I saved my member name and password, now it's not there?
There are several possible reasons, such as allowing a friend to log on with a different name or deleting your cookies. Please try saving it again.

What is a "Free Member"? Is it the same as a "Trial Member"?
We don't have Trial Members. Membership is either free or Paid. Free members are limited in what they can do.

How do I edit my profile?
Select the "Tools" option from the left menu, then click "Update Profile". Click the tabs at the top to move directly to a specific section in order to edit that section. Once you have made changes on a page, select the "Update" button at the bottom of that page to save those changes and move to the next page. Changes to your profile text on the "About You" page require staff member approval before they will show on your profile.

My profile does not show up.
There are several possible reasons for this: 1) You do not see profiles of members that are of a type you are not interested in. So, for example, if you are a single male, but are not interested in other single males, then you will not see any single males, including yourself. 2) If your profile is incomplete or flagged it is removed from everyone's view. 3) Due to caching, it may take a minute or two for your profile to appear, especially on the Who's Online page. 4) New member accounts go through several layers and filters before they appear as active members.

My Gender is listed wrong, how do I fix that?
Due to problems with some members falsely changing genders we no longer allow members to change this field. If you need it changed you'll need to use our Support Ticket System link at the top of this page to request that Customer Service update it for you.
We will not change your gender unless your profile text descriptions match-up with your gender request and messages confirm it. For example, if your "Short Tag Line" and "Describe Yourself" field text is singular we will not change the profile to a couple.

*Profiles are for those involved regardless of marital status.

Can I change my member name?
You cannot change the member name of your profile without losing ALL of its content. If you are a free member, just create a new profile (with the new name you want to use) and then delete your old profile. If you are a paid member, create a new profile (with the new name you want to use) and then create a support ticket and request for your payment to be transferred to the new one. Please make sure the new profile is complete with all required information. Be sure to send the support ticket from the paid profile. Please note that a paid membership may only be transferred one time for free. After the first transfer, there is a $30 fee charged for subsequent transfers.

NOTE TO UNLIMITED MEMBERS: When you change your member name by creating a new profile, your ability to approve pictures/profiles will restart fresh after the usual three months waiting period.



Why did my profile get flagged? and how many do I get?:

A profile can be placed offline for but not limited to Spamming in messages, Rude Behavior anywhere on the SLS domain, Soliciting, Scamming, Stalking, advertising in the profile ect...

First Violation - Profile is set to inactive until terms are agreed to.
Second Violation - Profile is taken offline and group inactive for 2 weeks.
Third Violation - Profile and group taken down for 3 months.
Forth Violation - Profile is removed from SLS and groups deleted.
Profiles are reviewed by management and staff members for removal approval.

Affiliate Program

Block Feature

I blocked someone accidentally, how do I unblock them?
Click Favorites on the left menu. At the bottom of the new screen you will see a box; the left panel of the box says, "Blocked" and below that is a list of members you have blocked. Just click "Remove Block" by the member name that you want to unblock.

Certification

Can I certify a free member?
You can send a certification to a free profile, but they will not be able to approve your certification to show on their profile unless they become a paid member.

If my profile drops to free status, do I lose my certifications?
No, Any certifications you have will still show on your profile if it drops to free status. However, while free, you will not be able to send or receive any new certifications.

Can I remove/delete a certification?
Yes, you can remove a certification that someone has given you or remove a certification you've given to another member.

Certification Management

What is a Certified member?
A certified member is one that another member of the site has vouched for; indicating that they personally know this person and that the person is who they say they are. To send someone a certification, you should have met the other member in person. Once certified, your profile will show a green checkmark on the flyover window and when someone views your profile, they will see the number of certifications on the 'Certs' tab. Free members cannot send or receive certifications.

* You may not solicit certifications.

Chat Room

I cannot get the chat room to work! What do I do?
The chat server may go down from time to time. Just try again in a few minutes. If you are consistently having trouble with chat, make sure that your browser and operating system are up to date. You can also try clearing out your browser cache and deleting any browser cookies associated with SwingLifeStyle to "reset" your browser. In the upper right corner of the chat window you will see an icon that looks like a circular arrow. You can also click on that to reload the chat room and sometimes that will work and the chat room will then load. Submit a support ticket for more information, if needed.

Can I block someone in the chat room that's harrassing?
You can use the site block feature to also block someone in the chat room. To block someone, view their profile and click or tap on the "Block" icon. The chat room will not show you your blocked list, but your blocks will work in the chat. You can select the "Favorites" option from the menu and scroll down to the Blocked Member List to see who you have blocked.

