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REAL STATISTICS about all Dating websites everyone should know

We tend be more analytical than most and willing to chronicle our experience in hopes that other people have the same interest in making the community better for all of us.

The truly surprising part is that 30% to 70% of members on ALL dating sites , no matter what type-vanilla or otherwise , have ABSOLUTELY NO intention of meeting at all. SEE ARTICLE -www. elitedaily./dating/use-tinder-for-same-reason-not-dating/18394

OR SEARCH TITLE the Title below People Are not Using Tinder Date to Hook Up, or Date Science Says.

EXAMPLE: Match dot advertises that they created the MOST MARRIAGES of any site on the web and this is 100% TRUE.

However this may NOT be the right question. 1) How many emails, chats, texts, Video meets did you have to meet that ONE success? 2) How many no shows, cancels or excuses did you endure to meet that ONE success? 3) What is the ratio of ONLINE EFFORT and time spent compared to REAL in person successful dates? What they DON'T tell you is:

Average woman spends 2.2 Years to find the one

7400 bantered emails in 2.2 years

Average of 60 to 90 failed or no show dates to find the “ONE” TOTAL time 2.2 years

We get 300 to 500 messages a month, over 35,000 in last 10 years asking to meet or chat. So a lot of it is DISPOSABLE beyond the intent of “I want to fuck now” from most people, or SEND ME NUDE pics.

OUR HYPOTHESIS many are using as an ego boost or illusory fantasy of popularity -like having 2000 friends on Face book. There are many articles in psychology today, reputable publications explaining the same.

Truth is DATING sites are MULTI billion dollar entities all often owned by one carrying company, if they actually reported REAL numbers ,who would buy membership?

ALSO if they were so successful at matching people, you would have significant attrition in membership and thus loss of profits.

SPOILER ALERT ,dating sites are NOT entirely designed to be good at matching people.

No study can take into consideration how many married men posing as singles with no real availability or single men posing as couples to mine free pics , or using the ONLINE sites to get off masturbating for self-gratification using the chat as stimuli with no intent to truly meet.

What all dating sites DO NOT tell you is HOW many messages and conversations it takes to actually meet REAL PEOPLE

Single men on average, based on numerous professional studies, would need to send 50 to ONE HUNDRED messages to get ONE viable reply.

Due to scheduling, jobs, life etc.. you will meet 1 out of every TEN viable replies you make.

That means doing the math; men will need to send 500 to 1000 messages just meet one COUPLE.

Don’t take our word for it, research it yourself, may articles on dating statistics no matter what type of site

We receive 300 to 500 messages a month, over 35,000 requests to meet in past 10 yrs , most are DISPOASABLE, silly introductions.

We have offered over 1200 invites meet us over the last 10 years , all double confirmed via cell phone and message on this site.

100 PERCENT of men promised to show up with statements like, I am a man of my word; I always show up; we have heard and received this verbally or via text HUNDREDS of times over 10 years .

ONLY 300 men have physically shown up to meet -representing a 29% success level on meeting FACE TO FACE.

She has chosen only ELEVEN men to move a sexual level within the same 10 year time frame, out of the 300 men met. A true success level of only 4%.

Why such low rate of success? Men show up older than pics, 50 pounds heavier , too drunk, too aggressive , rude , act as if entitled to sex, too quiet , socially awkward, boring, no conversations skills, talk about sex the whole time rather than simply enjoying the company of an attractive women and focusing on “connecting” with her as an intelligent HUMAN, and a whole host of other maladies.

It’s so difficult to find intelligent, well-adjusted men that understand how to garner a woman’s attention and join a couple

So far in JUST a year time-frame we have had 5 grandmothers pass away on a Saturday approximately 7pm for most, which was about 3 hours from our meeting time ,pension for death on Saturdays we guess

you must imagine that statistically the probability is low for all of them to match the date and time frame of our agreed meet arrangement.

we have gotten 9 car accidents ONE which sent picture of accident, showing a rain storm (HAD NOT rained in 3 weeks lol, smart guy),

Numerous I fell asleep, plenty of I was too drunk, 3 broken limbs, 8 hospitalizations, over 50- I have my kids that weekend AFTER knowing the date upfront and committing to meet.

We are still awaiting our first ALIEN ABDUCTION and DEMONIC POSSESSION excuses NOW that would be original and unique.

There are 2 groups here in our opinion

SWING SITES often ADVERTISE as SEX sites this is NOT accurate at all.

SEX site is where you pay to get guaranteed sex from a sex service worker; This is a "sex dating site" where all natural human values of attraction and choice still exist. Even if FETISH based a good MATCH must exist between the parties to want to pursue meeting and have a SUCCESSFUL situation together.

A quality profile and a LOT of effort and WORK is required to make it happen as it is on any “dating website”

GROUP 1

People with sexual "addiction” and a "need" like a drug addiction, for sex.

Couples that are trying to fix a marital issue like erectile dysfunction or marital boredom--they usually use terms like "add spice”, explore, try new things.

Finally, people looking to sexually explore for a short time. People seeking to fill a bucket list of things to try before going back to NORMAL world. This type often has no idea what they want, what they are looking for, and never placed any real thought behind their actions other than randomly starting a profile.

GROUP 1 will often be transient and GONE/quit the site after they realize this is NOT a "sex" site as most sites advertise but rather a "SEX DATING site " and all the natural basic psychology of human attraction still exist.

It takes EFFORT and thought to truly meet and attract the right people to meet EVEN more so on a sex site than the average everyday disposable dating site like Tinder, for example GROUP 2 - Long time veteran, experienced members, with loving, secure strong relationships that just have an open marriage agreement of some sort or ethically non monogamous...and admittedly non monogamous singles. When you see COUPLES and singles profiles that are OLDER than 2 year, Likely GROUP 2 Guess you know which group we are. Another issue.. INTERNET "dating " has changed the "integrity” of human interaction when it comes to this stuff. Interaction is disposable and most are here to full fill their own agenda..

Creating a longer lasting "relationship" is often much more difficult because most people couples , women and men included are PUSHING their own agenda rather than focusing on truly finding the best match for their intentions and compounded difficulty when people don’t know themselves enough to communicate HONESTLY what they want or need out of the lifestyle or interaction with others.