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Wife dates boyfriend
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Wife dates boyfriend       04-28-2016 13:12 PM
Well, sounds very un lifestyle and more selfish relationship,, on your wifes part, and a SM that has no respect for you or your marriage, but you seem not to mind so you get what you settle for..
Quick shot
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Quick shot       04-21-2016 14:45 PM
I prefer they are fast ,,
Dressing like a slut or not wearing panties
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Dressing like a slut or not wearing panties       04-20-2016 11:21 AM
I always go without, it's been that way since I married and moved out of my parents.
For the women
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > For the women       04-16-2016 12:01 PM
If I wear heels, I am taller than him, never been an issue but he is the first man I dated who was shorter than me, really doesn't make a big difference to us. I wear sandals alot in summer :)
For the women
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > For the women       04-16-2016 12:01 PM
If I wear heels, I am taller than him, never been an issue but he is the first man I dated who was shorter than me, really doesn't make a big difference to us. I wear sandals alot in summer :)
Photos loading
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Photos loading       04-14-2016 16:22 PM
I tried for months to upload pics
Birthday surprise
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinging Single > Birthday surprise       04-14-2016 16:16 PM
Most sf, don't do the birthday surprise ,, we find its best to find them at events, cultivate a good relationship, then they are more open to fun nights with us,,
Needing help!!!!!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Needing help!!!!!       04-14-2016 16:08 PM
Go to groups start one
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       04-14-2016 16:06 PM
Perfect
Are You Picky About The Certs You Read On There Page?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Are You Picky About The Certs You Read On There Page?       04-14-2016 13:08 PM
We use certs to see if we are the type they played with in the past saves time,,
Rough N Rowdy? Or soft n sweet?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Rough N Rowdy? Or soft n sweet?       04-14-2016 13:05 PM
Really depends on the mood and moment,
SLS is someones hobby. Not a serious business.
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > SLS is someones hobby. Not a serious business.       04-13-2016 13:31 PM
Got your money, I bought in at like 99 dollars no waste I've had lots of fun over the years ,,, use it to find events then go meet people and that's the best way to use this site ,,,, (it's got so many free members we refuse to meet them ,, )
Where are the older swingers
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Where are the older swingers       04-13-2016 13:18 PM
O.T. we have met quite a few older couples at The Hop in Webster , 50's music to current, great fun watching all the couples hit the floor with their favorite songs
Why is it so hot watching your wife with another guy
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Why is it so hot watching your wife with another guy       04-09-2016 14:00 PM
The female of our couple (me typing) would love to find a straight couple I could watch my hubby with while I watched! Very hard to find even in couples that claim the guy can't get it up,,
Do you enjoy women who squirt
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you enjoy women who squirt       04-09-2016 13:56 PM
Been there done that, it's pee, none of the guys would admit it, but since I was the one peeing so they would stop the "oh its gonna be great" I know for certain it's pee,, and many other women have said the same , if you like it kewl.
couples living with other couples
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > couples living with other couples       04-08-2016 12:31 PM
We don't look for others to become friends, no sleeping over after the fun, but if it sounds good to you go for it ...
Hysterectomy
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Hysterectomy       04-06-2016 13:16 PM
I had the vaginal hysterectomy a little over a year ago and the HRT hadn't been great but health is and that's the main thing , cancer cells all gone. No sex drive at all to a healthy one for my fiancé, and night sweats finally gone for the most part. I hope soon you will be feeling better !!
Can you help a would-be newbie couple?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Can you help a would-be newbie couple?       04-05-2016 12:44 PM
No drama here, met in this LS neither trying to "finally" get the other to open to this, no dears no drama here..