Clubs

Question: How do I link my group and club together?
See full tutorial below. Don't forget to subscribe to the channel while there.

How to link your club to a group and post as a VIP member of SLS.

What are the requirements for Brick and Mortar Lifestyle night clubs?
1. The location must be in a commercially zoned area.

2.Must supply proper documentation that the club is zoned for night club use.

3. Supply Articles of Incorporation, if the LLC or INC is different than the club name a DBA or fictitious name addendum must be supplied at the time of application.

4. The Club must be open a minimum of 2 days a week.

5. The club must be a members-only lifestyle club. (no public bars, restaurants, Adult shops, adult theaters, or public rec centers).
6.Must supply a copy of the lease (no less than 2 years) or a copy of the deed.

7. The club must have an active website.  

Events

What are the guidelines for having a Special Event
SPECIAL EVENT POSTING GUIDELINES:

* No Hotel Room or suite parties can be posted as a Special Event.

* No cost can be mentioned in any posting across the SLS domain including, emails, forums, IM, Chat Rooms, Bulk messaging, Event postings or Event bulk mail tools

* All Special Events must be requested to the club coordinator 30 days prior to the event.

* Special event locations are on a first come first served basis, Locations outside the NY city area are subject to a 50-mile radius for any location for a Special Event.

* Only SLS can be promoted at a Special Event, there can be no other website presence during the Special Event.

* You must actively promote SLS at all Special Events, Banner and promotional items must be visible and available.

* You must sign a Hold Harmless Release form. (http://www.swinglifestyle.com/downloads/eventrelease.pdf)

* Special Events cannot be closed to only SLS members.

* Special Events Venue must accommodate at least 100 guests.

* You must have already hosted and posted at least 12 events.

* If 3 or more Special Events are canceled, no Special Events can be granted for 6 months.

* Only one (1) Special Event per month.


Guests will have the ability to rate the event and report on SLS promotions available to them for quality assurance.

How do I edit my Event?
From your Group or Club please go to EVENTS select the date you wish to edit.

When you update an event posting you need to copy the original text into the NEW body (In red font) then edit or add content and "Submit Query"

Kindly make sure to edit and submit events with plenty of time for processing as it can take a minimum of three (3) business days or longer.

How can I post an Event?
For a full Tutorial on posting an event please copy and paste this link to your browser and please remember to subscribe to the channel. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tcr36ZVWuc&t=1s


(Guidelines Update 1.1.18) PLEASE NOTE THE CHANGE IN POLICY

Posting a Cost:

No cost can be mentioned in any posting across the SLS domain including, emails, forums, IM, Chat Rooms, Bulk messaging, Event postings or Event bulk mail tools

1. Events on SLS cannot depict a sexual act in the title of the event posting

2. Events cannot have a cost involved unless you are a VIP member and have a business license in the name of the group posting the event.

3. Outside links: Only the Event Promoters website homepage is allowed on the event details, links may not redirect to any other website or payment page.

4. No Play for pay events can be posted, this could be considered prostitution and is not legal in any state, no illegal postings will be allowed.

5. Donations do not make the transfer of funds for sex legal and will not be allowed on this site.

6. DO NOT DOUBLE SPACE WHEN POSTING EVENTS

7. You can post the event in the FORUMS - EVENTS section for your area. It will not show up in the main Events listings, only in the Forums. Please note: Events posted here must be relevant to the geographical area the event is being held in and you must be a paid member to post.

8. If you have a group and want to post events throughout the year, you may from an SLS Group to post Group Events. To accomplish this, simply click on the Groups tab on the home page of your profile and complete the information requested. Once approved, you may begin the process of posting events.

9. Group events submitted will post on the main event pages under groups, as long as they are not set to private.

10. Please note that event submissions and edits can take a MINIMUM of three (3) business days to make it through the approval process and this does not include weekends or holidays.

12. Please submit your events if possible a month ahead to ensure they are posted in a timely manner.

13. Only one (1) event can be posted to any one location per day - If a joint event is posted both can post but must post the other group as "Co-Hosts" and you must be working together on the event.

14. Events cannot depict a sexual act.

15. Events of any kind may NOT include advertisements for any product or service. NO EXCEPTIONS.

16. Events must include the time for them to be processed.

17. Events can only be posted from one profile for anyone event unless the event is co-hosted by another promoter.

18. Only one event can be posted for any one location.

19. Fundraisers events cannot be posted on SLS.

20. No Posting Competitors Sponsored Events. (No Exceptions)

21. You can only edit your event up to 3 times.

22. Event dates cannot be changed, for changing any dates, the club's coordinator must be informed and admin will change the dates if possible.


