I am a senior man who has a very strong sex drive but I am not interested in getting married again. I have found ladies in the past who said they would be interested in sexual fun with groups and other couples however it is always the same they change their mind. I am looking for AARP folks who would not mind a single guy attending a party. I know it is difficult because I don't have a dish to share. My question is are there parties out there when singles can show up and enjoy our senior years?

anybody looking to play this weekend ?

I love getting older because I run half marathons and I am often one of very few competitors in the events in my age group.

For older people who keep thin and very fit, age is not a factor at all swinging because often you will be in better shape than those that are younger.

If your knees can't run, have a goal to get fitter in some other area than the majority of younger people. For me, I can hula-hoop for an hour without stopping!!! Very few guys can do hula-hooping, so, this could be an area that you can shine!

Re:..is it time to hang up our spurs?...

Contemplate:

1. Getting better corrective lenses. Everyone within your 40-75 metric has one or more of those barnacles of life. 2. Repeating the question, since you were certifiable, to the dozen members who vouched for you. 3. Listening carefully to their responses (fyi – silence qualifies as a data point). 4. Reviewing your decade old profile in case anything critical is similarly dated. 5. Copying and pasting your profile’s text into a program to edit spelling and grammatical errors. 6. Terminating the whining with extreme prejudice.

As an older, mature couple, we have felt uncomfotable in most CFL swing clubs. Is it our age? (60+), or that we have all the lumps,bumps,sags and bags that come with age. We got a note awhile back, banning 'over 55' from this particular club partys...is it time to hang up our spurs?