Can you help a would-be newbie couple?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Can you help a would-be newbie couple?       04-04-2016 11:55 AM
Not interested ,,, drama heading in,,,
Did he cum or not?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Did he cum or not?       04-02-2016 10:31 AM
No
A few days in a warm spot
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > A few days in a warm spot       03-30-2016 02:01 AM
New Orleans ya can't go wrong
One word that describes you
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > One word that describes you       03-30-2016 01:27 AM
Humorous
your favorite way of relaxing other than having sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > your favorite way of relaxing other than having sex       03-29-2016 09:53 AM
Good cup of coffee and a long walk on the beach with one of the rescues
Find out who is viewing you profile
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Find out who is viewing you profile       03-25-2016 01:58 AM
As others have said another site has it we don't like it ,,
House Parties or Hotel Parties
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > House Parties or Hotel Parties       03-25-2016 01:53 AM
Our invites to hotel parties usually come from a venue or event we attend ,, house parties the two of us have not attended,, I have before I met him, he is hopeful though ....
Scared to death, people want to become best friends.
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Scared to death, people want to become best friends.       03-21-2016 15:30 PM
We have friends and vanilla events we joined here to have hot sexy times, getting close takes a lot of it away, we prefer momentary friends , just what works for us, that is the neat thing about this lifestyle you can have your preference and eat it too :)
After almost two years with the same couple .this is how we still make it work .
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > After almost two years with the same couple .this is how we still make it work .       03-20-2016 21:14 PM
It is awesome when people find what they are seeking, we are not seeking people to become this involved with but since it is what you saught, its awesome!!
Voice verification
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Voice verification       03-20-2016 21:12 PM
We dont do voice validations, if we plan to meet we are there, if your a fake you will be the one missing the meet, we dont want people in the lifestyle having our private numbers, etc,
Mastectomy ?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Mastectomy ?       03-11-2016 16:39 PM
Most people would like to know,, not saying it would change their minds at all but knowing ahead is sometimes good .
meeting new people
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > meeting new people       03-04-2016 15:06 PM
We are attending a event that seems like it will be really neat relaxed one, it's a pub crawl in Austin for LS from another site, we find our momentary friends that way.
Bi Orgy
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Bi Orgy       02-23-2016 15:15 PM
When I was with my first partner, we attended a bi open party ,, not my cup of tea
What kind of pictures do you like to see in a profile?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > What kind of pictures do you like to see in a profile?       02-23-2016 14:56 PM
Vanilla pics of you smiling
posting age limits
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > posting age limits       02-23-2016 14:55 PM
Everyone has what they desire
Straight or BI
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Straight or BI       02-23-2016 14:53 PM
A lot of bI men list straight to improve the chances of hooking up ,,
Kiss 'N Telling Etiquette
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Kiss 'N Telling Etiquette       02-19-2016 19:56 PM
Kiss and tell is a no no for us and ours,,
Swinging with herpes
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > Swinging with herpes       02-19-2016 12:29 PM
We aren't active but are very picky and regular tests for both of us. Just makes sense to us
Meeting other couples on cruses
FORUMS > Travel, Clubs and Resorts > Travel > Meeting other couples on cruses       02-19-2016 12:25 PM
No, when we take a cruise we aren't interested in LS activities, but there's swinger cruises announced on both sites we are on, maybe go on one of those?
Ever attempt a daytime meet up during lunch?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Ever attempt a daytime meet up during lunch?       02-19-2016 12:12 PM
We may meet for lunch to see if there is a click but not a thing would happen but lunch.
Where are the older swingers
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Where are the older swingers       02-16-2016 13:31 PM
We have moved from the noisy clubs for the most part to events and resorts
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       02-16-2016 13:29 PM
79 yesterday same expected today gulf Coast weather gotta love it
Do you enjoy women who squirt
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you enjoy women who squirt       02-16-2016 13:25 PM
Dislike
Swinger signs
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Swinger signs       02-16-2016 13:23 PM
Friends of mine that have no idea we are in the LS know a lot and they are not closeted swingers, we prefer to not advertise in our vanilla life and day to day we don't want anyone approaching us unless it's at a LS event or venue. We are attending a 2nd annual pub crawl that hands out bracelets of colors for your participation levels and will be interesting to see if any vanilla we run into know it's a group of pervs lol.
