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How to write a QUALITY profile with successful pics

"We want to meet people like us" or " We want to add spice" , or "We joined to explore our sexuality"

WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE do you want to meet, WHAT KIND OF SPICE, WHAT TYPES OF EXPLORATION?

we see these statements along with a one sentence description and either NO pics , or just dick pics, or a bathroom toilet in the back round.

Does anyone truly realize that saying "we want to meet people like us or add spice " is a completely EMPTY statement with no value to the reader?

People like us could mean anything and adding SPICE is relative to the person who is writing the thought. WHAT KIND OF SPICE , threesome , water sports, BDSM , blood letting and cutting during sex.

We are making a joke here but truth is there are MANY people that like this type of play here

Most people writing a profile MUST stop to understand themselves FIRST, what they are looking for , what types of interaction they want to explore and create a profile with more detail around those specific thoughts , else we the reader have NO IDEA what you are talking about.

The swing world has so many nuances, if you dont spell it out you will not be successful in trying to attract and meet the right people.

HERE ARE SOME GOOD IDEAS here or any site because, after all, this is a DATING SITE LIKE ANY OTHER just sexually driven and based

Step 1: CHOOSE THE RIGHT PICTURES Without the right photos, nothing you write matters. This is an article about how to write a profile, but if you don’t have the right collection of photos, even the best writer cant help you

When putting together your photo gallery, make sure you look flattering in every picture, NOT a toilet in the back round or wearing dirty torn clothing LOL

If you can combine this with pictures that also show your personal interests and most attractive personality traits, you’ll have a very powerful photo gallery. SPORT PHOTO TRAVEL PHOTO WINE & FOOD

add something of interest not just a DICK or torso pic-contrary to what MOST MEN think .. woman and couples DONT CHOOSE TO MEET because of the beauty of your dick.

SIMPLE and pretty much common sense.

Step 2: THIS blog post has a structure ----

Your profile should be structured in a similar manner. Each “mini paragraph” should give an idea of who you are as a person, what you are looking for , LIKES & DISLIKES etc.

Step 3: Add some ideas that give people a CONVERSATION STARTER

The harder it is for someone to start a conversation with you, the more likely they will move onto the next profile, even if they were otherwise interested.

ask a question: What is you r favorite place to travel? What made you get into the lifestyle? What is your idea of a great lifestyle date night?

These are ideas to give an ICE breaker and start conversation on more than just "hey , what are you into" and then having to re type and explain that THOUSANDS of times to different people contacting you

Step 4: Remove all negativity.

Instead of writing, “I was bored or I just got out of a DIVORCE”

try, “I am looking to explore some new sexual ideas and have recently become single. I would love to meet a couple to learn and enjoy MFM”

Never focus on negative things in your life

Negative energy always attracts negative attention.

When someone approaches your profile it should exude optimism, happiness, and portray someone who is excited about meeting

Step 5: Show don’t tell.

Saying you are funny or adventurous DOESNT CONVEY ANYTHING

try - telling a funny joke & story or explain HOW you are adventurous and show a MOUNTAIN CLIMBING picture- far more effective

Step 6: change it up

People who read your profile want to know that meeting you will be fun and exciting

The more interests, passions, and personality traits you reveal, the more people will be drawn to your profile, and the more likely people will be able to find commonalities with you.

More commonality means more success and quality matches

Step 7: Proof read what you wrote

There is a lot to think about and create but a poorly written , grammatically incorrect profile is disastrous.

It could be something as simple as a phrase that accidentally comes across as desperate or needy, a really bad grammar mistake, poor language choice, a misguided picture, negative energy, or any number of the dozens of unintentional red flags that people accidentally show.

Always proof read your profile

Step 8: Put some thought into what you are doing

Time and EFFORT are prerequisites to a good profile and qaulity communication

Writing a profile takes a little time and extra effort, but you can create a profile that helps you stand out and meet the kind of people you’re interested in.