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What beer do you like best
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > What beer do you like best       03-14-2007 00:01 AM
Guinness, Sam Adams Boston Lager, Sam Adams Cherry Wheat, Wicked Strawberry Ale, or Bass Ale. Microbrews sometimes can be a real crapshoot, so I go with what's consistently good and doesn't deliver weirdness. Sometimes, Killian's Irish Red if nothing else is available. However, I only have a couple of beers a month, so I can skip it if all they have is Bud Ice and Schlitz.
What if you had a twelve inch penis
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > What if you had a twelve inch penis       03-13-2007 23:55 PM
I'd finally stop rolling out of bed.
The District ~ Pimp 'n Ho Night!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > The District ~ Pimp 'n Ho Night!!!       03-02-2007 17:49 PM
Aw rats, babysitter just flaked out :( We'll miss this one. Have fun everyone! Nate
What do you do when they look very little like their photo
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > What do you do when they look very little like their photo       01-12-2007 01:16 AM
I've seen it both ways- we've met couples who barely look anything like their pictures, they look way better! Of course, some have old or outdated pics, but it seems to be getting rarer in our city.
a woman here: how can I be more outgiong towards men
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > a woman here: how can I be more outgiong towards men       01-12-2007 01:13 AM
Nate here, I have to say if you want to send a clear message of interest, stand a little closer and touch the guys a bit when you talk. Sometimes girls can be subtle. For us retarded men, it goes completely over our heads that they're interested, if they give no visible clues to this. After all, some people are simply friendly and outgoing, if we expended interest in every girl who talked to us, we'd run ourselves ragged chasing tail!
Would you suck
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Would you suck       01-12-2007 01:07 AM
I don't care if the woman is Angelina Jolie, NO. HELL NO.
Pedophiles in the lifestyle what would you do if
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > Pedophiles in the lifestyle what would you do if       01-12-2007 01:04 AM
I think it would be a mistake for anyone to assume that because we play it a little loose here in the lifestyle, that we'd be more tolerant somehow of the deviancy of pedophilia. The fact is that from my perspective, I'm not tolerant one bit. There are those who cross the line, and those who believe the silly arbitrary dotted lines put up by others can be safely crossed. But that solid line, the line between consensual and non consensual sexual behavior is not one of those that can be crossed. Once that line is crossed, that individual is a pariah, an outcast forever from society. If I even got wind that one of my friends IN lifestyle or out was an offender, I'd make sure everyone knew that this was the case before getting close to that individual. I like my friends enough to tell them, so they don't go through hell. I can't see how a good friend could do other than to share information like that.
District-New Year's Eve!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > District-New Year's Eve!       01-01-2007 13:48 PM
Great party! Met a lot of really hot people, If you missed it, you missed OUT!
District's XXX-Mas Party!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > District's XXX-Mas Party!       12-15-2006 16:57 PM
Aw, we can't make it, Hope everyone has fun!
Halloween Bash!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Halloween Bash!!!!       10-22-2006 16:16 PM
Ok that was another fantastic party! Thanks to all who made it possible!! These bashes just get bigger and better every time!
Halloween Bash!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Halloween Bash!!!!       10-15-2006 22:55 PM
thanks for the heads up! We finally got a room =) Mark and Lisa, not to worry, we'll be there in full costume and we really hope to see a lot of party people dressed up for the Halloween Bash! Can't wait to see what everyone comes up with, we're counting down the hours. See you all there!!! XOXOXOXOXO
Halloween Bash!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Halloween Bash!!!!       10-13-2006 19:01 PM
I callled the Hyatt and they have no idea about the rooms or the discount rate. How do we go about getting a room for that night? This is the first time we've wanted a room and we can't seem to get one. =(
Halloween Bash!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Halloween Bash!!!!       10-13-2006 13:03 PM
Does anyone know the phone # to the HYatt across the street? We finally got all night sitting (YAY!!!) and need a room. If you can get us that we'd kiss you! (Well we probably would anyways) ;) Rebecca
Heaven-HellNight!District
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Heaven-HellNight!District       07-22-2006 12:39 PM
OOh this one sounds like soooooo much fun! We'll definitely be there. It's so nice to be naughty ;)
CEO's and Corporate Hoes!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > CEO's and Corporate Hoes!       06-28-2006 20:43 PM
I sure hope we can make this one! Last time the babysitter flaked out on us!
