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TOPIC: Don't be an idiot!
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So first contact has been made earlier this week by the other party on another site we frequent (single male as the wife wants something specific better found on that site) but the same thing has happened here. He claims he checks in 2-3 times daily to respond to messages on his profile. He also states he prefers to to set up a meet with serious people a few days before versus scheduling something weeks in advance. We like what we see in the profile with what he is looking for being what she wants. In fact his initial message seemed like he not only read but understood our profile and wants to be a part of what she wants to do. So we respond and suggest we meet up this Friday evening or Saturday as we really prefer face to face over texting or other methods not to mention a big part of this is not really "knowing" the other party. We suggested we would meet somewhere near or even at his home then if it goes well get down to business with little time wasted (this is not our "normal" but it is part of the fantasy). Over 24 hours later while we are on the site we get a reply asking for our (three letter chat app info) or cell number so we can message and chat. Of course we are also told meeting this weekend would be great but are given no hint as to what day, time, or even location (we know the "city" he lives in but it is a rather spread out area). This raises a couple red or at least yellow caution flags. It begs the question why would a single male looking for a specific NSA sexual encounter not run with the suggestion of a day, time and location in his follow up reply when you have someone eager to do what you want? Part of this fantasy is not really getting to know the other party (barely even a first name) before getting down to the rest of it and that was clearly stated. Of course we are still holding out hope as we replied but it is fading fast especially considering we responded immediately and he was online on the site replying to a group post 15min after our reply was sent.
BTW I am seriously looking for an honest reply. Everything pretty much matched up and once we meet it is likely going to be a done deal. The "fantasy" aspect seemed to be desired by both parties. The kicker is while it could lead to repeat performances it was understood this was a NSA one time 99% sure thing she wants to cross off her "bucket list" and he states he enjoys this fantasy. Even if it was something she wanted to do again (it would somewhat change the fantasy though) it would not require more than a message or two within the site with no need to "chat" beyond a when and by then we will know where. Anyone and everyone feel free to respond and help me understand this mindset.
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TOPIC: Don't be an idiot!
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