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Being discreet in your home (kids here)
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Being discreet in your home (kids here)       01-12-2018 10:44 AM
He's learning to drive and we already have a car for him (I got a new car in AUG so we kept my old one). I think after he can drive he'll go out more.
Being discreet in your home (kids here)
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Being discreet in your home (kids here)       01-12-2018 10:43 AM
We are playing sort of loud music or leave the TV on in the LR. He's upstairs on computer. We moved his BR to the other side of the house. We are kind of like, "If he hears, he hears." We just don't use paddle (loud!) or do the spanking for long when he's home. If he is GONE, we play louder and longer. I honestly don't want him to know at all what we are up to, but the guy will probably graduate next year and then still live at home for college. So I'm not willing to wait X number of years until our last kid moves out. Some time soon Bryan is going to replace the BR door with solid wood, and we're going to see what we can do in the walk-in closet. It's quietest in there, but the door to the walk-in is near the BR door into the house. Hence the solid wood door there.
How to deal with sheer rudeness?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > How to deal with sheer rudeness?       01-10-2018 15:55 PM
Well, I know who you won't be seeing again! Good riddance. I would have said, "Talking about Donald Trump makes me the opposite of horny." It doesn't matter if someone is pro/con D. T., just the mention of his name makes me dry up. Anyone who talks about politics, I don't go home with that person. I know some political ranters, like my father. He stopped the political rants because his brother's daughter refused to go home anymore to see her dad, as he wouldn't shut the fuck up about bleeding heart liberals, femi-Nazi's and BS like that. My dad was afraid I wouldn't go home to see him anymore, either, if he couldn't stop talking about "Billary Clinton," faggots/dykes, and bad mouthing women's rights. He really put a cork in it, and now if he says a single word and I say, 'Oh, no!" he stops. Yeh...so after growing up and being forced to listen to political rants, I don't spend time with anyone who discusses politics after I ask them to stop.
B.E.D. Anyone going?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > B.E.D. Anyone going?       01-06-2018 17:33 PM
We're on PA so TX is far. We're going to Lady's Wicked Playground Fire & Ice hotel take over next month. It'll be our first big BDSM event. Anyone else go to BDDM events?
What's your biggest kink/taboo?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > What's your biggest kink/taboo?       01-01-2018 12:48 PM
I can sometimes orgasm just from being spanked with a hand, belt, paddle or flogger.
Choked while being fucked
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Choked while being fucked       12-21-2017 21:26 PM
Choking, hands on my throat or at all tight near or on my neck is a hard limit. I don't like it. I don't like when I can't swallow my own spit easily because someone's putting pressure on my throat, and it just scares me. I don't have many limits, but that is one. The only person I would ever let put his hands on my throat is my husband, and he has no interest in it. I don't, either. I'm not saying some day I won't be interested, but right now it's creepy for me.
Messages You Get on SLS .ridiculous, rude, obtuse, etc.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Messages You Get on SLS .ridiculous, rude, obtuse, etc.       12-20-2017 17:12 PM
But first I will melt it like a grilled cheese sandwich.
Messages You Get on SLS .ridiculous, rude, obtuse, etc.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Messages You Get on SLS .ridiculous, rude, obtuse, etc.       12-20-2017 17:11 PM
If any guy batters and deep fries my clitoris I will batter his penile rod. ;)
Messages You Get on SLS .ridiculous, rude, obtuse, etc.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Messages You Get on SLS .ridiculous, rude, obtuse, etc.       12-19-2017 17:56 PM
@velmaandshaggy, my thighs and legs are really thin, too thin, so he must not have checked out my pix. LOLOL about masturbating at Ross. I can so relate!
Messages You Get on SLS .ridiculous, rude, obtuse, etc.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Messages You Get on SLS .ridiculous, rude, obtuse, etc.       12-19-2017 13:08 PM
Here is one I got from a single male today. After years of being on SLS, this one is my favorite by far! Every time I read it I laugh hard all over again, and out loud! The grilled cheese remark sends me over the edge. I'm sure this guy cuts and pastes this fantasy to multiple women. Did anyone else get the same one yet? It's a classic, it's epic, and destined to go down in history as the one and only message I got here that really brightened up my day due to how silly it is. But give him an A for effort. We have to give him that. So here it is: Allow me to engulf all the tender and delicate components of your scrumptious body, starting with a kiss on the fore head and our lips melting together like a grilled cheese sandwich.Let me massage your soft neck with light kisses and couple the nipples of your large breast into one and suckle them until you feel the warmness of my lips induce orgasmic flavor throughout your inner soul.Allow me to navigate my tongue around your abdomen,searching for your precious navel and then suddenly dropping to to the inner sanctuary of your large thighs that safeguard the vaginal treasure which I will invade with my soft fingers and open for insertion by my flickering tongue.I will tantalize your hot vagina until the heat produces the clitoris and batter the clitoris until the doors of your GSPOT expand and prepare you for insertion by my concrete penile rod
For the husband's of a MMF threesome
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > For the husband's of a MMF threesome       12-16-2017 09:58 AM
I don't think you should leave her. She was going to fuck him anyway! She did it when you weren't there. She took the cream pie, and I assume you had specified condoms, so apparently you guys have to talk about your rules for swinging IF you go forward with it. But right now, not a good idea. I meet the guys I see alone. My husband is not turned on by seeing me with other men, although I do love seeing him with other women. That's a very exciting view! If we are with a couple and my husband thinks the other guy is nice and "worthy" of me he might be happy for me to be with the man. But if he doesn't like the guy, for whatever reason, then he doesn't want to see that guy get sexual favors from me, and at that point it's too late. So better I just play alone, because it's hard to find couples where everyone likes everyone else. Neither of us takes one for the team, and we don't want to hook up with couples who do that, so...we just look for our own play partners. When lucky, we get a unicorn. That's the best!