SATURDAY NIGHT DISTRICT
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > SATURDAY NIGHT DISTRICT       11-29-2005 11:01 AM
I can't believe it! We've wished for a saturday night at The District forever! Wouldn't miss it! See ya there! Nate and Becky
Reasons for NOT swinging
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Reasons for NOT swinging       10-12-2005 05:09 AM
The more I'm honest with people about our "hobby", the more I notice (from other men) the reaction tends mostly toward one of old fashioned posessiveness. Most men simply cannot understand why I would allow other men to have sex with my wife- more often they understand my motivation in wanting to swing, and yet cannot understand me "allowing" my wife to do so. Now, I've never been the controlling type with her. I always thought when you love someone you don't feel that need. I think a large part of it is simple plain old jealousy- they wouldn't mind it so much if they didn't have to have their wives also allowed to swing. To me, that doesn't compute. Loving people don't desire others while simultaneously controlling their spouses. Nate
SWING 101 BACK TO SCHOOL
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > SWING 101 BACK TO SCHOOL       08-16-2005 19:48 PM
Unfortunately we can't make it this time, but I love the theme!! You should definitely have more parties that let us dress up ;)
Sexy Summer Dreams
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Sexy Summer Dreams       08-14-2005 14:12 PM
We had a GREAT time last night dancing and flirting and seeing all of you hotties!!! Hope to see you all soon. Brandy Hon, I hope you find your skirt. XOXOXO Becky
STRIP-TEAZE EXTREME M-G D
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > STRIP-TEAZE EXTREME M-G D       08-08-2005 18:00 PM
We had a great time at the Meet and Greet, we loved seeing everyone and the dancing was hot!! Ladies, the dancing and outfits were amazing!!! The guys weren't bad either ;) Can't wait to see everyone again. P.S. Great job Phil! Becky
STRIP-TEAZE EXTREME M-G D
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > STRIP-TEAZE EXTREME M-G D       08-06-2005 13:10 PM
Looks like this will be the M&G of the year at this rate. Keep em cummin'! We are looking forward to seeing everyone, and bring your dancing shoes!!
STRIP-TEAZE EXTREME M-G D
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > STRIP-TEAZE EXTREME M-G D       08-02-2005 16:17 PM
We'll be there- wouldn't miss this one!
Safari Party
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Safari Party       07-14-2005 03:48 AM
Gonna try and make it to this one. Sounds like fun!
Funny names
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Funny names       06-25-2005 13:58 PM
When I was in the Navy in one division we had a Seaman Sample, a Seaman Licker, and Seaman Sprinkle. At once.
SLS jumped the gun 18 USC 2257 28 CFR75 does not effect us
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > SLS jumped the gun 18 USC 2257 28 CFR75 does not effect us       06-25-2005 05:09 AM
Let me just say that I'm glad SLS "jumped the gun"- it's not like SLS intends to go above and beyond on this one, they just want to make sure they don't get sued, prosecuted and shut down. It's not THAT big a deal, people, to comply while an appeal is being made for a silly or overly broad law. Do we really need to see penetration in order to choose our friends online? I think that can wait till we get this straightened out. Okay, it's a hassle and it's definitely an overly broad law. Let's use the legal system to oppose this. Of course, cash donations to the Electronic Freedom Foundation and others is a pretty good place to start. Money talks.
Republican Swingers
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Republican Swingers       06-23-2005 03:37 AM
Not every Republican is of this religious conservative variety, just as not every Democrat is a socialist tree-hugging vegan. Personally I tend more to the Republican-libertarian side of the political sphere. I am alarmed at the religious bent that our current administration seems to embrace (although I will point out that Mr Bush is actually slightly more centrist than many Republicans and some of the recent bipartisan legislation has been VERY BAD for freedom and enjoys the support of both parties). To me I don't see much difference between the radical leftists and radical rightists. The main problem I see is RADICALISM. That desire to change the world to suit ourselves, to MAKE other people do as we say and build some kind of utopia. The main problem with utopians, of course, is that a utopia can't be made to be one size fits all. A religious person's utopia would be drastically different from a hedonist's, and a vegan socialist's utopia would probably not suit your average small business owner or cattle farmer very well. So we (on both sides) need to stop trying to fix ALL the problems we see in the world (adultery, eating of cattle, people who don't recycle, sex on tv) and just try to LIVE in the world we have and contribute voluntarily to making the world a better place. Every time a utopian gets into the House, Senate, Presidency or even city council, you lose your right to be you, and are forced (with guns, no less) to conform to someone else's desires for their perfect existence. It's irrelevant whether they want to protect the children, it's the fact that they'll throw you under the tires to accomplish it which is objectionable. I don't see that much difference between Janet Reno and John Ashcroft. Really they were both power mad quasi-psychotics leading teams of armed men to the homes of their political adversaries. For Reno it was anyone who owned a firearm or wanted to live in the country, for Ashcroft it was anyone who exposes their tits or downloads porn. Either party you vote for lock-step, you're screwed. The sad fact is that anyone who would be competent at being the President of a country as large as the United States is going to be smart enough not to run for the office.
