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TOPIC: A couple or group based vetting system for single men
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I have been a single male in the lifestyle for eight years and I do not have any issues meeting new couples. The thing that is needed here, in my humble opinion, is a couple based system where a single male that is new, reaches out via a forum and begins to make contact. The vetting team could ask a series of questions, then invite that single person to a designated party to see how that person interacts with others. Currently there seems to be a site wide block for most single males, my self included, where I have no ides what is transpiring on this site. I do, however, have couples that I am friends with that invite me to their houses where I then meet other couples, or couples I have met in the past that are on this site and know me.
What better way to weed out all the jerks, scammers, teenagers, fake profiles and just downright rude people. I was on another site that was Friendly wink wink, and had joined groups where we chatted and go to know each other, then the invitations wold begin to come as we become more acquainted. Now-a-days the newbies just want to jump in bed with what they think is the latest and greatest thing that they need to try without putting forth any effort in getting to know someone. I know this may not go anywhere, but I have met some really cool people here on SLS and it came from being patient, starting conversations, taking the hint when to move on, and also taking the hint when they don't want you to stop, but want you to give more effort. I conversed with a couple almost a year before we met, now we are good friends! I am dying to meet another person and she and I have exchanged messages for several months now and it is simply that our lives have not opened up yet to make it work, but we chat frequently. I hope that we all come out of this current event with a different perspective as it will have an impact on our lifestyle and we need to be prepared. Wishing you all the best, play safe, and stay safe. Philippe
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TOPIC: A couple or group based vetting system for single men
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