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Adding a Search and exclude by race button
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Adding a Search and exclude by race button       08-29-2015 08:17 AM
We would not use it. We have our preferences in our profile.
Who do ya love?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Who do ya love?       08-29-2015 08:00 AM
We do not have any friends we meet up with we are more just friends for the evening, maybe at venues that are over the weekend or a 3 day event we may see them during , but we don't see them after. No drama, just a fun time and a smile.
Became friends with from SLS but now regret it !!!!!!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Became friends with from SLS but now regret it !!!!!!       08-29-2015 07:52 AM
Good advice below.. This is exactly why we do not seek "friends" in the LS.
when is the age gap too much .
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > when is the age gap too much .       08-28-2015 13:25 PM
Five to seven years of us either way but not much room for gaps after that.
Hot Mama
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Hot Mama       08-26-2015 10:31 AM
Block
Latest received or given Blow Job
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Latest received or given Blow Job       08-25-2015 09:33 AM
I only give blowjobs to my s/o , I will give head as foreplay but not to completion with any play mates,, we like to try to keep safe.
Why So Few Nice Single Men
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Why So Few Nice Single Men       08-25-2015 09:31 AM
The men you described could not get into the LS clubs that we attend. I would think maybe you should try a venue that has dress code and higher expectations of their customers.
A Film You Can Watch Over And Over
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > A Film You Can Watch Over And Over       08-19-2015 20:32 PM
What dreams may come
Is there a sign to know who and who is not into swinging?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Straight Couples > Is there a sign to know who and who is not into swinging?       08-19-2015 12:38 PM
Never in all the years have I seen one person use any of this jewlery drivel.
Closed minded people in open minded activity.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Closed minded people in open minded activity.       08-19-2015 12:34 PM
The term open minded has different meaning for each cpl/ person .. Good luck
Am I the only one?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Am I the only one?       08-18-2015 22:13 PM
The most fun is watching my partner have fun, I happen to be the female, and of course we get a lot of flack, but its what we enjoy.
Couples with the men hiding their bisexuality
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Couples with the men hiding their bisexuality       08-18-2015 21:27 PM
That is exactly it. I don't understand why people aren't more straight forward it sure makes weeding out the ones your not compatible with easier. In vanilla life I have many friends bi and lesbian, I guess I'm just used to those friends being very open .
Using toys
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Using toys       08-18-2015 21:20 PM
We don't use toys ..
Couples with the men hiding their bisexuality
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Couples with the men hiding their bisexuality       08-18-2015 10:41 AM
We prefer those who are honest.. If your bi I'm honest we are not going to be interested in meeting or playing , it's just not our thing. We appreciate the honest profiles.
what do you do when you swing and the guy you're playing with doesn't get hard
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > what do you do when you swing and the guy you're playing with doesn't get hard       08-18-2015 10:24 AM
We have been lucky and have not had this issue yet.. If it does I am sure we would not meet them again.. Why go thru all this... It is suppose to be fun..
Corrected Question: Husband Uncomfortable With MFMF - what to do?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Corrected Question: Husband Uncomfortable With MFMF - what to do?       08-12-2015 11:18 AM
To seek out what you want specifically .. Your going to need to do a lot of contacting, talking, seeking. It can take a long time to find.
Single Male Woes in Swinging Lifestyle
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Single Male Woes in Swinging Lifestyle       08-11-2015 13:13 PM
Too often in my chats with single males I find they have a misguided idea of women in the lifestyle.. Some think we are desperate and/or lacking in our relationships..that we are all automatically interested or should be in what they are or what they offer. The line that made me laugh most was about how women really want men but their men don't want to share .. My S/O would love for me to want single males, has enjoyed it when I did find one I was interested in.. I am the one who really doesn't care for them..
Are you a fan of anal?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Are you a fan of anal?       08-11-2015 12:38 PM
No
Ideas for new app/website features
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Ideas for new app/website features       08-11-2015 12:33 PM
I don't want this site to be like the others and those things mentioned are right off another site which is one reason we are here HATE all the BS features to have to go block
Porno Sex?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Porno Sex?       08-11-2015 12:29 PM
Do not like the porno sex endless pounding.. Even with my s/o. I guess there are women that enjoy it but I am not one of them.
why is it so hard to get other to meet us
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > why is it so hard to get other to meet us       08-11-2015 10:58 AM
I agree.. Go out .. Events , venues, a local bar swingers hang out at..