US Military = Newsweek
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > US Military = Newsweek       06-09-2005 04:32 AM
Oh whoopdee freaking doo. Some soldiers, probably ones who've lost friends to these koran-thumping fundie whack-jobs, desecrated a bunch of paper. I. am. so. offended. Of course, do WE riot when they BEHEAD their prisoners? Come on, blame politicians for what politicians do, but war is an ugly process, and if we're going to go all higgledy-piggledy because some "holy" scraps of paper were maybe flushed down the potty, then we as a nation need some perspective. This is not war crime, it's simply bad PR. There is no crime to flushing someone's holy book in a toilet. Heck, if someone wiped their ass on a Bible it would be no crime either, just a bad PR move.
District Memorial Day BBQ
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > District Memorial Day BBQ       05-31-2005 00:42 AM
That was a great party. We both had a fantastic time. Next time there's a three day weekend and a District party, count us in!
District Memorial Day BBQ
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > District Memorial Day BBQ       05-28-2005 19:18 PM
What times does it start and end?
Static-X,Motley Crue and Ozzfest coming up!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Static-X,Motley Crue and Ozzfest coming up!!!!       05-23-2005 02:11 AM
Static X - Music to F@@# to!
Looking for a couple from the PARTY last weekend at Le Baron Courtyard!!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Looking for a couple from the PARTY last weekend at Le Baron Courtyard!!!!!       05-13-2005 00:10 AM
The guys name was Scott, but I can't remember her name. Sorry. I don't think they're on this site though. I'll let you know if we come across them though. Good Luck!
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       05-09-2005 18:24 PM
We will be at the next one for sure, whenever it is!
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       05-08-2005 17:41 PM
Well, the party is now over, IT WAS A BLAST! All those who didn't attend REALLY missed out on this one! We'll have to have more of these!
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       05-07-2005 00:38 AM
Less than 24 hours left! If ya haven't RSVP'd with Inlovers2 you better do it now!
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       04-20-2005 10:50 AM
Big get togethers like this are a great way to meet a lot of people all at once and see if anything clicks. It's a lot easier than one-on-one meetings. If nothing else, at least go just to have a lot of fun. This will be a great party and you don't want to miss out.
What are the things you can see or not see in a profile which will make you automatically decide not to swing with someone Also what can you see which makes you want to
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What are the things you can see or not see in a profile which will make you automatically decide not to swing with someone Also what can you see which makes you want to       04-07-2005 04:19 AM
For us, we have several turn offs and quite a few turn-ons. Our particular turn-offs are bi males, bad photos, profiles with few to no pictures, and profiles with no information. Our turn-ons are profiles with a sense of humor, clear pictures, and information about the couple's likes and dislikes. What do you like and dislike?
I AM SO TIRED OF
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > I AM SO TIRED OF       04-01-2005 03:30 AM
Don, glad you got over it. You're such a cool guy it's her loss.
25 WAYS TO TELL IF YOU'RE A SWINGER
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > 25 WAYS TO TELL IF YOU'RE A SWINGER       04-01-2005 02:43 AM
Definitely we were running out of excuses for the babysitter. Of course, I am a computer tech and I know she's looked through our browser history so I'm pretty sure the gig is up and she's just staying quiet and polite.
How Far Would You Go
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How Far Would You Go       04-01-2005 02:40 AM
Does that new Jewett international airport accept multiengine flights or do they still make you parachute in?