BBC! Only?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > BBC! Only?       02-15-2016 13:50 PM
The lifestyle is for each person/couple to experience what they desire,, we are not everyone's cup of tea,, we are some people's shot of tequila . .....
Latest received or given Blow Job
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Latest received or given Blow Job       02-01-2016 10:07 AM
After Saturday night out around 5 I woke to his nice hardon, him sound asleep, enjoyed slowly waking him up just to put him back to sleep :)
Married but looking to swing single
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinging Single > Married but looking to swing single       02-01-2016 09:58 AM
Drama,,
Anyone ever get burnt out on the LS?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Anyone ever get burnt out on the LS?       01-29-2016 12:16 PM
When I was a single female I took a break after about two years, then after six years as a couple we kinda got burnt out and did a lot of non lifestyle travel, started a business, .....
Bi-males who list themselves as straight, or are they
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Bi-males who list themselves as straight, or are they       01-27-2016 03:08 AM
Why do men post in the women's thread,,? Or women in the mens,,No different than my posting here. Nice to see you Jaime I haven't been in chat awhile.
Seems you ladies want a man with a bit of game?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Seems you ladies want a man with a bit of game?       01-26-2016 14:54 PM
This lady enjoys a clean,great smelling, humorous gentleman. We love cpls who can enjoy a beer around the campfire or dress for sensual nite out at a club or venue ,,, really into laid back mature cpls. The nude pics can be a real turn off, we much prefer to see that when time is right,, :)
Bi-males who list themselves as straight, or are they
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Bi-males who list themselves as straight, or are they       01-25-2016 11:48 AM
It is deceitful.
A Song to Suit your current Mood
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > A Song to Suit your current Mood       01-22-2016 15:20 PM
Here comes the sun,
Why do couples that are looking for couples only show pics of woman in public gallery?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Why do couples that are looking for couples only show pics of woman in public gallery?       01-22-2016 14:46 PM
I have tried for months to upload a couple pics of us,, last time as has been the case for months site is unable
Threesomes - Kinky - Random - Fun
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Threesomes - Kinky - Random - Fun       01-22-2016 14:44 PM
Hard fast rule,, we party out of town, keep our private life private.
Bi-males who list themselves as straight, or are they
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Bi-males who list themselves as straight, or are they       01-22-2016 01:40 AM
We don't like to be decieved and we do not decieve others.
Need some input
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Need some input       01-22-2016 01:26 AM
Sorry to be blunt, but I am very blunt, he's being disrespectful,.
Swinging with a disability?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Swinging with a disability?       01-21-2016 11:51 AM
Only met one couple in our area , the wife used the wheelchair due to her MS , great couple but we didn't find it comfortable.
Do you enjoy women who squirt
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you enjoy women who squirt       01-21-2016 11:44 AM
241fun, same here , we say thanks but no thanks
Discrimination in the lifestyle
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Discrimination in the lifestyle       01-21-2016 10:03 AM
Comfort levels with playmates is not discrimination.
Simple Pleasures
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Simple Pleasures       01-21-2016 09:48 AM
Morning coffee in a warm kitchen watching the neighborhood wake up ,, reading forums,,
Swinging with a disability?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Swinging with a disability?       01-21-2016 09:41 AM
When I the female was in my first swing relationship we met a couple whos female was in a wheelchair, had a great meeting and lovely time but to be honest never hooked up, just never got to the comfort level needed.
MFM play dates?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > MFM play dates?       01-21-2016 01:29 AM
Mostly the same here.
Swinging during the Holidays?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Swinging during the Holidays?       12-16-2015 09:44 AM
We prefer the holidays are spent with family, New Years is about the only holiday we may get together with friends for a fun night.
New STD to worry about
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > New STD to worry about       12-10-2015 09:14 AM
Great info thank you !
Full Swapping in separate rooms
FORUMS > General Discussions > Straight Couples > Full Swapping in separate rooms       12-10-2015 09:01 AM
We do not do separate beds, or rooms, we enjoy seeing and hearing each other, if we were going to do separate rooms, we would just meet one on one.
