A close friend of mine had introduced us to the life style, we are having a good time whenever we are together , the couple are just perfect not pushing respectful and things are good. But me being the adventurous mischief part of the equation feels like I want to try things with other people and explore more . My other half is really BIG on discretionary and she are afraid from raising the bar , I was looking for a sort of a gathering a cocktail party where not everyone is waiting to jump into action where we can have a chat and jokes humor can lead to conversation and..... maybe she would loosen a little bit! She don’t even knows that I have a profile on SLA and when I told her about it she aggressively opposes as this might impose a risk of an expose meh.... we are a straight couple in Westchester and we don’t do full swap we like to play a lot .......