OFFICIAL SLS EVENT POSTING GUIDELINES:

Posting a Cost
No cost can be mentioned in any posting across the SLS domain including, emails, forums, IM, Chat Rooms, Bulk messaging, Event postings or Event bulk mail tools

* All OSE (Official SLS Event) must be requested to the club coordinator 30 days prior to the event.

* Official event locations are on a first come first served basis, Locations outside the area are subject to a 50-mile radius for any location for an OSE.

* Only SLS can be promoted at an OSE, there can be no other companies that directly compete with SLS may present during the OSE.

* You must actively promote SLS at all Official Events, Banner and promotional items must be visible and available.

Favorites

What is the "Favorites" feature?
The Favorites page will show you a list of profiles that you have added as "Favorites", which you can do by viewing the other profile and selecting the "Favorite" icon. Your Favorite list is for your use only and the other member does not receive any notifications when you add them to your list. You can use the list to add some notes about the other member and to have a list of profiles that you can quickly view.

Below that list on the left of the page you will see your "Blocked" list. These are profiles you have blocked and you can remove a block using the "Remove Block" option.

On the bottom right side of the page you will see your "Private Pic Access" list. These are profiles that you have given access to your default private gallery by using the "Private" icon when viewing their profile. You can use the "Disallow" option by their profile name to remove their access.

Forums

Are the Forums moderated?
All initial postings of threads are moderated. Other content will be checked from time to time. If you have a specific complaint, you can use the "Report to Moderator" button and at that point we will review the situation.

Who can use the Forums?
*Paid members have full access to the Forums and all forum features.
*Free members will not be able to see the content of forum posts or post in the forums. They will be able to see the profile that posted each post.
*Non-members or members not logged in at the time will not be able to see anything except thread titles.

Friend Feature

Groups

Do I have to be an Unlimited Member to own a group?
No, you do not have to be an Unlimited member but you do have to remain a Paid member in good standing at all times in order to manage/own a group. Moderators must also be PAID members at all times.

Why was my group submission denied?
Posting a cost for a Group Event
*** PLEASE NOTE: No cost can be mentioned in any posting across the SLS domain including, emails, forums, IM, Chat Rooms, Bulk messaging, Event postings or Event bulk mail tools. We also do not accept sexual acts in the titles of the group such as "orgy, gangbang, fucking etc..." Hotel gang bangs are not accepted***

How many groups can one profile have? Each Profile is allowed a total of 3 groups, all groups must be active.

Can my Group be revoked? Yes, being a Club on SLS is a courtesy that we offer to our members to post their events on SLS, however, SLS has the right to remove this courtesy if your Group is not in good standing with our site rules and regulations.

First infraction: Group will be taken offline, and the profile must submit an email to customer service acknowledging that you have read and agree to adhere to our code of conduct.

Second Infraction: Your Group will be revoked for no less than two weeks and the profile must submit an email to customer service acknowledging that you have read and agree to adhere to our code of conduct.

Third Infraction: Your Group will be revoked for no less than 3 months and the profile must submit an email to customer service acknowledging that you have read and agree to adhere to our code of conduct.

Fourth Infraction: Your Group will be permanently removed, and the Group will be deleted.

The number one reason why a group gets denied is due to lack of content, improper grammar or capitalization. Group submissions with all upper-case letters will be deleted. Your group title should have each word capitalized and the description should capitalize the first word of each sentence and use proper spelling and grammar. Make sure you are not using the Group tool to advertise and that all events posted are Lifestyle events.

Can I transfer ownership of my group to someone else?
No. Only SLS staff can transfer ownership. First, make sure that the person you want to have us transfer the group to is a moderator of your group. Please contact clubcoordinator to have your group transferred.

Can I delete my group?
You cannot delete your own group. If you no longer want to be the group owner, we prefer that you try to find another member to take over your group. Please use our Support Ticket System link at the top of this page to contact us to discus the options.

* Groups/Clubs may NOT post events listed in their group/club on Hot Dates.

Hot Dates

What does that picture of a red heart mean?
The red heart on a date signifies that you have submitted a listing for that date. You can click on "Dates" on the calendar to view your listing, however, if your profile or hot date excludes your profile type, you will NOT see your hot date listed in the results for that day. By clicking on "My Hot Dates" you will be able to view the status of your hot date, as well as the parameters you have submitted, such as age range and profile type.

What is SLS Hot Date?
SLS Hot date is many things: A speed dating tool for individual site members, a calendar of events for groups/clubs or as a travel tool. The basic use of Hot Date is to find others that are available at the same time as you. With Hot Date you can: add yourself to the Calendar, look for others on the Calendar, contact other members and set up a meeting.

