I have skimmed some of the forum topics and something has perplexed me. How do you know how to categorize yourself? Seems like it would be obvious, right?? As I type this, I feel more ridiculous by the letter.... Being a human, I have days where I feel sexy, confident, and really close to HWP. Then I have days where I'm super strict with my diet and exercise because I feel I'm creeping over the egde of thick and into the realm of the BBW. Then there are the days where I see me dancing in public and I feel like I suddenly resemble a drunk potato. *mostly sarcasm* I have never been a petit girl. But I have also never considered myself average or BBW. I can think of a lot of other very colorful words to describe me, but none of them are a typical category. I am not trying to speak ill of any body type. Just trying to find where the odd little peg that is I, fits in. So I guess my question/statement/super long forum post is mainly about me wondering how many of you out there actually wait to see if the personalities click, and how many miss out on opportunities because the other people don't also look photoshopped in real life?!? Cause I'm funny, smart, and fun. And chubby. Oh and is there a category between HWP and BBW? *asking for a friend* Yeah, I totally understand the need for the physical attraction, nobody wants to do the potato. I get it. I just feel like I am so much more than some numbers that tend to make the first impression before I ever get the chance to.