Hysterectomy questions.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Hysterectomy questions.       12-09-2015 02:49 AM
Had mine a little over a year ago, sex feels the same pretty much, no discomfort, pain, you may want a natural lube on hand but that's all I have experienced,,
Single men wtf!?!?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Single men wtf!?!?       12-07-2015 10:16 AM
We have entertained three single men one was from here. We have been lucky I guess we haven't been stood up .
Swinging, Non-smokers, and Smokers
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Swinging, Non-smokers, and Smokers       12-07-2015 09:42 AM
The female is a smoker and is always considerate , prefer other smokers but if non smokers prefer to keep orally fixated elsewhere
Why BBC?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Why BBC?       12-03-2015 11:30 AM
Never was an interest, we seek BWC here,, to each a fun journey!!
Questions to ask to set ground rules at first meet
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Questions to ask to set ground rules at first meet       12-03-2015 11:27 AM
Better for you to find your own way in your journey, enjoy.
Why does noone like hair on the kitty
FORUMS > General Discussions > B.B.W. > Why does noone like hair on the kitty       12-03-2015 11:25 AM
Well it might make a come back to some, but most wont be going back to the caveman days,,
husband like you 2
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > husband like you 2       11-30-2015 10:35 AM
We don't have that issue, thankfully.
Remember your first going down on a woman experience?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Remember your first going down on a woman experience?       11-29-2015 21:37 PM
Yes, remember well..
Bi or Straight single male to complete the MFM?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Bi or Straight single male to complete the MFM?       11-27-2015 20:07 PM
We only add straight men , we are more at ease in our preferences.
1 on 1
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Females > 1 on 1       11-21-2015 01:59 AM
I have played one on one with a gf, lunch, shopping, stay over at a hotel that nite,, He is not bi so no on the male side,
Multiple creampies
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Multiple creampies       11-12-2015 14:09 PM
Some fantasy will remain so.......
What kind of pictures do you like to see in a profile?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > What kind of pictures do you like to see in a profile?       11-09-2015 08:58 AM
We dont care if they are on the profile or sent in private mail like ours are, but we like face and body clothed preferred, not into xrated we lean more toward funny, fun, sexy, classy pics,
Masturbation parites
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Masturbation parites       11-06-2015 10:33 AM
Havent heard of it, would not attend,
New Site Preview
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > New Site Preview       11-06-2015 09:03 AM
How many more months till the image tools are available?
First meet, getting things going?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > First meet, getting things going?       11-04-2015 15:21 PM
We meet out if they are good to go to the hotel, we get there and start getting naked,,
New SwingLifeStyle Website Released
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > New SwingLifeStyle Website Released       10-30-2015 11:38 AM
Looks terrible, everything is so big, we arent blind, privacy issue, image tools,, same things before you took the ability to use the old site,, dont see anything that is better.
On the fence with comdoms
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > On the fence with comdoms       10-30-2015 11:32 AM
We don't let others freak us out or make us feel bad about our preferences, we are here to enjoy, does it take a huge amount of time even at events and group get together's to find that couple that we click with,, ohhh yesssss .
We need to find a REAL MAN who likes to play with a couple in Florida
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > We need to find a REAL MAN who likes to play with a couple in Florida       10-30-2015 11:13 AM
Dont rely on these sites, use it to find events, venues, festivals, seek out groups in your areas, make a few events and venues that will have other swingers there and see if that can open a few windows. We hardly meet anyone off contacting a profile here and chatting, it has happened but its RARE. But, we find a lot of others by going to the festivals and events,, we go flirt and see what is out there. Smooth had some good words in the post, good luck.