NOTE: Hot Dates may not include personal information such as web sites, phone numbers and/or advertisements.

How do I add a listing to SLS Hot Date?
For a complete tutorial on how to post a hot date please copy and paste the link below to your browser, and please remember to subscribe to the channel while there.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OaWDVwuozew

To add a new listing, click on the link "Create Hot Date" in the upper right of the Calendar. On the “Add” screen, select a date you are looking for, set your desired age range, then select a location and fill out the details box with any other information that you would like to include. Please do not include personal information such as emails & phone numbers. Please do not use this tool to advertise. You can then click the “Submit” button to save and add your listing. Please keep in mind if, for example, you are a couple and you're only looking for single men or single women, you will exclude yourself from the results and your hot date will not be visible to you. It will, however, be visible to single men and single women within your location parameter.

PLEASE NOTE: If you're Hot Date is denied or rejected by SLS staff, you will not be able to delete it but you will be able to post another Hot Date in its place.

Displaying Day, Week or Month In The Calendar
On the top right of the calendar screen, you can select your view by either week or month. The "today" option returns you to the current day, regardless of what dates you were viewing. Clicking on either option will display in your preferred format. The left and right scroll buttons will allow you to advance either forward or backward by your selected view display.

How do I change location or view my hot dates?
To change location: Click on the "Search Hot Dates" link above the calendar. In the popup window, enter the new city you would like to search and the radius (distance) of the new city you would like to search, then click "Go". This will display hot dates in the newly selected city.
You may now use the "Looking For:" option to filter out types that you do not want to see on Hot Dates, by only checking desired types.
If the type is blocked on your profile, it cannot be selected on Hot Dates.
Date selection allows for both Month and Year choices.

To see your hot dates, simply click on "My Hot Dates" link in the top right of the calendar screen. Your hot dates will be displayed in a pop-up window.

To increase the distance of your current location, simply select the new amount of new distance you would like to increase your search by, then click "Go". The calendar will now include hot dates for the new selected distance.

Mail - Bulk Mail

1.How many photos can be on one bulk mail message - 2.can there be nudity. - 3. Can pricing be in the bulk mail. -
For a full tutorial on how to send a bulk mail, copy and paste the link below and don't forget to subscribe to the channel.
Bulk Mail: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BdbfP4ipSOo
Bulk Mail Attendees: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YCo4yZMMVI

1) 3 Photos or flyer photos can be placed on the bulk mail for distribution.

2) Light nudity is allowed, no genitalia can be showing on any photo.

3) No Pricing can be placed in the bulk email unless you meet the requirements for posting with a cost.

This page will show you up to 50 of your lists that you have created. If you have more lists, you will get a warning to delete lists, but you still will be able to create new lists. You should try to keep your number of lists to 50 or less and reuse them when possible.

If you do have more than 50 lists, you may not be able to see them all. You can use the arrows at the top of the list to sort it by newest or oldest list first or alphabetically by the name of the list and that may allow you to see the lists that you might otherwise not see in the default list view.

Messages

How Do I Use The Mail/Message System Interface?
On your home page, you will see a "Messages" tab in the top right corner of the page. When you select this tab, you will see a page with a list of all the people you have sent messages to or that have sent you messages. The default sort order is the date of the message, sorted from newest to oldest. There are several other options in the top right of the page to sort by profile name, date or "online" or "offline" status. To send a new message to another member, simply click on their profile name in the list and you will be taken to the message center. You can also send a message by selecting the “Message” button from the member's profile.

There is a "Search" box at the top of this page that you can use to search for a profile name. It will only search the current messages that are loaded into the screen. It loads 100 messages at a time. You can scroll to the very bottom of the page and select, "Load more contacts" to load another page of 100 messages.

You can click on the thumbnail image to the left of the person's profile name to view their profile.

There are three icons on the right of each message entry:

1. You can tap on a name in this list to send that profile a message.
   
2. You can tap the camera icon to start a video call.
   
3. You can tap the magnifying glass icon in lower right corner to search for messages.

1. Profile location
   
2. Tagline text
   
3. Age, height, weight, orientation and drink and smoke status of each member
   
4. Looking For text
   
5. Description text
   
6. Fantasies text
   
7. Additional Comments text
   
8. Who are you looking for? (couples, females or males and you can block these)
   
9. What Sort of Pleasures are you Seeking? (Watch, Soft or Full)
   
10. Age range that you are interested in
    
11. Whether you are interested in others that drink or smoke

1. Your real name
   
2. Your email address
   
3. Your password
   
4. There is a delete button to submit your profile for deletion

1. Biometrics
   
2. Remember Me
   
3. Ignore Updates
   
4. Metric Units
   
5. Who Viewed Me
   
6. Google Maps
   
7. Language
   
8. Notifications

Other

Why is my Friends Online list not showing pictures?
If you have 10 or more friends online at any given time, the list will only show the profile names and will not show pictures. If there are less than 10 friends online, the list will show the default picture (if they have one) along with the profile name.