What age do you want
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What age do you want       03-21-2005 03:50 AM
This may sound shallow, but to be completely honest, it depends on how well they've taken care of themselves. Some 40 year olds look 60 and some look 29 or 35. We keep our age range wider because it's about connection and attraction. On SLS I've seen 50 year olds who are hot, and 26 year olds who are NOT. So, just like everything else, it's more an issue of attractiveness than age. I also don't list a weight range or requirement because I've seen some very beautiful heavy girls in my life, and I don't want to scare them off. That said, my opinion on Big Beautiful Women is that there is "beautiful" in the title and some people gloss over that and use that to just refer to big girls. Personally BBW is a title I mentally grant to those girls who have that pizazz even when they're heavy. I can't say we've really established a hard age limit but we make our decisions based on attractiveness and personality. Does that make us shallow?
Anyone else run into this problem and-or have any pointers on how to deal with it
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Anyone else run into this problem and-or have any pointers on how to deal with it       03-17-2005 04:10 AM
This can be a real hindrance. Although we haven't had enough experience to say we've actually seen this happen to us yet, I make it a point to verify that both partners in the other couple are equally interested. And not just in the wife. If that ever happens and I feel completely left out during playtime, I figure I brought a girl who likes me a whole bunch so I really can't be left out to the point where it would bother me. One couple we met gave me the impression that while the female liked me, she was very uncomfortable with the concept of swinging and was going along with her boyfriend's wishes. Since I don't want to be a party to that kind of pressure, we politely declined. I figure I don't need to force myself on someone else's girl to get a little action, so why should I put up with playing with someone who'd rather be somewhere else? Nate
Poor Photos
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Poor Photos       03-17-2005 04:00 AM
I absolutely love it when I get an email from someone who hasn't yet opened up their private pictures, and they send me a pale purple overexposed blurry penis. That's my favorite (SMACK) Oh wait, that's the OPPOSITE of what I love. The actual thing I prefer is when we get well thought out, intelligent and coherent messages from hot people who have lots of pics which tell me that they are hot. That's what I actually like. The pale purple overexposed blurry penises actually don't do much for either of us at all. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE.
Good Morning
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Good Morning       03-11-2005 03:17 AM
I second the vote of confidence in Don's wife. She's cute.
St Paddys party
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > St Paddys party       03-11-2005 03:15 AM
If things change we'll go but right now she's a bit sore. The tattoo is in the small of her back and people tend to touch there when dancing and it's so tender I think she'd about jump out of her skin.
St Paddys party
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > St Paddys party       03-11-2005 03:14 AM
Oh rats it doesn't look like we'll make it. The wife's got a new tattoo and she's nursing it back to health. Would have really liked to go.
St Paddys party
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > St Paddys party       03-09-2005 03:38 AM
Oh yeah, we'll be there if we can. Had a great time last party. Lots of attractive people there.
Good Morning
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Good Morning       03-09-2005 03:37 AM
I've lost jobs because of this. It's been years, but I lost at least one pretty good job because I was staying home for nookie. Nate
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       03-09-2005 03:35 AM
We have to keep this thread on the top of the list. This will be the biggest party that's happened in a while here so let's keep it going!
Janie Jim Ranch
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Janie Jim Ranch       02-27-2005 16:12 PM
Agreed. It totally rocked there last night.
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       02-25-2005 03:12 AM
All RIGHT! There are going to be some seriously sexy couples at this party! We can't wait! It's a long way off but for a party of this magnitude it's worth it. Rebecca's already working on her belly dancing costume. This will be a wild time.
Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th       02-21-2005 02:38 AM
Don- Totally right. This one was a blast. Anyone who didn't go missed out terribly! Spent the evening surrounded by hot people, some of them naked, nearly naked or reasonably to be considered scantily clad. Dancing, music, drinks, hot panty contest, HOW THE HELL COULD YOU PEOPLE MISS THIS? Okay on a more serious note, if many more of you had shown up you wouldn't have fit. It goes without saying that most of the people there did NOT post to the forum. I saw some of you there. Didn't get to talk to some of the people I wanted to meet, did get to talk to some others I wanted to meet. Two points- Don and Ann are way better looking than their pictures. Also in the Way better than her pictures, amazingly enough, was MaureenX. Didn't think that would happen. Legs are exactly as long as pictured. Becky danced all over, got groped repeatedly, flashed a bit, danced more. A good time was had by all. We didn't go home with anyone but we met some very hot people. (We don't go home on the first date anyway) Becky had such a great time I don't think we'll miss a meet and greet at the District in a long time. The staff is fun, the people are hot, and the music's great. Again, HOW COULD YOU NOT BE THERE? Nate and Becky
Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th       02-20-2005 19:31 PM
30 minutes, folks. Get going.
