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TOPIC: Planning Etiquite.
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RusticMagic
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Okay while we try to make plans well in advance and not waiver between should we do this or that sometimes we have found it is sometimes not working as intended. In the past we or they have not always been available but we have been successful in communicating and working it out with others especially if not doing it at the last minute. We told someone we have met and enjoyed their company on several other occasions we would be available on a couple of Saturdays expecting them to let us know what worked for them if any did. Now one of those dates is coming up and no reply which is okay as the wife has come down with a cold so we decided to simply bow out today since nothing was planned (likely would have anyway or at least warned we might). That being said there is still the future date which we have had another offer for a first meeting. Now we let the other party know we needed to hear something back so we do not miss out on making other arrangements. We feel we "owe" it to them to not just make other plans since we said we were available however we also don't want to miss out on something else because we waited for nothing. The question is how long is appropriate to wait on a response before saying "Screw it lets go with the other plans"? I know this can vary depending upon who is giving the answer but we would love to hear how you would or have handled a similar situation.
BTW we do not want to ruin a good thing simply for a first meet that may not pan out but there is always the what if it does or would have? We never promised an "exclusive" relationship with others in the lifestyle but are not about the numbers either. We simply enjoy encounters with others when we can and as happens schedules do not always match up so being able to move to the next and then coming back later when you can meet up is nice. Thing is that takes communication and meeting folks to see if you want to add them to that small list.
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