What is a "Meeting Card"?
Meeting cards are personalized cards that you can design and print and then use to hand out at clubs, etc...
Meeting Card Creator

Is there any way to open Profiles/Messages in a different window so I don't have to go back and forth.
Yes, you can hold down the shift key when you click on a link, the link will open in a new window. You can also hold down the CTRL key to open a new tab instead of a whole new window. These are functions of most browsers.

Pictures

How do I request access to someone else's private pictures?
That is a feature of the mobile app. On the app, you can view someone's profile and you will see an option on one of their private pictures to request access.

What are personal pictures?
Your personal picture area is a place where you can post most any type of picture (see below for what is not allowed). You can then create custom personal galleries to share these pictures. Unlike public/private, your personal pictures do not have to show you in them. They can show landscapes, objects, memes, etc... Explicit content can be shown in the personal area. Unlimited members will initially view and approve your personal pictures. After approval, they will be locked in your personal gallery and you must share them for anyone else to see them. NOTE that the mobile app does not support personal pictures at this time.


Content not allowed for Personal Pictures:

What is the number that I see in the bottom right corner of the default picture?
The number in the bottom right corner of the default picture is the number of pictures that are posted on that profile.

What are default galleries?
Your profile has two default galleries: The default Public gallery and the default Private gallery. These two galleries cannot be deleted or edited. All public pictures that you upload are automatically added to the default public gallery and all private pictures that you upload are added to the default private gallery. For the public default gallery, every member of the site has access to these pictures. For the private default gallery, only those that you give access to can see them. If you do not want to use the default private gallery, just do not give anyone access to that gallery and you can create your own custom private galleries to divide up your private pictures and grant access. NOTE: You will be able to see your own default private pictures without having to give yourself access.

How do I allow people access to my Personal Pictures?
For people to view your Personal pictures, you must first create a Personal Gallery and then add the pictures to the gallery.
To create a Personal Gallery, go to "Tools" and select "Manage Galleries" and then click on the "Create Gallery" tab at the top. From there, enter a title for your gallery and click the "Personal" button to select it and then click "Submit Step 1 of 2". On step 2 you will need to add the Personal pictures to the gallery by clicking on "Add" under each picture, then click the "Return to Gallery Home" button to save the new gallery.
On the MANAGE GALLERY screen tab, you can add members to the list of who can view the gallery and you can set how long they are able to view it by clicking EDIT on any given Gallery.
Permissions may also be granted by going to the profile you wish to grant access to and clicking on the “Binoculars" icon.
*You may also create Galleries for all other picture types if you are a Paid member.

How do I remove someone's access to my Personal Gallery?
Select "Tools" from the left-hand menu, then select "Manage Galleries" and click the "Edit" link on the appropriate gallery. Now click the "Edit Gallery Permissions" button and you will see a list titled "Access List & Expiration". Highlight the name of the person that you wish to remove and click on the "Remove" button below the list.
Permissions may also be modified by going to the profile you wish to remove access from and clicking on the “Binocular” icon. After selecting the "Binocular" icon, you will see a list of all your custom galleries. If the member has access to one or more of them, you will see an "Edit Gallery Permissions" button by that gallery and you can click on that button to go to the page to remove access.

Why do I receive an error when trying to upload my picture?
One common cause of this is when you try to upload a screen shot from a phone, such as an iPhone. These screen shots are in a non-standard format that our site does not support. If this is the case, try converting the picture to another format or upload the original picture.

What is the best size for pictures?
Pictures should ideally be 1024 pixels for the longest dimension (width or height). If a picture is smaller than this, it may be enlarged by the site which could reduce the quality of the image. Larger pictures will be reduced, which should be ok, but they will take longer for you to upload. Pictures will need to be at least 250x250 pixels in size and no larger than 5MB in order to be uploaded to the site.

How do I upload (post) pictures to my profile?
Upload Pictures

What are Galleries?
Galleries allow members to combine images into groups and then share on a granular level. To access Galleries, go to Tools, Manage Galleries and click Create Gallery. You can create Public, Private, and Personal Galleries. Once you create a gallery, you choose which pictures you want associated with that gallery and then you select the other members that you would like to share the gallery with. Note that at this time the mobile app does not support custom galleries. Mobile app users will not be able to view any of your custom galleries.

