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TOPIC: Health issues in older couples
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Long time married couple still very much in love. What to do when health issues start getting in the way of an activity sex life? Wife has had multiple back surgeries and still likes making love although it can be challenging for her and I at times. Husband has always been the active (physical) one in love making while she usually just enjoys. Neither ever had any complaints with the other. Fast forward almost 40 years to both in the 60's. We have always loved oral and still do. She is really not able to do anything physical but just enjoy, and she does that with multiple orgasms. I on the other hand have developed hip and lower back problems and the last two or three times have experienced very sever pain to the point of almost passing out. To some that might be what they are into, but after trying it it is not something I am into, at least not that intense. Lol She has never had any desire to be on top due to not being able to have orgasms that way, and having knee problems. So here is my question, we have discussed it to no end and than some more. She has told me to go find someone that can be on top and enjoy, WHAT? This is what has brought me to this site. We both have been in the same room with another couple when they and us had sex, she and the other female had limited playing together at that time, that is the extent of our swing days. She wants no part of any of that now, just wants me to have the experience of having sex with another female that has the stamina and enjoys being on to. I feel very selfish just thinking about it as I have always put my partners needs infront of mine, even women before I was married. That gives me great pleasure to see them enjoying themselves and havng multiple orgasms. Any thoughts from anyone that has been in this position? I know the logical thing (maybe) is to go for it. But there is two problems for me: I have been out of the pickup scene for over 40 years , and don't know where to start lol. I don't want to damage my marriage, even though she says to go for it, and she doesn't want to know. That is a hard pill to swallow since we have never kept secrets from each other. Have a good day.
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TOPIC: Health issues in older couples
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