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TOPIC: Are my expectations too high?
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kinksterhere
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Ok.... let me set stage... we host parties. This time around everyone has a kik handle so we started a kik group. I started the group to allow for some chatting and pg13 picture sharing. (Didnt want the parade of genitals that some groups fall into) we have 45 people in group. All are couples except for 3 guys and 3 girls. The party is 3 days away and i get a couple saying two guys have been messaging them directly. Nothing much but they were surprised since they had not been overly active in the group. The fact that the two single guys in the group messaging the wife made them more nervous about attending. So i started a chat with the two single guys and wrote this
"Hey we have a bunch of cute women in this group. Lets keep the random direct messaging to them at a minimum. We have no need to be messaging a bunch of people for private conversations. The last two years the single guys got action at the party. So chill on the side conversations we dont want any wives complaining or husbands getting irritated that some guy is flirting with his wife. Pre party. You just have to remember the dynamic is different with couples vs a singles meet up. Our group has people like xxx that loves attention and others that are very new. We dont want to scare off newbies. No worries. Feel free to respond to conversations, but just relax on starting them as we dont want people to feel hunted." Both guys said sorry. One guy stated he didnt understand the etiquette and so he left the group and is not coming to the party. Was i too harsh? I am struggling to understand why he felt it necessary to leave. I even told him everything was fine and to not leave. But he did. My wife said i was too harsh. Im posting this to just get opinions. I feel him being told to calm down on messaging the married girls of the group and his over reaction to leave was immature.
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TOPIC: Are my expectations too high?
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