Hall Pass Love/Hate Venting
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