First, develop thick skin. Always be respectful...that goes without saying. If you can, sign up and visit a swing club. It is pricy for single men. Also try posting in "hot dates". There are many couples who seek single men. Most all of our hookups have been with single men. Don’t be discouraged!

When contacting couples make sure you read their profile to see if you're a match to what they're looking for. Try to attend some events where you can meet some people and get your name out there. As always be respectful.

Hi. I'm new to the LS after 25 very vanilla years of marriage. Divorced last year and took some time to just be me. Now I'm looking to explore and find new adventures.

And tips or advice for navigating would be appreciated.

Thanks for your time.

Tim