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TOPIC: Why take advice from complete strangers?
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Why take advice from complete strangers?
This question was asked in a different thread. It’s a good question, and worthy of its own thread. The “Better Profiles” forum is one of the best and brightest features of this web site. I wish other web site would develop something similar. It’s an area where people spend time and energy trying to help their fellow swingers, and wannabe swingers. It’s always nice to see positive actions in this increasingly negative online world. The main reason most folks seek advice is because they are not totally satisfied with the results they are currently getting. They ask for help in this forum because they see that people try to give honest and earnest advice. It’s good to get different and sometime conflicting perspectives. To paraphrase Wulferic Brian, help will always be given at Better Profiles to those who ask for it. Our profile is somewhat meh, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t have information that may prove useful to a newbie. Similarly, I’ve seen excellent advice about photos given by people who don’t even have public pictures posted. The analogy here would be an author taking advice from an editor; many editors are failed writers, yet their advice is sound.
This thead was started in response to Esperanza911l’s post, which is quotes here: “Not sure why people want or take advice from complete strangers who might be looking for completely different things in terms of what makes a profile worthwhile. Some of the people giving advice have some of the most uninspiring profiles I have seen. Just as I am sure lots of people would be completely turned off by ours. Minimally, be sure you are taking advice from a profile that you find appealing. Like... if you were writing a novel, would you want feedback from some rando who had barely written a cohesive sentence, or from a favorite author”
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