How do I delete pictures from my profile?
Manage Pictures
To delete a picture select the ‘X’ in the upper right corner of the picture you wish to delete. You should then get a pop-up box that confirms that you want to delete the picture. Select ‘Ok’ to delete the picture.

Someone has copied my pictures. What can I do?
If you believe that someone has copied your pictures, first you will need to send us a picture of yourself (with face shown) holding a handwritten sign that states your member name and "SwingLifeStyle" or "SLS" (this establishes proof that you are the rightful owner of the picture(s)). You can e-mail the picture to: [email protected]. If we can make a determination that the picture(s) on the other profile are yours, we will then remove the picture(s) and send the offending member a warning and document the incident. We are only able to control what members do from within our site. If a picture is posted on another site, we are not able to take any action against a member on our site as we just do not have the resources to prove where a picture came from (please let us know if you believe this to be the case and we will at least make a note of it). NOTE: We take every precaution to protect pictures posted on our site, but due to the nature of the internet and the way browsers operate, no picture that someone else can view is completely copy proof.

What are the types of picture ratings and who can view them?
We rate pictures under different categories:

I uploaded pictures as "private", but when I view my profile I see them listed.
All members are able to see their Private pics on their Profile page. You are no longer required to give yourself permission to see your Private pictures. You can verify this by clicking on the "Favorites" link and seeing if your member name is listed in the private picture access list. You can also see which of your pictures are private by going to "Tools" and "Manage Pictures."

What kind of pictures can I add to my profile as Public or Private?
You can upload pictures of yourself (or your partner for a couple). Pictures must contain at least one of the profile owners in them and can contain absolutely NO children or anything illegal (blatant pictures of children or illegal acts will result in your profile being flagged and taken offline). The person should be clearly shown and generally should be the main subject of the picture. Pictures showing closeups of body parts (such as hands or feet) or pictures that have been heavily "photoshopped" may be rejected at the discretion of SLS Staff. Pictures of JUST cartoons, drawings, animals, landscapes, or objects are not acceptable. Pictures cannot list any web addresses or any commercial advertising. A single male profile cannot show pictures with just females in them and a single female profile cannot show pictures with just males in them. Please use the best quality picture that you can. No one wants to view dark, low quality pictures or pictures with lots of cut-outs or blocked out areas. No pictures of "Skat play" (fecal play) will be allowed anywhere on the site.

Can I send someone a picture when I message them?
Yes, you can attach one (1) picture to a message being sent to a PAID member. You cannot attach personal pictures to messages. To send a public or private picture, go to the message screen for the other profile and you will see an icon in the lower left corner (to the left of where you enter your message text). Select that icon and it will open a window that lists your public and private pictures. You can select one from that window to send to the other person. Free members cannot see attached pictures.

Private Pictures: I gave someone access to my Private Pictures but now I want to remove access and not allow that member to see my private pictures.
You can see who has access to your private pictures and remove private picture access from the Favorites Page. The tool is at the bottom of the Favorites page.

Private Pictures: What are Private Pictures and how do they work.
Private pictures are just that, Private. Your private pictures can only be seen by PAID members if you attach one (1) to a mail message or give that member permission to view them (you can grant permissions in the middle of a members profile via the Key Icon).

I uploaded pictures, but I can't see them.
We approve pictures ASAP, but sometimes it takes up to 24 business hours. If it's been more than 24 business hours and the picture is still listed as 'pending', please try deleting it and re-uploading. If you upload a picture that violates our policies, it will be removed and you should receive a message as to why it was removed. If you upload duplicate pictures, generally all but one copy will be removed.

How many pictures can I have.
There is a 500 picture limit which includes all categories. Only the first 5 pictures can be seen on your main profile, if you have more than 5, there will be a link to a "Gallery Page".

Privacy Features

Profile

Can a deleted profile be restored?
If the profile is still pending deletion, we can restore it. Profiles remain pending deletion for 7 days and then they are permanently deleted. A permanently deleted profile cannot be restored. If there was a payment attached to the profile that was made less than 6 months ago, you can have the remainder of that payment applied to a new profile. Please contact support using the ticket system for that.

I want to take a break and not be visible to any members, can I do this?
You cannot block all member types and still be able to view other profiles, or be "invisible" and still view profiles. If you will not be using the site at all, your profile will automatically stop showing in searches after 30 days of not logging in to the site.