What do you think about or do you
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What do you think about or do you       02-20-2005 04:34 AM
What I think during sex can't really be boiled down into English words or even abstract concepts. I just immerse myself in the experience. I think if someone were to read my mind during the peak enjoyment of sex they'd lose their ability to understand language. It's kind of like that Far Side cartoon where the guy develops a helmet to let him understand dogs and walks around the neighborhood wearing it and all the dogs are just yelling "hey!" HEY!"
What is the most sensual movie you have seen
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What is the most sensual movie you have seen       02-19-2005 04:10 AM
Hey dscouple2- "Hablo ingles?" "Yes, you speak english." RotN part II is cheesy and silly but has some pretty good lines in it.
PICTURES FOR COUPLE's PROFILE - Lacking Male Pics
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > PICTURES FOR COUPLE's PROFILE - Lacking Male Pics       02-17-2005 14:03 PM
One thing that seems to get our profile a lot of attention is to have g rated pics as well as R rated. If you take enough, eventually you get one where the guy doesn't look like a goober!
Swinging marriage
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Swinging marriage       02-17-2005 03:21 AM
That is so weird! If you are in a relationship with your partner and THAT'S not exclusive because you swing, and you don't get posessive of your spouse, why the heck would anyone think you'd be okay with someone ELSE getting posessive of the two of you? I kind of know what you mean, though. Many times at the initial meeting or even afterwards some people ask repeatedly if you have any other swinging friends you're hanging out with. Even if I don't I still let them know that I will. We're looking for friends but the posessive type is completely out.
The Dr Phil show
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > The Dr Phil show       02-17-2005 03:15 AM
Actually Carville and Matlin I can really respect. Two people who are completely different and can still make that work. How's that for the power of love? And you're right about Dr Phil marketing Dr Phil. I didn't mean to be at all political. I don't generally take sides. It's just odd sometimes how Dr Phil goes off on people when they haven't harmed him.
Lying about weight
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Lying about weight       02-17-2005 03:11 AM
Oh man, we're busted. She's actually 4'1 and 275 lbs and I'm 5' 1 and 450 lbs and I have a one inch dick and I'm bald as the day I was born. I knew you people would out us liars one day. I just knew it. Also, we both have major halitosis and we bathe once a month. We have no social skills and are known to tear off our clothes and say "wanna screw?" as soon as we meet people on a first date. Oh yeah, there's also that small issue with my tractor fetish but it won't get in the way like you'd think it would.
How long do you like to have sex 2 hours 3hours 4hours Ect
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How long do you like to have sex 2 hours 3hours 4hours Ect       02-17-2005 02:52 AM
2 hours, take a break , throw on a robe, snack, have a drink, 1 hour more sex, sleep. In the morning, 30 mins to 1 hour more sex is optional but preferred. There is no better way to start the day than Morning Sex.
Female stars
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Female stars       02-17-2005 02:50 AM
Dita Von Teese, Alyssa Milano, Drew Barrymore, Jessica Alba. In reverse order.
The Dr Phil show
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > The Dr Phil show       02-15-2005 15:16 PM
The thing I don't get about vanillas like Dr Phil is how he gets emotionally involved in the fact that other people swing. I don't get how other people's private lives can affect him so strongly. I mean, if this guy's gonna get yelled at for something, wouldn't you think it should be his WIFE who decides what is and is not acceptable or desireable in their marriage? It's this uniquely American thing, and it's not solely owned by one side of the political universe. The Right wingers want you to be required (or shamed into) to maintain a monogamous relationship for life with one person whom you will select for sexual compatibility at random with no knowledge beforehand. The Left wingers want to make sure that everyone is treated with respect in the bedroom (whether they want to be or not) and that everybody drives the right car and recycles their trash. It's all the same crap. Other people telling me who to screw, what car to drive, how to eat, whether to wear fur, go to church, recycle your aluminum, meat is murder, sex is for within marriage, don't say anything that would offend even the most hypersensitive douchebag. Don't mention differences between people. Don't smoke. Do this do that. Do any of you think that maybe we should (as Americans) abandon our political ambitions and just leave one another alone? Dr. Phil is just one more example of what's wrong with our society.
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       02-15-2005 10:39 AM
Karen and Tom- I wouldn't worry about it. There are lots of people going that aren't on SLS and everyone said the last party was great.