Single Male Woes in Swinging Lifestyle
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Single Male Woes in Swinging Lifestyle       08-11-2015 10:52 AM
Popcorn ready
Multiple creampies
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Multiple creampies       08-10-2015 12:22 PM
Nope,,
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       08-09-2015 15:24 PM
99....
should women shave there pussy hair
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > should women shave there pussy hair       08-08-2015 21:36 PM
They should do whatever makes them .. The women happy
Jocks or Average Guys.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Jocks or Average Guys.       08-08-2015 21:30 PM
Average
whats for dessert
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > whats for dessert       08-08-2015 21:28 PM
Usually don't have dessert... But now and again a small sherbet
Massages for first time meeting
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Massages for first time meeting       08-08-2015 09:44 AM
I don't like massages so we would pass.
Women and Testosterone
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Women and Testosterone       07-28-2015 12:29 PM
After reading this forum,, I am thinking I am getting off easy with the problems I have/had. Great periods always on time, cancerous cells in the cervix I told them to take it all out, five days of hell recovery and bp issues, but I am healthy, cell free. I noticed about two years before my hysterectomy that sex was not an interest, im on the fence about testosterone, I dont really mind my sex drive being zero except for my fiance, I love sex with him, I have lost interest in additional play partners however. I wonder if this is normal.
Grooming
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Grooming       07-28-2015 12:23 PM
I try to find out so that there are no surprises, if there are I am saying good bye!
In the spirit of full disclosure: Ink?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > In the spirit of full disclosure: Ink?       07-28-2015 12:15 PM
I guess like you said for those that it would waste their time it would be nice of you to mention.
Playing close to home
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Playing close to home       07-26-2015 19:19 PM
We play out of our home neighborhood.
Do you still play while on your period?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Do you still play while on your period?       07-25-2015 22:59 PM
no
wondering if we are on the same page
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > wondering if we are on the same page       07-25-2015 12:52 PM
He texts and contacts, I dont know what he says, not interested in the conversations, pics with clothes on to see if attraction there,, we are an odd couple, he has least amount of experience and is most interested, I have many years before I met him in the lifestyle and not as enthusiastic as he is.
Pregnant
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Pregnant       07-25-2015 12:27 PM
We would not want to meet anyone pregnant.
anyone use D-Mannose for UTI
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > anyone use D-Mannose for UTI       07-25-2015 12:24 PM
cranberry with d mannose from the supplement store,, friends have used it,
Ashley Madison and affiliated sites hacked
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Ashley Madison and affiliated sites hacked       07-21-2015 11:56 AM
Ann lol lol
Competitive?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Competitive?       07-21-2015 10:55 AM
I blocked them the other day when I read this,
Overnight MFM's
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Overnight MFM's       07-20-2015 21:02 PM
We dont care to entertain overnite.
Women and Testosterone
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Women and Testosterone       07-19-2015 11:40 AM
Reading with interest...
What's for Breakfast
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Breakfast       07-19-2015 11:32 AM
Quest protein
Viagra-Cialis-Levitra and Stomach Upset
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Viagra-Cialis-Levitra and Stomach Upset       07-19-2015 11:25 AM
I like your humor 888!
Do you enjoy women who squirt
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you enjoy women who squirt       07-18-2015 21:01 PM
Rosie .. I had pretty much the same experience.. He just wouldn't believe I had no interest and wouldn't stop so I peed on him..
Replies
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Replies       07-14-2015 14:52 PM
Many feel no reply is a reply. I usually reply unless its obvious the person sending the email has not read the profile. If its obvious, they dont get a reply they get a delete.
Public Meeting - Behavior
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > First Contact > Public Meeting - Behavior       07-14-2015 14:03 PM
With us its not about our relationship its about our time out to let loose, we dont get alot of time, we are not seeking friends to do vanilla things, we have vanilla friends for that.
Do you enjoy women who squirt
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you enjoy women who squirt       07-14-2015 13:55 PM
Rosie, I believe your right about the stroke their ego part, its a big part of it.
Viagra-Cialis-Levitra and Stomach Upset
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Viagra-Cialis-Levitra and Stomach Upset       07-14-2015 13:33 PM
30 more minutes would be for him not me,,
What if you want it all?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > What if you want it all?       07-14-2015 06:29 AM
Loved going with my last partner always found nice clean classy couples there.
Disney Magic 4/17/2016. Is it wrong??? Lol
FORUMS > Travel, Clubs and Resorts > Cruise Talk > Disney Magic 4/17/2016. Is it wrong??? Lol       07-14-2015 06:27 AM
Never on cruises, vacation, or holidays with family.
