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TOPIC: One legged swinger
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Disclaimer: I am posting this without my partner as my partner is no longer on board. I am hoping for some helpful insight for what seems a hopeless situation. What do you do when one of you decides this is not for you? After years of talking about what it would be like to have someone else join us for sex, We started exploring, checking out other profiles, and reading stories. I realized first that we really needed to socialize more, and second, I really needed to start working out harder. "WE"(I) made a few contacts, and chatted some, but no actual face to face meetings. My partner, who is very self-conscious, felt very intimidated, and scared that I was so interested. They have since decided that SLS is "bad" (I'll save all of the derogative explicit's used), and put up the morality fence. I however was ready to embrace the life style, and was maybe a little too eager. I am madly in love with my partner(30 yrs), and do not want/will not to be in another relationship, without them. I cannot deny the desires that seem to be growing in me. The more I know, the more I want to engage. I want to continue to communicate with other members, and even tempted to meet by myself as long as we don't have sex, right. I know the answer is "NO, not without full consent", but I'm pretty sure consent is not on the table. Not much to offer from my end, and I don't expect others would be too interested. You can find plenty of dirty chat elsewhere. I have read through a number of profiles, forums, and stories (love them) that talk about having a complete reversal of perception and acceptance over time. What is a body, mind, and spirit to do in the meantime. Thanks for listening. Any constructive advice or own experiences are welcome.
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TOPIC: One legged swinger
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