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To Swing or Not to Swing

Several years ago I had a botched MFF with my boyfriend and best friend at the time. "Botched how", you may ask? Well, it was all about him, which is fine for some, but that's just not how I roll. I have a voracious?appetite for sex, too, ya know. More so...my reasons for pursuing this ménage à trois was incongruous. I did it more out of desperation rather than fascination. I saw our demise on the horizon and thought a little spice could salvage our relationship. Besides, I always wanted my fantasy of being with a woman to materialize, yet I only got to suckle her breasts briefly and that was it. And the inevitable eventually happened. We broke up not long after and they ended up dating. So much for a first experience, huh?

Yet 18 years later, I still find myself inescapably interested in this lifestyle. Over the years these fantasies have continued to thrive as well as expand. I've never completely divulged this interest to anyone, except for the slight expression of my appreciation for the female body; and yes, proudly describing my one botched experience to a few men just to see their reaction. While there were willing participates, sadly...no one ever qualified as my confidant. While I loved them, I just didn't trust them. I humbly succumbed to the realization that these erotic thoughts would forever remain fantasies.

Then along came Dave. We hit it off so well when we first met. Oddly, sex wasn't on either of our minds at first. We were enthralled with each other, connecting on a whole different level (levels) then we had ever experienced before. The connection was irrefutable and undeniable. I knew I had found my match. Right from the beginning we could talk about everything and anything. As our relationship grew, I let him in on my fantasy of being with a woman, and WAA-LAA! Here we are!! Now OUR fantasies are materializing as well as expanding. The horizon is limitless, not just because of new ideas, but because I finally found that person that I truly love. I can tell him anything and I trust him with my whole self, and that, for me, is an extremely unfamiliar combination. Do I still get nervous? Yes. Do I feel a tinge of jealousy at times? Yes. That is normal even for the most experienced couple, but we know who we are going home with and we always makes it a point to tell each other.

So, what's my point? Don't do this if you are trying to save a relationship. It's not going to work. And if you don't completely trust your partner, it's not going to work either. You can have trust without love, but you cannot have true love without trust; not in this lifestyle. And if you decide you want to explore this lifestyle, be sure you can communicate with your partner. Tell them what turns you on, listen to what turns them on and work together to find that happy ground where you are both united in seeing each other pleased beyond belief!

Trust me, I speak from experience. Happy swinging, my friends.