What does the green bubble on the right top hand side of a profile mean?
It means the profile is online or was recently online.

What do the Interest Levels on a profile represent?
The interest levels (or bars) show the degree that a person or couple is interested in the different types of swinging (Tame, Moderate, or Wild) and different genders (Couples, Males, Females). For types of swinging, the options are "No", "Maybe", "A Little", "Yes", and "Definitely" and for genders the options are "Block Them", "No", "Maybe", "A Little", "Yes", and "Definitely". The orange level bar will be adjusted according to the answer you select for each question. No bar indicates no interest, a short bar indicates some interest, and a long bar indicates that you are very interested in that type of activity or gender.

What are the definitions of the terms, "Tame", "Moderate", and "Wild" when filling out your profile?

How do I delete my profile?
We hate to see you go. If you are sure, please use the button below and follow the instructions on that page:
Delete My Profile

What are the requirements for the gender of a profile?
Profile gender can be modified, please contact customerservice for instructions after you update profile content.
Your profile gender should match your participation; if a male and female are both present at the time of play (even if one of them is not actively playing), you should be a couple. A married male (or female) whose wife (or husband) is not present is a single male (or single female).
Two or more males are considered a single male.
Two or more females are considered a single female.
In the case of a trans-sexual or pre-op person, the profile is considered single male; post-op can be listed as a female.
In the case of a transgendered/ pre-op or trans-sexual couple the profile will be listed as a single male profile.
NOTE: A profile with a pre-op/transgendered person will only be updated after "ALL" surgeries have been completed.

What Content is not allowed in my profile?
Your profile should only advertise you/your partner. It should not discuss any type of business, web site, product, service, group or clubs/parties. Illegal activities should also NOT be discussed in your profile. Please try to be polite when creating your profile. Do not use any derogatory or racist language. Political content should not be posted in your profile. You can express your philosophical beliefs, such as liberal or conservative, but you should not be listing anything positive or negative about specific candidates.
Profiles may not contain personal contact information. Your profile text cannot reference any other profile names.

I want my profile to be invisible to certain types of members. Can I do this?
Yes, you can click on "Edit Profile" from the drop down box at the top of your home page and then select the "Preferences" tab to control who can see your profile.

To make your profile invisible to free members (if you are paid), click on the "Tools" button from your home page, then "Privacy Features" and select if you would like to be visible or invisible to free members.

I found a profile that has a problem, is there anything I can do?
Yes, if you are a paid member, you can submit a review on a profile. Open up the profile and click on, "Tell support to review this profile, it has problems." You can then enter a description of the problem and submit it to us for review. This will be kept confidential. NOTE: Please DO NOT use the review system to ask a question about your own profile. Sending a support ticket will get you an answer much quicker.
If you are a free member please send Customer Service a message about your concern.

Can I use HTML in my profile?
No, due to security concerns, we do not allow the use of HTML tags in profiles (or messages).

I updated my profile, but when I view it I don't see the changes.
Profile updates are processed and approved by SLS staff members. This may take up to 48 hours. You will not see your changes until they are approved.

What is that Green Check Mark for?
This indicates that another paid member has certified that member as genuine (by meeting them in person or 'chatting' via webcam).


* Profiles may take a business day to be approved.

Search

Can I limit my searches based on the Star rating system?
The Star system lets you rate other profiles for your information only (no one else sees your ratings). You cannot search based on the numbers of stars you rate a profile, but you can eliminate profiles from searches if you give them zero stars (No Interest).

May I search using the Interest Meter?
The Interest Meter (orange bars) allows you to indicate what level of interest you have in other member types (couples, males, females). It gives visual indicators (orange bars) for other members to see when viewing your profile. It only has minimal effect on your searches. Blocked members are automatically marked as no interest and will not show in searches.

City, State Country Search
When using 'Find a search code' you can only enter one item at a time, for example the City you are looking for (Miami) NOT the city and state (Miami, FL). The search code is usually the zipcode (for U.S. Cities). Please only use the first three characters for Canadian postal codes.

Sex Stories

Support

Supported Browsers

Trouble Shooting

How do I clear the cache on my Apple device?
Safari: iPhone/iPad
Safari: Mac

How do I clear the cache in Mozilla Firefox?
Firefox: Clear Cache/Cookies

Unlimited Member Tools

Profiles
This is where Unlimited members can help the site approve new profiles.

You will see two buttons at the top of the page:

Pictures
This is where Unlimited members can help the site approve new public and personal pictures. At the top, you will see the CATEGORY (Public or Personal) and the PROFILE TYPE (Male, Female or Couple - Male/Female). Below that you will see the actual picture and to the right of the picture, you will see 7 buttons. Below are the instructions for each button.