Submissive or Dominate
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Submissive or Dominate       12-15-2017 07:32 AM
SoGood, I'm a little fuzzy about what happened and what your question is, but it doesn't sound like anyone had fun!
Young Single Guys
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Young Single Guys       12-14-2017 11:12 AM
A lot of them write to me and don't even view my profile. I can see who recently viewed my profile, and some of them don't bother. They write and say, "Here's my Kik," and have zero pix or just a few (last guy had 4 pictures of his erection and that was it). Just ridiculous.
I wish we had a place to alert each other to FAKES like Jake 2100, a single male.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > I wish we had a place to alert each other to FAKES like Jake 2100, a single male.       12-13-2017 16:22 PM
I reported jack2100 to SLS and they are looking into it. Thanks, MagJoy, for the suggestion. I got the app Veracity and used that. It works the same way as what you suggested, but easier on my iPhone. The photos he sent me showed that they were on Pinterest, at some gay porn sites, all over the place. Plus, the pubic hair on the torso pix he sent didn't match at all. One was very light blond, the other dark hair. It made me furious at the time, but you know, it's part of the process. There's just no way to avoid the fakes and flakes altogether. They have their own agendas and they doesn't match ours. You have to be willing to just sort through them. Lots of single males have problems with couples, too. So it goes both ways.
I wish we had a place to alert each other to FAKES like Jake 2100, a single male.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > I wish we had a place to alert each other to FAKES like Jake 2100, a single male.       12-09-2017 18:46 PM
Jack2100 I reported him to SLS and they are looking into it.
Cock Ring
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Cock Ring       12-08-2017 15:39 PM
I (wife) didn't like the cock ring. It's a soft plastic. I hate the way it grabs the outside of my pussy near the top or rubs me on the outside,on the way in. He's 7 inches, but I'm long, too, so it actually goes part way into my vaginal opening. It's not soft enough for me to be able to ignore it. It didn't provide any positive feelings. We tried one with the nubbies and I hated them. They sort of hurt. We might try a silicone ring. I think that would be softer.
The Jones and the Smiths decided to try swinging…
FORUMS > General Discussions > Jokes and Funnies > The Jones and the Smiths decided to try swinging…       12-08-2017 15:33 PM
Nice twist.
Married but Single
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Married but Single       12-08-2017 15:32 PM
There are fewer men in their 70's than women. I would suggest doing real dating. Ask out some women and go for a real relationship instead of casual sex. My understanding is that things are really in the man's favor as time goes by IF you are willing to date near your own age. Which is sounds like you are. But most women your age are not going for a one night stand. Have you tried vanilla dating?
Recommend good swing sites besides SLS!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Recommend good swing sites besides SLS!       12-03-2017 18:28 PM
Oh, wait, what? Spanking? Not a little! Make the punishment fit the crime!
Recommend good swing sites besides SLS!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Recommend good swing sites besides SLS!       12-03-2017 15:04 PM
I honestly didn't know. Hm. I recommend them at Fet all the time so I don't think I deserve worse than a warning.
Submissive or Dominate
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Submissive or Dominate       12-03-2017 08:27 AM
Both of us are probably truly switch, but I (Jen) am sub with all men and switch with females, and he is Dom with all women (he's straight). He's willing to try some sub activities, but right now I don't want to seriously do that with him, as he's still getting the hang of being Dom with me and it's a big turn on. Being sub with me would spoil that image. We're holding off on that for now.
Bareback
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Bareback       12-02-2017 13:46 PM
If you can't see the original thread you were probably blocked by the person who posted the thread. You know, I blocked NutCal, if you know him. So he can see my name that I posted, but he can't read my posts and comment directly any more. And I can't see his posts. Which is wonderful.
I love non-monogamy; it's working out great!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > I love non-monogamy; it's working out great!       12-02-2017 13:40 PM
Last I heard,half of all first time marriages end in divorce, and second marriages even more often. I don't rush to blame it on non-monogamy. That's my opinion. Not saying I'm right.
I love non-monogamy; it's working out great!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > I love non-monogamy; it's working out great!       12-01-2017 18:37 PM
We just came out of a 7 year stretch of monogamy because we didn't know how to make it work. Our marriage is ALWAYS first. But I think we are older and wiser now, more honest about what we want... and trust each other more after 20 years together. I spoke with a VERY cool psychologist about how to make things work, took all his advice, and it worked for us. Anyone interested, you can make online appointments to talk to Dr.Lisle by phone. Go to www dot esteemdynamics dot org. He's a licensed psychologist in CA. I'm in PA, so it isn't billable to insurance or considered to be therapy. It's $75 for 1/2 hr., $150 for an hour. I sure got my money's worth!
I love non-monogamy; it's working out great!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > I love non-monogamy; it's working out great!       11-30-2017 12:52 PM
The whole non-monogamy thing is working GREAT for us at last. We have been in and out of the LifeStyle for 20 years, often out, because it just wasn't working. It was a lot of work and frustration, and not a lot of play. We used to agree to only play with others if we were both getting to play at the same time. That just didn't work. It's really, really hard to find another couple where all 4 people are equally thrilled with who they got. This year we decided to play separately if we wanted. We communicate with each other, and no one plays without a hall pass. We are both getting "lucky" way more often doing things this way. We don't keep count; it's not one-for-one any more. I definitely get more, because that's how it works for females, but he's not doing too badly! He's having a lot of fun, too. To be honest, he doesn't get off watching me play with other men OR women, so it's better for me to play on my own. Please don't criticize him about that. Don't "should" on him, that he should get excited. Voyeurism is not his thing! If it's yours, fine, but he only cares about the action HE is getting, not someone else's action. It's like when someone gets a fantastic new car; I couldn't care less, because I am not the one who will be driving and enjoying that car. Anyway, since he doesn't care to watch me with others when he's not involved, that's good to know and be honest about. I don't get off having him watch me, either. Everyone needs to be honest. We have gotten really honest with ourselves and between ourselves about what we REALLY want as of last summer, and we are focusing on that, not the low hanging fruit. I am SO SO SO happy to be free to explore sex with other people and have the best husband in the whole world at the same time!
