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TOPIC: SF with married guys
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LoveMeKnot144
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I recently had (what I think was) an odd experience. Let me know your thoughts. I’ll preface this by saying I’m a SF, bi comfortable in certain situations but definitely not a unicorn.
Wife posts on a FB group I follow that she’s recently had surgery, will be recovering for a while, and would anyone be interested in keeping hubby entertained? I thought he was super cute so I message her. We then get in a three way chat on Messenger. All good, so far. As we’re planning the day and time, he says very little. All planning is with her. Day arrives and, again, all messaging is 3 way. Even how far out he is, where I’m sitting in restaurant etc. Still odd but I’m ok with it. We meet for lunch first. We decide to go play. It was….unremarkable. But fine. Not terrible but certainly not really memorable. He leaves, and an hour later, the wife messages me (still on the chat that includes him) how much fun he had, thank you so much, next time she wants to join, blah blah. Never heard directly from him. Not even a “thanks, had a great time” on the chat. Nothing. I’ve heard that husbands often negotiate and plan for their wives. But I feel like the wives have some input at some point during the process. To me, this was very transactional and off-putting. Makes me want to stick with SMs (which is my preference anyway) and leave the married guys to their full swaps or whatever. To be clear, I don’t care about the three way chat. I understand they’re being transparent with each other. That’s their business. What bothered me was he never addressed me directly afterwards. Not even in the chat. OK you get the gist. Am I wrong for thinking that was just rude and classless? Or am I just being over sensitive?
~LMK~
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TOPIC: SF with married guys
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