Need a geek
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Need a geek       02-15-2005 04:55 AM
one thing that helps is to use isopropyl alcohol to clean the circuit boards and keyboard contacts. This has to be done by a professional and it has to be done before the acids in whatever you spilled eats the extremely thin metal in the circuit board. By the way, take the battery completely out and do not power it up until it's been cleaned. One extra snap or crackle in the right place and it's all over.
Crotch shot as main profile picture- how do you react
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Crotch shot as main profile picture- how do you react       02-15-2005 04:49 AM
A nice ass or cleavage is way better than a crotch shot for me, for reasons I cannot possibly explain. I don't know why one particular attribute would be more desireable or less desireable than another. It just seems monotonous to see dick after dick. It would be better if they were impressive dicks and impressive pussy shots. Or exceptionally photographed with good color or something. Or artful. I don't object at all to dick pics in the profile, but choosing one as your face to the world turns me off. Cleavage is not unusual in a first impression. A nice butt isn't either. Ultra-Zoom in mode on somebody's crotch just somehow doesn't strike me as appropriate first impression stuff. Some people like it.
Crotch shot as main profile picture- how do you react
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Crotch shot as main profile picture- how do you react       02-14-2005 04:34 AM
I'm glad this topic has had some activity. I originally posted it as a kind of combination between finding out how others deal with those who've chosen to have their crotch as their default, and possibly a hint to those who have. The wife and I are very turned off by both sexes' crotch shots being the first impression. We're glad we're not unusual in this. We don't mind those pictures being IN the profile but we do mind when it's the one listed FIRST. It sends a very impersonal message. With single men, it's also usually a sign that they have no social skills, and this is evidenced by their one-line emails, sometimes even ONE WORD emails. It makes me think they can't land a female with the skills they have, and wish to mooch off of the results of my skills and hard work.
What is the most sensual movie you have seen
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What is the most sensual movie you have seen       02-14-2005 04:23 AM
It was a spanish film called Tie me up, tie me down. It was about a man who falls in love with a girl, kidnaps her, and woos her as his captive. You wouldn't think that would be sexy, but it is. You see, he genuinely loves her but he's just going about it wrong. It's a quirky but overall feel-good film.
No of profiles viewing your private pictures
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > No of profiles viewing your private pictures       02-14-2005 04:16 AM
We don't have private pictures so everybody can see everything we've posted. If this leads to us getting annoyed by a bunch of weirdos we'll move some to private. We're discreet but on SLS we figure if somebody knows us in the vanilla world they can just keep the secret. Of course, we're new and foolish so that may change soon.
Marriage Proposal
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Marriage Proposal       02-14-2005 04:12 AM
My wife had been married briefly before we dated. She'd done the big wedding ceremony, dress, flowers, etc. He had formally asked her father for her hand in marriage, yadda yadda. But he was an abusive jerk so she left. Well, I knew that she had thrown herself into the wedding planning role so she didn't have to think about who she was marrying. When I proposed I did it at the park, in a gazebo alone with her. I wanted her to be able to turn me down without pressure or feeling embarassed. She didn't. We were married in Las Vegas at the Excalibur Hotel accompanied by just close family. It was very refreshing and very "us".
Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th       02-11-2005 13:15 PM
So, is anyone going to this? We plan on it but it doesn't look like very many others do from the lack of activity here. Anyone else going?
What Default Pic Do You Prefer to See
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What Default Pic Do You Prefer to See       02-10-2005 14:06 PM
The thing that gets our attention best is faces. We like to see faces even if they're disguised a little and we do like if the profile contains full length shots of both people. It's a bit tough sometimes for the wife when couples post pics of only the female, with sometimes just one crotch shot of the male. She doesn't work that way and would rather see anything but just the crotch. Especially if it's flash illuminated- washed out blue purple cocks don't interest her one bit. I haven't posted nudes because we both have everything which is required. I'm pretty well hung, but I prefer to leave that as a nice surprise for whomever we hang out with. Nothing's better than meeting and exceeding peoples' expectations. Plus, some guys who browse SLS (as part of a couple) won't contact people who are even a little larger than they are, so I'd rather not post pictures that would be a turnoff for them. Really it's irrelevant since we shop for personality, not parts, and we look for the same in others. You can get plastic "parts" at the adult bookstore. They don't come with fun, witty, attractive people attached to them, though. Nate
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       02-08-2005 02:29 AM
Doing my part to keep this forum at the TOP. This will be our first big party. The wife's very seriously jazzed up about going. We're really looking forward to meeting some people from around here. A couple of questions-- 1. What's the dress code like? Casual, semi formal, clubwear? 2. How many people do you expect? 3. What was the last one like? 4. What happens at these parties? 5. How early should we book a room? 6. Who's gonna be there? 8. What happened to seven? 9. Should we bring anything?