Swingers Etiquette
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Swingers Etiquette       11-29-2017 16:14 PM
Ask people what they want. That works for almost any situation in life. "Can I..." "Would you like me to..." "Would it be okay if I..."
I want to know who takes swinging serious?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > I want to know who takes swinging serious?       11-28-2017 16:42 PM
You act like you hate his posts and him soooo much, but you must love that he posts stuff so you can insult him over and over. >:( I don't see that as superior to what HE'S saying...which I can't see, since I blocked him last summer. I am just puzzled why you don't block him and deny him the attention he craves. Like a child.
I want to know who takes swinging serious?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > I want to know who takes swinging serious?       11-28-2017 16:41 PM
Anyone who fails to block Nutcal, you are CHOOSING to read his posts.
Funishment
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Funishment       11-25-2017 19:33 PM
My new Punishment (versus Funishment) is hard spanking with no orgasm afterwards.....not for me, anyway! ;)
Single female/wife who plays alone, want an email or texting pal? I'm female.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Single female/wife who plays alone, want an email or texting pal? I'm female.       11-25-2017 17:07 PM
My husband knows what I'm up to. I get his permission before I head out every time. Magjoy and I are passing some emails about our goings-on, for better or for worse. Things are on the up tick lately. ;)
Getting single males to show up
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Getting single males to show up       11-25-2017 12:12 PM
Topsdusty, nice chest harness on the model in your one photo. I'm a rope bunny. Love to be tied up and have my photo taken...not during sex or sex acts, just pix after the rigger is done practicing on me.
Pubic Hair Comeback
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Pubic Hair Comeback       11-21-2017 14:43 PM
I hate shaving the top mound. I get ingrown hair there. I have been shaving my lips and crack for like 20years, so it's not like I don't know how to shave. I only shave the mound if I have a FWB guy to see regularly who needs it bald. Otherwise, it's all shaved except being clipped short on top and tidying up the sides. My husband prefers some hair up top. I actually like him better all shaved OR really, really short; I didn't think I would. The first time he shaved it all off I was like, WHAAAAT? But I admit, it's really way better for oral.
Funishment
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Funishment       11-20-2017 07:59 AM
Anyone else love giving punishment or getting punished? After I have had a playdate alone with a single guy,, nothing relieves my guilt better than some funishment in the BR from my husband. Our new thing is I gave my husband a 3x5 card and it has places to check mark for future discipline, like if I am bossy or bratty. He can do what he wants with the results, but I am guess the number of checkmarks will affect the amount of discipline. But you know, Doms can be hard to guess. It would be nice to be surprised about when the discipline happens. But we try to do it when our son, 16, is out of the house. So some of the surprise factor is gone, but knowing it's coming up kind of makes it fun to anticipate.
Unreliable men
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Unreliable men       11-15-2017 14:43 PM
All great advice and thank you. I only give one chance now. The second cancellation is the end. But that can still mean I'm left hanging for 2-3 weeks, until I confirm this guy isn't serious. I'm not going to go out with any guys who can suddenly get over-time, either. Hopefully the next guy up to bat does better!
Unreliable men
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Unreliable men       11-12-2017 18:09 PM
I have only been soliciting single guys to play for four months. It started out so smooth and easy. I was thinking, "What are these other members saying? These guys are reliable, respectful and mature." HA HA HA. Oh my God, I am ready to give up on them. What a huge waste of time. They meet for the beverage, schedule to meet again for sex, cancel and reschedule, canceland reschedule. The guy today canceled on WED at noon for a 5:00 meet up. Then he texted at 6:15 PM and said I could come over. (I had already turned my phone off for the night.) We re-scheduled for today (SUN), he confirmed today at 12, then canceled 30 minutes before I was supposed to leave to go to his house. He asked me if I wanted to come over LATE tonight, or he'd come here and screw me in th back of his truck. Really? Really? Wow. Um, NO. Make an appointment and keep your word. This is getting so old!
What's your biggest kink/taboo?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > What's your biggest kink/taboo?       11-12-2017 14:22 PM
I recently started liking to be spanked, and tied up in beautiful rope work and flogged or spanked, and photographed tied up. I also started to love 20's and 30's males and females. I was sticking closer to 40's, but had enough offers from younger people that I've started taking them up on their offers. -Mrs.
The Lifestyle - BDSM or Swinger?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > The Lifestyle - BDSM or Swinger?       11-11-2017 16:26 PM
I just put a pic of me in bondage in our private pix. I love to be tied up. Last night we had a cute 30 yr. old unicorn. There was some ass spanking and tit spanking going on. It made the sex better for all of us.
The Lifestyle - BDSM or Swinger?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > The Lifestyle - BDSM or Swinger?       11-09-2017 14:38 PM
I'm new to BDSM, but I think about it every day. I see on FetLife that they call it The Lifestyle, the same way that swingers do. In fact, someone at a club asked me how long I've been in the lifestyle and I thought she meant as a swinger. Which "Lifestyle" do you identify with more: BDSM or Swinging? I lean more towards BDSM now because I honestly don't look for fast hook ups any more; quicky vanilla sex is so much less interesting to me compared to having a FWB guy who will learn and/or use Dom moves with me. I love to see a pretty female in ropes! I love some of the artistic rope/rigging photos at Fet. I also experience WAY LESS JUDGMENT at FetLife compared to here. This whole BDSM thing has been a really positive experience for me in terms of accepting my body and my sexual preferences. Swinging didn't hurt our marriage, but it wasn't as big of an enhancement as BDSM. It has rocked our world. That's why it my Lifestyle.
