*Watch for your cues to leave. Unless you are good long term friends, or at least very comfortable most times when everyone is satisfied, it's time to start getting dressed and gathering your things in an effort to exit politely, stating that you respect their alone time, they probably aren't finished yet with some one on one, if they want you to stay, they will say so, and then you won't be the idiot that can't read signals. * KEEP IN TOUCH WITH THE HUSBAND AT LEAST, even better if you have permission to communicate with her. Don't just fuck and ghost and expect to come back for more out of the blue, unless they give that vibe, you will know if you pay attention. And if you all really enjoy each other's company, plan things that are not sexual, maybe a concert, drinks. It will still turn sexual but the spontaneity adds spice. *If you are nervous and even the shred of the thought that you may not be able to get your dick hard you better leave that MF zipped in his cage, you will NOT recover from that, and the shame will make it happen every time after that. Be honest, say you are nervous, and good folks will work with you, they already have seen it hard in the pics they know it s all good. If you have these issues you must get a Doc to scrip you some Sildenafil, make up whatever story you need to it ain't hard (no pun intended) I use it anyway and share it with her man because I like to leave her walking funny the next day from the extra hours I f play you get from the little pill. If you wanna bang wives, get some peepee stiffeners it's worth it, they have built up to this probably all week or month it's not gentleman like to let them down. *It's all about her most of the time, team up with him to glorify her in every way possible, call out audibles, don't be shy, "hey brother you want me to fuck her for awhile so you can take a turn with this incredible mouth? You are a lucky man DAMN" comment on her beauty to both of them at once instead of directly to her. Seasoned vets probably don't care what you say and may encourage candor, you will know. Newer couples can be very fragile, and you could possibly ruin the experience and be the one that made sure it never happened again for them, and now look they are divorced because they both wanna swing but have PTSD from you being a fucking caveman. Seduce them both mentally, it's all about FUN AND PLEASURE and that's IT. Make it happen fellas you are ruining things for the few of us that truly understand the deep privilege and unique pleasure that MMF brings to all parties involved if pulled off correctly. That's all I have for now.