Why can't I find?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Why can't I find?       07-14-2015 04:31 AM
I would be the same.. I am a safety Gurl.. Some may say paranoid..
Public Meeting - Behavior
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > First Contact > Public Meeting - Behavior       07-14-2015 04:28 AM
This is why we prefer clubs or adult venues .. We do not go into graphic talk but we don't want to talk about our kids or family or jobs we aren't seeking "friends" as much ,, it's a tough exact for us.. Now and again all works out
Who pays for room
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Who pays for room       07-14-2015 04:13 AM
We always get the room since we are going to say goodnite, get satisfied by each other and crash out.
Viagra-Cialis-Levitra and Stomach Upset
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Viagra-Cialis-Levitra and Stomach Upset       07-14-2015 03:48 AM
For me it would be awkward..I guess I could go thru my shopping list while waiting on him to get done...
Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Seriously - any 60-70 couples still in the game?       07-14-2015 03:39 AM
More selective through the years less play but still in the game.
Party Problem Question
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Party Problem Question       07-14-2015 03:14 AM
It's your party invite who you want, no explainations needed .
Do you enjoy women who squirt
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you enjoy women who squirt       07-13-2015 19:23 PM
I've done research I've talked to top urologists if you enjoy go for it .
Naughty in N'awlins July 29 - August 2, 2015
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Naughty in N'awlins July 29 - August 2, 2015       07-11-2015 11:01 AM
Love NO gotta do this one year
Women and Testosterone
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Women and Testosterone       07-11-2015 09:48 AM
Scandals.. Biotin is great for hair nails skin..
Viagra-Cialis-Levitra and Stomach Upset
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Viagra-Cialis-Levitra and Stomach Upset       07-11-2015 09:37 AM
Isn't it awkward to not orgasm ...
Your opinion - Alcohol vs Marijuana (in states where it is legal)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Your opinion - Alcohol vs Marijuana (in states where it is legal)       07-08-2015 21:22 PM
420/alcohol if used in moderation.
Do you enjoy women who squirt
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you enjoy women who squirt       07-06-2015 11:32 AM
Those of us in the medical field know its pee.
One word that describes you
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > One word that describes you       07-03-2015 16:50 PM
sated.
Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.       07-03-2015 16:50 PM
We dont meet many ppl at all, , but its better than becoming resentful for having to take one for the team.
No Response to Emails
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > First Contact > No Response to Emails       07-03-2015 11:07 AM
Irish, that is hilarious,,
The Lifestyle Doesn't Seem To Be What It Was
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Finding Playmates > The Lifestyle Doesn't Seem To Be What It Was       07-02-2015 21:45 PM
Joined the LS in the 90s as well,, we agree.
Can we find a Central PA BiF iso C .reality or fantasy?
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Females > Can we find a Central PA BiF iso C .reality or fantasy?       07-02-2015 19:42 PM
Pretty much fantasy, ,
Why can't I find?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Why can't I find?       07-02-2015 19:41 PM
My single female friends, much like I was when I was single, dont meet others to be birthday presents, or anniversary gifts, you can find them I am sure but I always had the couple meet me in public and usually it was at an event or a club, single females have to be concerned with their safety.
Is this normal for other couples?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Is this normal for other couples?       07-01-2015 19:53 PM
Sounds like ya'll need to step out and get your personal relationship right,....
KIK App
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > First Contact > KIK App       07-01-2015 18:45 PM
We stay off there. We dont do craigslist, or AFF, Or Fling, lol. We pay for this site and we do our communication here.
This is my first time
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > This is my first time       07-01-2015 18:40 PM
Read his profile and posts the other day,, just SMH
Going to Houston
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Going to Houston       07-01-2015 14:19 PM
Its very sad, very lacking, we prefer to go to non lifestyle bars etc that we know others are patrons of, and LOR for the nudist weekends.
Unable to manage photos?
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Unable to manage photos?       07-01-2015 11:27 AM
still........
Going to Houston
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Going to Houston       07-01-2015 11:26 AM
Houston has The Mystery Zone, unless it closed in the last year, we had memberships but to be honest when they went up on prices it just wasnt worth it for us, we dont go there enough and we never really had a great time there.
Too much swinging not enough romance
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Too much swinging not enough romance       06-30-2015 23:53 PM
I would ditch the lifestyle all together, and I would ditch him if he didnt make some changes. Life is too short to be with someone that puts the LS before the person they are in it with.