Looking for some fun
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Looking for some fun       11-07-2017 16:25 PM
It's easy to get a MfM. Search single males and find someone good looking. I recommend looking for a paid member with certs to reduce the chance of a bad experience. Not to say that there aren't some great single guys who are free members or who don't have certs. But paid and 'vetted' is usually less risky. MagJoy recommended the Hot Date idea, and that is also a great way to do it. I met a single male for a 1:1 hot date with me when I was on a business trip, and he was fan-fucking-tastic. -jen
BDSM + Swing = More Fun - Issue 6 - Part 3 - How I Might Get Started
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > BDSM + Swing = More Fun - Issue 6 - Part 3 - How I Might Get Started       11-06-2017 18:21 PM
I'm sub. I have no interest in "sub space" or whatever. If it ever happened, okay, but it's not a goal of mine. I'm happy with how things are going already. I would not want my Dom to have that goal for me, as it's not important to me in the least.
VPN
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > VPN       11-04-2017 18:42 PM
Malwarebytes is not a VPN and doesn't provide online privacy. It removes spyware, viruses, malware, etc. A VPN encrypts your data so that Facebook, Google, and all the other data grabbing ass holes can't get. They take screen shots of where you are! See how I'm typing? Yes, they see what you see, see what you write. Why do I want them to have a record of my pervy online activities? I am using Red Browser (Tor) on my iPad. I use Tunnel Bear on my laptop. The free Red Browser is okay, but it times out and there I am with no protection. Tunnel Bear makes the computer run a lot more slowly, so I only have the free version. I have not figured out which VPN I want to use; I will pay for it after I figure it out. Using a VPN keeps me from getting sex ads in my email, and so on.
Who else is on FetLife?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Who else is on FetLife?       11-04-2017 15:47 PM
I met a local guy practicing to be a rigger. I let him post pix of me, but not with my face. He started out doing decorative rope harnesses. Next time it will actually be bondage with rope spreaders. It's a lot of fun. I go with Bryan, because he wants to learn how to do all the ties. It's a fun hobby for both of us.
Anklets? Any luck?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Anklets? Any luck?       10-29-2017 15:47 PM
I bought a necklace of a lady on a swing; I call it my swinger necklace! I think it's in our photos here at the group. If we are going to meet a new couple somewhere I tell them to look for that necklace if they aren't sure. It also gives me an excuse to ask someone, "How do you like my swinger necklace? Ha ha." Just to see if maybe they aren't vanilla. So far they all seem to be vanilla. Anklet...anyone in the world can wear those. No special meaning for them.
Can a guy ask women a question here? :)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Can a guy ask women a question here? :)       10-27-2017 08:16 AM
KloeB, that is a fantastic tip. I never though of that... Thank you!
Can a guy ask women a question here? :)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Can a guy ask women a question here? :)       10-27-2017 08:15 AM
EVERYONE HERE, I highly recommend blocking NutCal,people. I no longer see his foolish BS. Best of all, he can't see my posts so I don't have him making stupid, ridiculous comments. If you refuse to block his dumb ass and he is saying stupid crap that bothers you, then you have only yourself to blame! Block him! Move on!
FEMDOM - CFNM
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > FEMDOM - CFNM       10-25-2017 12:06 PM
I'm sub in the BR, so I'd be interested in CMnf stuff. That's one of my long time fantasies, I mean since I was in my 20's. The problem is, in my mind all the guys look hot. In reality, I'd probably being freaking and thinking about who I didn't want to touch me! LOL! I am really picky about who gets his hands on me, even for a second.
Who else is on FetLife?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Who else is on FetLife?       10-22-2017 18:38 PM
I, Jen, have the profile at FetLife. Bryan doesn't go on FB or SLS or FetLife for fun. I show him stuff that is interesting. "Look at this picture." "Read this. That sounds like fun. What do you think?" "I like that outfit." It's not a swinger site, no. In fact, a lot of BDSM people do it for non-sexual fetish reasons...or don't have sex with their primary BDSM partner. We like to get ideas from there, e.g., I love some of the artistic rope work like chest harnesses. I just bought some cotton rope that I am going to dye pink, have Bryan do the chest harness (there are YouTube videos), and take pix. It's just a fun little hobby. It spices up the ol' sex life.
Why full swappers don't like soft swappers
FORUMS > General Discussions > Soft Swinger > Why full swappers don't like soft swappers       10-19-2017 12:36 PM
Oh, and PS, one reason I used to be so focused on penetration is that it's almost a guarenteed orgasm. I almost never come with oral sex, and if I do, it's not a very big one. So I was feeling really frustrated about playing around for so long and wanting a release. I'm more comfortable now to just say I really need to have an orgasm and either tell the guy how he could achieve that, or switch back to my husband. I used to think I'd hurt the other guy's feelings, but now I am not afraid to say in advance that I most likely won't have a satisfying orgasm with oral alone.
Why full swappers don't like soft swappers
FORUMS > General Discussions > Soft Swinger > Why full swappers don't like soft swappers       10-19-2017 12:31 PM
We used to have no interest in soft swap at all, but now we actually love it. I (Jen) used to want to get to the part where there was intercourse as quickly as possible, but now I am so much more into the moment, into new experiences, into kissing a new person, just seeing where things go, instead of having a goal. We still do full swap, but we very much enjoy soft swap as well.