Why does the New Mexico Forum seem to Echo with Silence
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Why does the New Mexico Forum seem to Echo with Silence       02-08-2005 02:20 AM
Okay, I'll post too. We're new, haven't had a chance to meet most of the people here. Looking forward to the meet and greets and stuff mentioned here. So let's start a new topic in here, just for NM people. Let's talk about the weirdest SLS moment we've had. I'll start: I got an email that was blank. Blank subject and blank message body. It was from somebody who had no profile pictures and five words of text. I don't know how to respond to that. Nate
Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th       02-08-2005 02:15 AM
An idea- Let's keep this thread alive- if you're going to go (and we are), check in with a quick post to this forum topic. I read such good reviews of the last one (which we missed) that we can't miss this one. Seems like there are some fun people in ABQ?
PA has exceeded max swinger limit
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > PA has exceeded max swinger limit       02-07-2005 03:13 AM
Hilarious. I am from PA and now I live in NM. Seriously, though, if you've BEEN to PA you'll see why they swing. Not a fricking thing else to do in the whole goddamn state but screw. Grey skies, rain, gnats, you PA swingers can keep them. I'm stayin' in NM where it's blue skies, warm not hot, cool not cold, and not a gnat for miles. But there's hardly any swingers because everybody's eating beans and green chile and drinking beer. Beans and swinging do not a pleasant evening make. Nate
Setting the bedroom atmosphere
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Setting the bedroom atmosphere       02-07-2005 02:53 AM
We painted our bedroom this beautiful shade of purple (see pics), hung shimmery dupioni saris and got a wonderful velvet comforter. We have a pillow play area to the foot of the bed and a hookah for smoking sweetened arabian tobaccos in flavors like peach and coconut. Reclining on the persian rug and smoking the hookah with the lights low sets the mood in no time. A bowl lasts 40 minutes and does the trick every single time. It's a completely sensual retreat.
Can one be to young for the lifestyle
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Can one be to young for the lifestyle       02-07-2005 02:46 AM
I'd say about the only age limit is age of consent. The reason I bring this up is that there is a couple in my area and the girl's only 18 and has been swinging for 2 years. You do the math and that means someone's been breaking the law. Personally, I am not interested in someone so young. I remember the incessant drama that is the early 20s and man, did it suck. The fact that they haven't even hit that yet makes it shocking that they're swinging already. I don't want to pass judgement, but the wife and I took years to build the level of trust that we needed. I meet lots of people and it seems the most mature and levelheaded are the older ones. Seems to be logical. Wisdom doesn't come from a vending machine or the internet, so it's still the same old try->fail->get up->try again differently procedure that it's always been for gaining wisdom. The thought of anyone swinging at 16 sounds just so alien to me. Creeps me out, actually. Far from the stereotypical hetero male response of liking borderline illegal chicks, I found it very disturbing. I turned them down flat and that was the end of it. eww. So I agree with most posted here saying it's a milestone that can be reached by an individual at any age, but I have to draw the line at at least 20. And I won't meet them unless they're 25. But I'm only 31. Ten years from now, the line will have moved with me to 35 so that I'm not fooling around with people who were six when I got married.
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       02-05-2005 01:58 AM
We're in! We'd really like to meet up and play! We'll definitely be there and look forward to meeting some locals!
Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > Next Meet and Greet at The District Bar and Grill on Feb 20th       02-05-2005 01:55 AM
Won't miss it!
Crotch shot as main profile picture- how do you react
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Crotch shot as main profile picture- how do you react       02-01-2005 03:24 AM
Regularly I get e-mail from "couples" and men whose default profile picture is a dick. Just a dick, nothing to indicate what kind of person it's attached to. Some don't even have other pictures! I'm curious as to what most of you react with in this situation- do you simply ignore them or does it not affect your decision to meet a bit? Similarly, some couples profile is simply a closeup of the female's anatomical bits. Have you ever seen a pussy you wanted to e-mail? Maybe if enough of us sound off on this we can conclude one way or another whether this is an indicator of personality.
this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque
FORUMS > Events > New Mexico > this will be a party not to miss in Albuquerque       01-27-2005 04:28 AM
This sounds like it might be our cup of tea......