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TOPIC: Giving Up
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HemingwaySwingercpl428
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We got into this lifestyle about seven months ago. I wish I could say we’ve had a good experience. We want to meet couples and singles, We are in the high end tier when it comes to age. I’m 65 and my wife is 63. We aren’t gym rats, but we do take care of ourselves. We are attractive and we are both educated. My wife has a knack for small talk and can start a conversation with anyone. I’m not as good but can hold up my end of a conversation. Our first experience with a couple was horrible. They were very nice when we met and we thought it might work. After meeting and chatting on several occasions, they invited us to their house. They are both big time 420 users, and though we partake once in a while, our tolerance isn’t that good. The night started out with good conversation, 420 infused tea, before we got started. We followed them into their loft and my wife and the female part of the other couple started messing around. He kept on narrating while they played. Really? I’m right here. The situation went from bad to worse. Long story short, my wife was pretty disgusted with the male partner. He smelled of alcohol and aggressive. Did I mention that they insisted on separate rooms? Bad idea. We left that night vowing never to return. We’ve met or scheduled other meets with four other couples, two were no shows, the third went extremely well. We had great conversation, had dinner, They had interesting stories, and we found out that she was in a relationship with another woman. No problem. The next day, she asked for my wife’s phone number which I gave her. She contacted my wife and explained that she was in a committed relationship with her girlfriend and couldn’t get involved with any encounters. They reached out us and while I understand that perhaps they didn’t find the meeting as great as we did, I think saying nothing would have been more understandable.The male partner reached out a week later and asked if we would like to have dinner with them. Unfortunately, we were going to be out of town for a graduation. I asked for a rain check and told them we would reach out later. We have met on young man who plays with us once in a while. Other than that, we’re beginning to think that most of this is not what we expected. Granted, we live in a different kind of city. Big enough, but with a small town mentality. We’re thinking about just calling this a wash. Any thoughts?
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TOPIC: Giving Up
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