Single female/wife who plays alone, want an email or texting pal? I'm female.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Single female/wife who plays alone, want an email or texting pal? I'm female.       10-19-2017 12:17 PM
I sure will write, MagJoy. You only live an hour-ish away from me, too. Extra great!
kids finding out about your life style
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > kids finding out about your life style       10-19-2017 12:15 PM
If you are caught by surprise it's harder to think of a graceful way out. I'm surprised he asked both of you with his wife there. Why didn't he just talk to ONE parent alone, instead of with a big audience? That makes it extra awkward. I'm sure he and his wife already talked about it and, as others said, you've probably been 'outed' some how. I am the kind of person to try to be as honest as possible with my kids (16 and 25). They don't seem to have a clue. I would tell my older son, but I'd ask him to not spread it around. The 16 year old wouldn't ask even if he knew, because he's kind of a shy guy and I don't think he cares about our sex life. I figure I can talk about my values, why we don't practice monogamy, and ask them about their own lives. It's about respecting how others want to live their lives, and my sons are both VERY much on board with that. If someone is gay, bi, Republican, Democrat, worships empty french fry containers as God, or whatever, it's their lives to live as they choose.
Single female/wife who plays alone, want an email or texting pal? I'm female.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Single female/wife who plays alone, want an email or texting pal? I'm female.       10-18-2017 16:13 PM
I just realized I have no one to talk to about my lovely adventures. My real life friends are all vanilla. I don't want to share about things with a whole group here on SLS. I am married, but meet single guys sometimes to play. I met (coffee meeting) someone really, really nice today and I was wishing I could talk about that with a girl-friend. You know, "Ooo, look how cute he is!" and stuff like that. I don't want to write back and forth through SLS; I'd rather use email or MeWe app, something like that. SLS keeps messages forever. Blech. Anyone else meet guys (okay, or females...I am bi) one-on-one, like a FWBs, etc., who wants to be virtual friends? ~Jennifer
Things that creep you out on SLSS that makes you immediately ban the person or delete their email
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Things that creep you out on SLSS that makes you immediately ban the person or delete their email       10-16-2017 16:58 PM
1. I, the wife, am okay with dick pix. But not if it's a close up of a stranger's dick head with jizz coming out. That just grosses me out. 2. Not creepy, but a well known problem are profiles with 20 lovely photos of the female, and either zero pix of the male or two pretty poor photos. Can't even see what he really looks like, or just boring photos. I tried to pick out nice and interesting pix of my husband to show off his personality. 3. If someone has made little effort in terms of spelling, grammar and punctuation it makes them look dumb. I will add that if English is not the person's first language I am very forgiving, because I am not bilingual. But otherwise...people get 13 years of free public education (K-12) and should be able to construct some basic sentences. 4. ** Creepiest mail I got lately was one big run on sentence where the guy told me his fantasy of sucking my toes, then going down on me, then fucking my feet, and on and on. Not even an introduction or a howdy do, but right into the scene. BYE, dude!
Full Swap vs. Foursome
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Full Swap vs. Foursome       10-16-2017 16:38 PM
After a while you will both know what you prefer (ideal situation), what you will accept, and what is a hard limit. We used to prefer MfMf, but now we prefer separate rooms. It has a lot to do with the other couple. I don't like when I am with the other male and he is paying a ton of attention to his wife/partner. I mean, looking over and seeing that she's enjoying herself is fine. But if he is distracted and spending a lot of time doing it, I just feel insulted and like I might as well leave.
Can a guy ask women a question here? :)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Can a guy ask women a question here? :)       10-12-2017 14:54 PM
My husband started to rock some scruff lately per my request. I have to admit, kissing is not great with scruff. But everything else is fine and I like how he looks sort of naughty with a scruffy face. To the gentle asking about the problem with urine leakage...a man would have to look like a 10 out 10 for me to be willing to overlook that problem. Have you consulted with a urologist? I don't know if there is anything else that could be done, and if it was surgical then it's a huge risk anytime someone is cutting in that area. You could end up with things going from bad to worse. It's great that your wife loves you just the way you are. That's one advantage to being together with the same person for a while; we both are willing to overlook each other's lack of perfection. :)
Who else is on FetLife?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Who else is on FetLife?       10-09-2017 10:19 AM
We found a local guy who wants to learn to be a rigger. He has a set up in his home and wanted models to practice on. My husband and I went over Sat. night and I wore a skimpy outfit and they practiced with me. Which sounds exciting, but it's a lot of standing around most of the time, trying to put my weight on the ropes to see if it's comfortable enough to bear my weight, etc. Sometimes it hurt, especially after the 4th or 5th attempt to lie down with pressure on a spot that was pressed earlier. I also didn't drink any liquids a couple hours before or during the rigging session of 2 hrs.,for obvious reasons. Someone spent an hour tying you up, you don't want to ask for a potty break. So it was fun and interesting, but less sexy than you'd think. It's not an easy process for the riggers, either. A great Dom is hard to find, so my husband is working on learning how for me. He's getting better at it all the time, now that he sees I'm not as fragile and delicate as he used to think!
Who else is on FetLife?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Who else is on FetLife?       10-07-2017 17:16 PM
Thanks, everyone. Yes, there are other kinky places besides FetLife, that's for sure. :)
Who else is on FetLife?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Who else is on FetLife?       09-30-2017 12:52 PM
Just curious how many others, at this pretty vanilla swing site, are also on FetLife?
Best way to cut weight?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > Best way to cut weight?       09-29-2017 13:58 PM
FYI, most people are sick from consuming way too much protein. It results in heart attacks, diabetes, clogged arteries, you name it. If you do an online search, you will see that there are plenty of spectacular vegan athletes and/or Plant Powered athletes. Sure, eat lots of protein, but focus on plant sources. Eating fat = being fat. If you are truly at the weight you should be at then add nuts, seeds, avocado, soy products like tofu and edamame. Otherwise, eating fat is going to keep you from losing weight. Calorie Density is another topic you can search online. I eat mostly unprocessed carbs like potatoes, beans, legumes, corn, whole grains (rice, quinoa, barley, etc.) . They provide a lot of protein, fiber, vitamins, minerals, macronutrients...and keep my weight down. Carbs give us energy, as long as they are the unprocessed carbs. Don't throw the baby out with the bath water.