Crossdressing
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Crossdressing       06-28-2015 21:25 PM
I've been on here a long time..
Guys, what is the deal
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Guys, what is the deal       06-28-2015 09:06 AM
I get so tired of that line.. "You don't know what your missing out on" ,, yea I'm missing out so just let me ,,trust me of the two of us, I know what turns me on, I'm the expert on me.
Crossdressing
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Couples > Crossdressing       06-25-2015 17:48 PM
Once met at a nudist resort that is lifestyle friendly , enjoyed talking etc, as far as we care to take it.
Senior Swingers Near vs Far
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Senior Swingers Near vs Far       06-25-2015 16:30 PM
Our profile says something like 5 yrs either way of us, we prefer and will only play within those ranges.
Simple Pleasures
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Simple Pleasures       06-25-2015 16:24 PM
The smell of rain on a summer day with the sun shining,,,
Do you have to have intercourse with someone other than your husband, boyfriend or significant other in order to be considered Swingers
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Do you have to have intercourse with someone other than your husband, boyfriend or significant other in order to be considered Swingers       06-25-2015 16:22 PM
Nothing wrong with enjoying the atmosphere of a sexy place like the events and clubs, ....... as others have said you dont have to swap,, do what makes you happy!
home vs. club
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > home vs. club       06-25-2015 01:11 AM
We wont go to others homes. Always a nice hotel.
Bring back the Fun
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Bring back the Fun       06-19-2015 19:39 PM
Much in the lifestyle has changed since I (fem) joined, just not as good as it used to be in many ways.
keeping an erection
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > keeping an erection       06-17-2015 13:02 PM
Thank you Nud, its a honest question and I appreciate the answer.
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       06-16-2015 13:04 PM
Rainy... Hope all are safe.
keeping an erection
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > keeping an erection       06-16-2015 12:24 PM
When does a gentleman stop forcing erections and allow the penis to die with dignity... Ever?
I'm not a recruiter!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > I'm not a recruiter!       06-12-2015 11:13 AM
Stay away from people like that. It will end in disaster that is only funny to watch from across the bar when someone lets her know whats up one day,,
Double vaginal: Bisexual or straight?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Double vaginal: Bisexual or straight?       05-23-2015 13:56 PM
Straight men can enjoy DP, did this with a previous partner a few times . No crossing lines ever happened so all was good.
Some people here don't know what they may be missing.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Some people here don't know what they may be missing.       05-22-2015 21:41 PM
Nope.. Has to be the whole package.. Age and all..
Playing close to home
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Playing close to home       05-05-2015 15:59 PM
Never played close to home, too many nosy ppl and like it being private.
fake bi sexual
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > fake bi sexual       04-30-2015 12:58 PM
Seen it for years .. Doubt it will change.. Don't even look anymore and took Bi off profile so they need not even ask
Certs
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Certs       04-30-2015 12:53 PM
The losers who do it my dear...
How important is kissing in the lifestyle and do you all do it
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > How important is kissing in the lifestyle and do you all do it       04-28-2015 18:50 PM
Don't need it or want it,, if the others need it fine,, but it doesn't do anything for me.
What if the Big O is elusive first time out?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > What if the Big O is elusive first time out?       04-28-2015 18:22 PM
Never orgasm with the other guys, talked to many women who are the same.
Do you do any type of volunteer work?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Do you do any type of volunteer work?       04-24-2015 21:34 PM
Yes, we do.
Scheduled Sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Scheduled Sex       04-24-2015 19:32 PM
It's a turn off , but we have found we can plan to attend events and if something spontaneously happens it's great.
Women orgy
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Women orgy       04-20-2015 21:19 PM
It would hold no interest for me.
SLS 420 thread
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > SLS 420 thread       04-20-2015 18:42 PM
Rather be around stoners than drunks. Never seen a stoner get aggressive, or stumble over their own feet. And it makes many hornier not unable to get it up.
Ellis?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Ellis?       04-20-2015 13:19 PM
No it's something a few ppl have tried to get to be a thing for the lifestyle just like black rings. Both of these ideas are silly in my opinion. If you want to meet swingers go to clubs and events. If people wanted to be able to be identified in their private time and in their vanilla life enjoyment they would have a way to let ppl know.
Water sports yay or nay
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Water sports yay or nay       04-20-2015 09:42 AM
No in any form including the "squirters".
AARP crowd***Happy thought of the day
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > AARP crowd***Happy thought of the day       04-18-2015 12:36 PM
Live Oak is close and we enjoy the way it is. Know a few other places but enjoy this one.