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TOPIC: Brand New to Lifestyle - What is the best way to meet people and get invites to parties in NJ
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My wife and I are new to the lifestyle. After a disastrous weekend in the city trying to attend two parties (one had no attendees and Caligula just wasn't our crowd/vibe to meet others) we wanted to hit a reset and find out from others how they entered the lifestyle. Where should we go now? Do more upscale parties exist in North Jersey or is the scene centered more on couples meeting each other? Any and all advice is appreciated and open to private messages as well.
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Its always hard to start the lifestyle or reenter the lifestyle. Check Hotdates every few days and look for parties, clubs and ppl that interest you. Make sure if you do reach out to ppl you let them know what you're looking for and into, having some sexy pics is always helpful. Patience is always a key factor; you may find a perfect match but adulting ain't easy and schedules can be hard to free up time to play or meet
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Vernon NJ US
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Also brand new here and not really sure what exactly we're looking for/open to. I know my wife would like to be with a woman, and I of course don't mind watching that or participating if the other woman is open to it. So far it has been VERY difficult to find anyone that we've gotten past just chatting with on her for that (or anything really though). Always open to tips...anyone have suggestions on finding solo women to play with the wife (or both of us)?
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West Deptford NJ US
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We're totally new as well .. all of us new people should meet up for drinks just to see how it goes with no expectations... If anyone is interested feel free to message us
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Netcong NJ US
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Go to hotel parties. We are not big fans of them, but you can meet people for future play. My other idea is go to a Bliss cruise, Desire, Paradise Lakes, etc.
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Boynton Beach FL US
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very into parties where there is men and woman love playing with both sexes
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Westwood NJ US
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We're new-ish ourselves. Going to check out our first lifestyle club (Karizma) this Saturday. We're shy but curious enough to dip our toe in the pool. Going in with no expectation of playing - just want to meet new people and go from there. Ideally would prefer a more intimate house party perhaps.
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Park Ridge NJ USA
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Also completely new to the lifestyle. We have two kids so it's hard to find time but we'd like to go to some play spaces and watch, or try a same room no swap thing.
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Edison NJ US
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Getting started can be challenging. Finding your people takes patience and time.
We're not really club people either. We really got started but meeting couples individually and them attending (and hosting) meet and greets. Check it the hot date section to see what's going on around you. |
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Ringwood NJ US
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My wife and I are new to the lifestyle. After a disastrous weekend in the city trying to attend two parties (one had no attendees and Caligula just wasn't our crowd/vibe to meet others) we wanted to hit a reset and find out from others how they entered the lifestyle. Where should we go now? Do more upscale parties exist in North Jersey or is the scene centered more on couples meeting each other? Any and all advice is appreciated and open to private messages as well.
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Westfield NJ US
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TOPIC: BrandNewtoLifestyle-WhatisthebestwaytomeetpeopleandgetinvitestopartiesinNJ
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