What's your biggest kink/taboo?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > What's your biggest kink/taboo?       09-28-2017 12:55 PM
At the BDSM forum here at SLS, Jason is a member who wrote most of the posts there and gives great advice. It's nice to get into kinky stuff slowly, at your own pace, to it's just fun and comfortable. We still have mostly vanilla sex day to day, but it's nice to just try some new things and then talk about it. That's why we like swinging; you have to be Open To New Experiences to swing. Same with kinky stuff; it's just something to check out, if it's at all intriguing. Most of it is not at all of interest to us, but some of it has been surprisingly fun and sexy.
Who loves skinny men
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > Who loves skinny men       09-20-2017 16:54 PM
You can ask for a cert. I've had people ask me. The two I have, the guys offered. Have you written certs for anyone great? Start there if you feel weird asking, but I don't think you should feel weird because it csn help to have a few decent certs. Everyone here knows that, although some people don't choose to do it. I'd rather not have them, but it's part of the game.
Best way to cut weight?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > Best way to cut weight?       09-20-2017 16:49 PM
Please don't risk your health doing keto.
What's your biggest kink/taboo?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > What's your biggest kink/taboo?       09-20-2017 16:21 PM
I like BDSM stuff like being spanked. We actually now spend a lot more time at Fetlife than SLS because the kinky stuff like Dom/sub is more fun than vanilla swinging. But there are some kinky people here, too. ~j.
where a beginner starts
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > where a beginner starts       09-18-2017 18:31 PM
I found my FWB dom here on SLS by sheer luck, because neither of us had anything about sub/dom in our profiles last summer. It's working out great for us so far.
where a beginner starts
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > where a beginner starts       09-18-2017 12:27 PM
I signed us up for Fet Life. That is a great place to find kinky locals...although "local" might mean people who are actually quite a distance away. We are finding that SLS is for vanilla swingers. Hey, swingers...did you know that there was even such a thing as a vanilla swinger? That used to be me.
exhibition/domination/submission
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > exhibition/domination/submission       09-18-2017 07:37 AM
He has gone back and changed his original post. He took out most of the information that I refer to when I responded to him, like admitting that he is pretty lazy and likes to play computer games all day, as well as other things. Remember: he could be a minor. Anyone feel like going to jail?
First thing I notice about women.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > First thing I notice about women.       09-18-2017 07:34 AM
I don't notice older women having toes painted more often, but I can say that older women can afford mani/pedi more than a younger lady. It's not cheap by the time you add a tip to the service. I never got professional mani/pedi until my income reached a certain level. Bryan is an ass man. If I see a pretty lady with tight pants and a nice ass I immediately alert him to it...but he's usually already looking! I like nice asses, too, but I go for the face first. I like a nice smile and happy demeanor.
My fantasy: my husand with a FWB female (we're in PA)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > My fantasy: my husand with a FWB female (we're in PA)       09-18-2017 07:31 AM
It was hard for me find a regular FWB. It took a lot of mail, meetings, texting, until I found someone where it clicked for both of us. But at least I had guys writing and some meetings to check each other out in the mean time. I mean, there was HOPE that eventually there would be someone. I still hope Bryan can have the same thing, but it's becoming a fantasy at this point. He likes slender women, that's one problem right there, but there just aren't a ton of single women looking to hook up one-on-one with a guy. He wants a regular relationship with someone he can get to know and really please, not so much the one-time meetings. Not that we don't both love them, but...you know. I hear other women saying the same thing: so much easier for women to get extra sex than it is for men. Seems pretty unfair, but that's apparently just how it is. Anyway, that's my fantasy! I would be so excited for him to have dates with a pretty lady!
Anyone else eat Whole Food Plant-Based?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > Anyone else eat Whole Food Plant-Based?       09-17-2017 13:21 PM
NutCal is so annoying I blocked him and deleted my posts. Please don't listen to any advice he offers on this topic. Read "The China Study" if you want research based facts. Have a great day, friends.
What's your WOD (workout of the day)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > What's your WOD (workout of the day)       09-17-2017 13:19 PM
I had to get a compression bra for running; it's interesting to be out and about looking flat chested! I wear a D cup normally. My husband said I look thinner in the compression bra.
What's your WOD (workout of the day)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > What's your WOD (workout of the day)       09-17-2017 13:18 PM
I started running this summer, and I can't believe I actually enjoy it now! I like getting around my neighborhood and checking things out, seeing the plants, hearing the birds, maybe listening to a podcast. I have a lot of roads with trees around here, so I just run down that block if I am sweating too much. Best decision I ever made. I like it way better than the gym, which is too loud, smelly, germy, expensive, etc. for my preference.
Who loves skinny men
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > Who loves skinny men       09-17-2017 13:15 PM
You said in your profile you were open to advice. The only advice I have is to get at least one cert and that is because there is a Search feature that lets people search only for people who have certs. I honestyly don't want certs for myself because people will judge me by who I played with. If others think our sex partners, or what they wrote, isn't what they want to hear they could pass us by. So it's a double edged sword at times. But I think having a few certs could help you boost your chances of being chosen, if only so you don't get excluded by the search engine here. I only recently met with single guys (summer 2017), and I did feel better meeting with them if a few people testified that the guy was nice, respectful, what have you.