Use "CHILD SAFE" button for:
Any 'G' rated pictures of people

Use "NOT CHILD SAFE" button for:
Nudity
Excessive kissing
Excessive cleavage
Suggestive poses (spread eagle, straddling an object, fetish, etc.)
Closeups and/or "cropped" photos of the non-nude torso

Use "NO PERSON" button for:
Any picture not showing a person
A crowd of people (no specific person or couple shown)

Use "EXPLICIT" button for:
Grabbing and/or touching the genitals by either self or someone else
Any sexual act shown including oral (clothed or nude)
Closeups and/or "cropped" photos of nude genitals
An erection shown for a male

Use "BAD PHOTO" button for:
Sideways or upside down pictures
ANY children being shown
Anything illegal
Web addresses shown
Pictures that are advertisements
No "Skat play" (fecal play) can be shown
Screenshots (pictures of a captured device screen)

Use "I AM UNSURE" button for:
If you are not sure, use to skip the picture and not rate it

Use "PROFILE TYPE MISMATCH" button for:
Picture type does not match profile type.
EXAMPLE 1: Male profile with female picture.
EXAMPLE 2: Female profile with male picture.

Video Chat

Vip

Can I mention my club in my personal profile?
Once you are a VIP member, there will be a VIP icon, your club's name plus location and a direct link to your Club's website placed onto your profile. That is all the club information that is allowed on your profile at this time.

How do I become a VIP Member?
The VIP Club designation is for commercially or warehouse district zoned lifestyle clubs only.

For a full tutorial on becoming a VIP or having a club listing please copy and paste the link below.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BrHHGzA7_C0&t=118s


You may attain VIP Group status in the Other or House Party Subcategories through your Group if you meet the following requirements:

1 The group must be a public group for more than 6 months.

2 Group has grown to a minimum of 500 profile members

3 Posted recent events on SLS at a minimum of once per month for a minimum of 6 months

4 VIP Remains in Good standing with the SLS Terms & conditions for a minimum of 1 year. no flags on your profile for 12 months.

5 Actively promotes SLS to all people who attend your events.

6. You must have a working website for the group or club.
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INSTRUCTIONS ON APPLYING FOR THE VIP STATUS ON YOUR PROFILE

Copy and Paste the link to your browser and subscribe to the channel for more updates.

Visit our YouTube Page for instructions = https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BrHHGzA7_C0

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NOTE: The approval process can take anywhere from two to five business days. If you believe you meet these requirements, please let me know and I will be happy to point you in the right direction. Feel free to contact us if you need help with anything else.

VIP Status groups cannot be transferred or sold.... Any group or VIP listing on SLS is the soul property of SLS and cannot be sold or bought... This is illegal as we are the owner of all property on the SLS real estate.

If you choose to transfer the VIP group to another profile, the profile must meet all requirements for the VIP status, once you have released the VIP from your profile, it will no longer be eligible for the VIP status again.



Removal of my VIP profile:

Can my VIP status be revoked?

If you are placed offline more than 4 times in a year you will no longer be eligible for that status to be granted.

Being a VIP Club or Group on SLS is a courtesy that we offer to our members to post their events on SLS, however, SLS has the right to remove this courtesy if your club or Group is not in good standing with our site rules and regulations.

First infraction: Group profile will be taken offline, and the profile must submit an email to customer service acknowledging that you have read and agree to adhere to our code of conduct

Second Infraction: Your VIP profile will be revoked for no less than two weeks and the profile must submit an email to customer service acknowledging that you have read and agree to adhere to our code of conduct

Third Infraction: Your VIP profile will be revoked for no less than 3 months and the profile must submit an email to customer service acknowledging that you have read and agree to adhere to our code of conduct

Fourth Infraction: Your VIP status will be permanently removed, and the Group or Club associated with the VIP profile will be deleted.

What is a VIP Member?
An authorized VIP member must be either the swing club owner or an outstanding, high visibility SLS member referred by the swing club owner. The VIP member will be expected to act as the liaison person who will keep their Club's Events section current, promote SLS at the Club through subscription give aways, parties, co-branded signage and be the resident SLS guru at the swing club.

Who's On

Why don't I see my profile in the Who's Online listing?
You only see members that you have indicated that you are interested in. If, for example, you are a single male but are not interested in single males, then all single men, including yourself, are hidden from your view. This makes things easier for everyone since you only see what you want. It can take a few minutes after you login before the Who's On list will update and show your profile listing.