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TOPIC: When do you consider yourself as Bi?
Created by: mayhem8
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I wouldn't have thought this to be that confusing of a question, but I've seen may cases where a person will list themselves as straight and then post that they enjoy a Bi activity.

For example, the most common lately are guys that will post that they like to suck cock or let a guy suck theirs, but then have their toggles set to indicate they are straight. I personally don't care either way but it would seem people that do that are kind of screwing themselves. If I liked and was looking for that sort of activity I would tend to be skipping over profiles where the man lists himself as straight.

I do realize that there is a stigma attached to being a Bi man that doesn't exist with women, but hoping you'll find another man that is essentially lying about their preferences seems sub-optimal for finding what you want.

So in our case, the Mrs likes boobs. A woman that lists herself as straight could very well be freaked out if the Mrs asked to touch her boobs. The most honest thing to do is list her as Bi curious and let people know what her limits are in our profile text. I list as straight because I am, but have no problem engaging in straight play with a Bi couple, so the toggles may not be as limiting as some might think in the event that's a reason for listing as straight when you like Bi play.

To me, Bi play does NOT mean that you have to like ALL Bi activities, such as kissing the opposite sex or that some form of anal play is expected for Bi men. You could just simply enjoy sucking cock, and that is fine. So why not list that way in your profile?

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