Who loves skinny men
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > Who loves skinny men       09-17-2017 13:09 PM
Since I'm skinny I am totally fine with skinny men, and even skinny dicks, ha ha. I would rather be with someone who's really thin than had extra weight.
Best way to cut weight?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > Best way to cut weight?       09-17-2017 13:07 PM
The way I eat, I don't count calories or points and I eat until I'm totally satisfied as often as I want. Lots of starchy foods...potatoes, rice, corn, beans, etc. Delish.
Best way to cut weight?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > Best way to cut weight?       09-17-2017 13:05 PM
Why not make a long-term, HEALTHY plan? Believe it or not, potatoes are really healthy. You could live on just potatoes for quite a while and get protein, vitamin, fiber, lots of good things. Best to eat sweet potatoes and yams PLUS other kinds of potatoes. Red and yellow potatoes are more moist than Idaho potatoes; those are dry. Google "Potato Strong" for details. FYI, I thought I'd try that last fall, but I couldn't eat that much fiber all at once. You may not have the intestinal fortitude for this approach cold turkey. Google Dr McDougall (www dot drmcdougall dot com which is what I follow and I MAINTAIN my slim figure eating a McDougall diet). It's a whole food plant-based diet, no oil, the healthiest way to eat. Most people don't want to eat that healthy, but even if you just want to do the Potato Strong approach...that's fast weight loss.
Thongs
FORUMS > Toys Sexy Clothes and more > Lingerie > Thongs       09-13-2017 14:35 PM
I used to hate thongs, but now I am used to them. It's important that they fit right...not too loose or tight. I only wear them for pants that will look better if you can see my buns, to be flirty under a dress, or before sex. I wear those boy shorts style panties a lot because they are cute and stay up well. Sometimes my husband comes panty shopping with me and helps pick out what he would like me to wear.
exhibition/domination/submission
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > exhibition/domination/submission       09-11-2017 11:36 AM
What concerns me about this post is this young man says he is 18. He may actually still be a minor, possibly a run away. I don't want to see anyone get into a bad situation.
exhibition/domination/submission
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > exhibition/domination/submission       09-09-2017 09:29 AM
You admit you're a lazy teen gamer who wants to basically get free room and board in exchange for sex...the kind that you prefer. Thank goodness the prefrontal cortex of the brain continues to mature until age 25, sometimes beyond, because your plan is not good and potentially you could get hurt. Get some more education and/or a real job instead of trying to trade sex for it. You know what they call those kind of people, right? And it seldom ends well, especially for males. Go talk to your guidance counselor about something realistic. I'm serious. Sex should be a hobby or part of caring relationship. Not a career goal.
Men: Have you played with female co-worker?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Men: Have you played with female co-worker?       09-08-2017 17:07 PM
That's a good idea...to stay in touch after she leaves. It's a huge organization and people come and go all the time.
Men: Have you played with female co-worker?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Men: Have you played with female co-worker?       09-08-2017 16:43 PM
Feel free to message us if you don't want to talk about it here. Bryan has so many opportunities at work. One person is all he's asking for!
Men: Have you played with female co-worker?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Men: Have you played with female co-worker?       09-08-2017 16:38 PM
My husband has some very attractive vanilla ladies flirt with him st work. Some is mild and some is more. He is scared of anyone ever accusing him of sexual harassment, or that a female will be upset if he reveals our marriage is open...and maybe she'd be indiscreet. Is there a way to play with co-workers that doesn't end in disaster? Obviously he won't play AT work, okay? How did you let someone know you were available? Hoping some guys with real experience will chime in. Thanks.
Sucking Toes !!!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Sucking Toes !!!       09-08-2017 13:30 PM
Next time I get my pedi I'll let the lady who does my nails know that you admired her handy work.
Submit the best lines from your favorite emails on sls
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Submit the best lines from your favorite emails on sls       09-08-2017 13:24 PM
What's a Gumby couple?
Would you kiss the previous poster?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Would you kiss the previous poster?       09-08-2017 13:22 PM
He works hard at these Forums. I think he deserves a kiss.
So hard for a single male
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > So hard for a single male       09-04-2017 17:42 PM
EZ 2 Remember, I aways have the IM turned off. The only people who have IM'd me are single males who don't read our profile. They seem to be hunting for private pix or dirty talk. Why would I (wife) want to talk to someone who lives hundreds of miles away and begs for pix? Or wants to talk about my titties right out the gate? I'm about being with real people, not helping someone selfish to jerk off. There are some FANTASTIC gentlemen who are single males! And married men who are allowed to play alone. The long-term relationships are always the best, IMHO. They don't cancel often, if they do there's a good reason, and they would never dream of being a No Show.
How do I step over that line
FORUMS > The Bi Sexual Swinger > Bi Females > How do I step over that line       09-04-2017 13:38 PM
Try setting up a separate account for yourself as a single bi female and look on here. Include the name of your couples account. I don't out myself as being bi because, as a professional person who works with kids, I don't want to risk hurting my business. I have put out some feelers from time to time with other women, but nothing ever came of it. Not once. Out in the vanilla world I just pass for straight 99% of the time and keep it discreet. The vast majority of lesbians want nothing to do with bi women in terms of dating or trying to have a relationship, especially those married to men, and extra especially swingers. Can't blame them for that.
Being discreet in your home (kids here)
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Being discreet in your home (kids here)       09-03-2017 19:40 PM
We are seasoned swingers, but really new to BDSM. Most things are easy to keep discreet, but not spanking. That smack on the ass is loud! Plus, we have a vaulted BR ceiling, so it echoes. Luckily we are on the first floor and our adult sons are on the second floor, but it would be so easy to hear through our door (which is opposite the bottom of the steps they use to come downstairs. Has anyone found a good way to reduce the noise of spankings, etc.? We do have drapes and carpeting, but it's a big room. I don't want our BR to look at all weird. I know a different BR door will help (solid, not those cheap hollow core doors). Any other ideas? I hate that we can't do what we want in our own BR. Our youngest son is 16 and could come downstairs any time, day or night. I want privacy from my kids!
