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TOPIC: How to be a Successful SM in the SLS Community
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Created by:
Mr_E_33
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Years in the making:
I've seen the real homemade videos. Ive seen the documentaries. Ive talked to countless people about their own experiences and have been lucky enough to experience two instances of my own. I had HBO in the 90s and would watch Real Sex ;) Ok, last one is a joke. Albeit true. But still... I get the stigma of SMs in the SLS lifestyle, I do. I understand there are real creepers out there and couples take some extra precaution as they should. These guys have given the rest of us, who genuinely want to give and love as we believe nature intended us to, a bad rap. I am ready and fully committed to immerse myself into this LS. Please be generous and courteous and educate me on the do's and don'ts. I'm beginning to think I'm going to be paying for nothing for a while before someone actually reaches out or replies to anything. I am patient, understanding and NOT pushy. But I have to admit the two threesomes I've had were spontaneous, and not of really trying to be involved in the lifestyle. And I must also admit just from what I've come across thus far, us SMs are heavily unfavored and already come in at a disadvantage. I see a lot of games. Blocking, messaging, and then blocking again. A lot of flakes and fakes. A lot of views and you reach out just asking how their weekend is going, nothing at all aggressive, (I myself will send a greeting only first to try and establish a line of communication and do so only once. If they don't respond, I move on) and you get anything back. Is it ok to message the couple? Do I just wait until someone picks me? What do I do if they pull the ol' ridiculous Block/Message/Block strategy I see on these forums that does nothing for anyone? I am your apprentice. Please teach me.
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TOPIC: How to be a Successful SM in the SLS Community
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