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TOPIC: guy seeking advice with a new, married FWB
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Hi ladies. Hope I'm not intruding. I posted this over in the men's section but figured I could get different perspectives here.
I'm at the early stage of what I think/hope will become a FWB thing with a married woman. We've met a couple times and seem to click. She's sweet and sexy, and I like her quite a bit. She and her husband are looking for a guy who could get meet for threesomes sometimes and other times get together just with her -- an arrangement I'd really enjoy now. My ex and I dabbled in swinging during our marriage over the years, and I've hooked up with a couple couples since we split, but this is my first time seeing a married woman by herself or starting something that could be ongoing. So I'm wondering if anyone has advice -- especially insights about what she may want. I've been making a point not to be pushy and to give her space to get comfortable, but I think I have to not take that so far that it looks like disinterest. She doesn't seem hesitant. On our second meet - at a park - she initiated some fooling around in the back seat of my car, and we had a video chat where she led us both to getting naked and masturbated. They're feeling safe after the first two meets, so she's probably coming to my place this coming week. I'm wondering how she'd like things to go. Should I be romancing, fix her dinner, plan on chilling and letting her relax before sex or show her right off the bat how hot I am for her? I imagine the answer is yes, be ready for both and let her indicate how she'd like things to go. But that gives you an idea of where things are and where my head is. I'm sure there's things I should be thinking of that I haven't. (Not about safe sex. I think they always want condoms used, so I've got a fresh pack and a bottle of lubricant, along with results of my recent clean STD test.) I'd be grateful for any tips from women who have experience with this sort of thing. What did guys do that you liked or didn't? What would you want a guy to know or think about in this situation. Thanks for your thoughts. Thanks for any thoughts.
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