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A message to single men in the LifeStyle

Single men or married men who participate in MFM encounters serve a very special purpose and service to couples such as us in the LS. It's a purpose which delivers gratification and ideally, hopefully, mutual fulfillment and satisfaction. MFM encounters are different from common full swap encounters because the focus is two men on one woman. Both the woman and her husband want to feel good about the physical and emotional encounter. Of course, I am generalizing, and some couples perhaps focus on the sheer physical aspect of the experience.

Where am I going with this discussion..........We are surprised at the level of desperation and immaturity which evolves when we, as a couple, encounter single men. Even biologically mature men, men who are in their 50's or 60's and even early 70's, transform, all too often into the equivalent of high school sophomores. This phenomenon has happened with men who are VERY successful, not so successful, well educated, less educated, short, tall, slim and portly, etc. More specifically, the men to whom we refer, revert to being overly anxious, following/texting/writing continually, abandoning basic and simple rules of etiquette, even "forgetting" rules of engagement agreed upon just an hour earlier, etc. If you don't understand the message this type of behavior sends to us, let me assure you it's one of disregard and disrespect. We have concluded this behavior in some men stems from the likelihood many have not had a "real" relationship in too many years, although, we are not professional psychologists.

Whatever the reason or cause, couples in the LS very much want your company and we suggest you would be MORE successful in having such encounters if you could be less forceful, less anxious, and more respectful, patient and considerate. Thank you and hope to see you in the LS!