Please give us back the choice of using the old site
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Please give us back the choice of using the old site       10-17-2015 13:28 PM
yes give us the ability to use the old site as opposed to this new one,,
New Site Preview
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > New Site Preview       10-15-2015 15:22 PM
why is it that the link to the old website is not working properly now,,,
Swinging with herpes
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > Swinging with herpes       10-13-2015 13:11 PM
No matter how nice and compatible a couple is,, we do not entertain those with std, and appreciate those that are honest about their status, and this is why we test often for our piece of mind and for others piece of mind. Swingers get togethers arent a place to educate others on your std status,, my 2 cents.
Finding a couple that we both like.
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Finding Playmates > Finding a couple that we both like.       10-13-2015 12:51 PM
Happens all the time,, that is why we usually add either a female for him, or a single male for me,, threesomes are easier to get together.
Real Bisexual women
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Females > Real Bisexual women       10-06-2015 10:04 AM
I was a single woman on here for years, I would meet women, and their partner for vanilla meeting only, if we clicked we would meet a few times for drinks and such and then end the "he needs to be here for my safety" by meeting her and him , he stayed at the bar of the hotel and us girls would go upstairs. He could even walk up to the room, check it out, kiss his wifey and make sure her cell was charged, and if he needed to be IN THE ROOM, I knew it was bullshit and they were both shown the door.
Blocking Paid Members Bug
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Blocking Paid Members Bug       10-04-2015 19:01 PM
Like the old site.. Hate I have to constantly hit old site .. Once we hit it we should not have to continuously have to go back to it. I stopped using this site on my phone since I cannot get the old site to stay as my preference.
Tired of liars
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Tired of liars       10-02-2015 12:41 PM
We dont lie, we put our age, weight, all that crap correctly, and if when we meet your not as you and your pics sent suggest, we are out of there.
Single Male Woes in Swinging Lifestyle
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Single Male Woes in Swinging Lifestyle       10-02-2015 12:21 PM
ROFL some dude try to blow my hubs, and he will be seeing a dentist, def make sure you know your playmates boundaries, we would see that as exceptionally dis respectful. No
sls app gone?
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > sls app gone?       10-01-2015 09:39 AM
Any chance any time anything going to be done,,
Simple Pleasures
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Simple Pleasures       09-29-2015 11:55 AM
SP: walking one of the foster dogs along the beach, cup of coffee or a smoke either one,, seeing and hearing the ocean waves,,
When the hotel staff snitches on party guests
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > When the hotel staff snitches on party guests       09-23-2015 09:30 AM
This is why we do not party where we live, we go out of town for parties and try to limit the people who know about our hobby, you just never know. I guess I would expect that the employee would have better judgement but then again, I tell my bff everything, thats a tough one, sorry
One word that describes you
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > One word that describes you       09-23-2015 01:21 AM
Insomniac
your favorite way of relaxing other than having sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > your favorite way of relaxing other than having sex       09-22-2015 19:18 PM
420 and a walk on the beach , relaxes me everytime.
AARP crowd***Happy thought of the day
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > AARP crowd***Happy thought of the day       09-22-2015 14:41 PM
We love fall,,,,,,,,,,,cant wait to sit around a fire, or slip into a hot tub, and enjoy,,
Married Only Couples
FORUMS > General Discussions > Straight Couples > Married Only Couples       09-22-2015 12:02 PM
We only care for married or otherwise committed to each other only as far a couples.
4 way is impossible
FORUMS > General Discussions > Straight Couples > 4 way is impossible       09-22-2015 12:00 PM
SM are always easier to find and click with,, surprising but true for us,,
To Dye or Not to Dye?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > To Dye or Not to Dye?       09-20-2015 15:34 PM
Only reason my hair is 2 shades lighter is my niece needed to pass her test on coloring, I could not imagine doing that often...
You don't put your dick in crazy
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > You don't put your dick in crazy       09-20-2015 10:09 AM
Lol we are low key crazy just doesn't interest us..
How to Avoid Catching Feelings?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > How to Avoid Catching Feelings?       09-20-2015 09:21 AM
We don't have a problem separating fucking from those we love. We prefer not to have "friends" and keep this fun and simple. We have never caught anything lol so we hope that continues!
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