Trust
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Trust       09-03-2017 19:23 PM
I think the license plate idea is great, and I think I'll go with that. Anyone can see a license plate any time, unlike a drivers license. Could someone still hurt me? Yes, but perhaps not as likely if he knows someone has a way to track him down. I WANT a guy to know that someone can track him down. If someone thinks I am being paranoid, then you have never been raped or had someone attempt to rape you. I was physically assaulted outside a bar when I was about 20 when I stepped out just to kiss with a guy. I had a blind date (a morning date, no booze involved) who was going to rape me in his van when I was in my early 20's. I got away, but it was so horrible. Sorry if you think I am being paranoid for not trusting someone who is pretty much a stranger to me, and I'm going to go be alone with him, take off my clothes and have sex! I need and deserve to feel safe. If someone can't help me out with that then so be it, I don't care if we don't hook up. I can show someone my business card, he can take a photo of my license plate. I want things to remain discreet between us. But if someone hurts me, then I will out myself in order to catch the perpetrator.
Be careful out there guys
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > Be careful out there guys       09-03-2017 19:11 PM
You cannot reduce your risk of getting any STD by washing or peeing or douching after sex. You may read that online, but that is not correct. Go to a reputable website for info such as npin dot cdc dot gov forward slash stdwareness forward slash the-facts is good. You can Google CDC dot gov. CDC is Center for Disease Control.
Be careful out there guys
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > Be careful out there guys       09-03-2017 18:56 PM
There are enough people who know they have it, it seems like there should be a way for people to openly identify and hook up with each other. If you already have it, does it matter? I don't have it and I don't know everything about it.
Calling them MILFs and Cougars
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Calling them MILFs and Cougars       09-03-2017 18:52 PM
Gave it more thought. To me, being called a cougar is the equivalent of being called a dirty old man. Just those are just my own thoughts, and I respect whatever labels others prefer.
your favorite way of relaxing other than having sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > your favorite way of relaxing other than having sex       09-03-2017 18:51 PM
Thanks, RonKathy, for the editing tip.
your favorite way of relaxing other than having sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > your favorite way of relaxing other than having sex       09-03-2017 18:50 PM
Here is what works for me, as someone who had chronic insomnia. I started doing The Work of Byron Katie about 3 years ago. It's a lady, despite the unusual first name. She goes by Katie or Kate. It's a process for examining our stressful thoughts. We think thoughts and we believe them; some of them bring us stress. "He should..." "I need her to..." "This shouldn't be happening to me." The longer I do this practice, the easier it is to look at my thoughts and realize that they are just thoughts...ideas...beliefs...not THE TRUTH. You can borrow books, go to her web sites for blogs and videos, and see her talk on YouTube. Initially you may be confused or not understand what her perspective is. But she is looking at how subjective reality really is...so you can examine things and choose to believe what brings you joy, and perhaps have a different perspective on what does not bring you joy. Both web sites start with 3 double u's and end with dot com. (Also on FB.) You can Google The Work of Byron Katie as well. Websites: TheWork or ByronKatie
older women
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > older women       09-03-2017 10:33 AM
Luckily for me there are a LOT of men in their 30's and 40's who like, even prefer, older women. Because I prefer younger men. My husband likes women of any legal age; it's all based on looks, fitness and personality. I'd like to be as open as he is, but so far I can't force it.
Trust
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Trust       09-01-2017 08:51 AM
Great tip about Google voice. I totally forgot about that. My first single guy here was also fantastic in every way. I thought it would be easy to meet a couple great guys and have some sort of regular thing. Not easy at all, and yes...some are scary when they don't get what they want (like a first meet up, texts, etc.). Being married gives me a greater sense of safety. Be careful about meeting and including alcohol. It's safer to NOT have alcohol or pot. A woman is far more likely to get raped or assaulted when alcohol is involved. The man is more uninhibited and we are more defenseless. You want to be thinking clearly and see what this guy is like. It's harder to know with wine goggles on, and you can miss important clues about his behavior. Think about a coffee meeting, and at least the first time you play don't have alcohol. If he's a drunkaholic he could have had some booze anyway, but that's a red flag to you. Drunks have poorer judgement. Avoid them. Don't fuck with them, literally. I sometimes make single men show me their drivers license at first meeting. I wrote that in our profile. I'm married so I'm home with my husband and 2 strong sons. If you are alone do NOT let the guy see your license. So far I have not shown mine. I'd have to have excellent reasons to do that. As a single woman, don't put the actual town you are in on your profile. Pick a large town or city close by, etc. -->Tell a friend who you are meeting, as much info as you have. It's best to tell the friend when you should be back so the police can be contacted. When I was single just doing vanilla blind dates a g/f and I always told each other this stuff. At least write it down and leave it in your home so if someone comes to the house to see why you are missing there's a clue. Or if you feel trapped you could tell the person what you have done to protect yourself. Just be super careful and you will have nothing but fun! Yeh, I know I sound paranoid. But since sex is involved it's better to be safe. We are taking a big risk and there are a lot of weirdos out there who are unable to feel compassion for others. They fake it for a while. Then it gets bad. If I scared you sorry, but we all know of the thousands of people on here not everyone is a good person. So stay safe! --J.
Religion
FORUMS > General Discussions > Safe Sex > Religion       08-30-2017 07:33 AM
One of the first couples we played with, the wife taught Sunday school. The couple never talked about religion or church at all, except to laugh (at midnight) that the wife had to teach Sunday school the next morning. I do not believe in organized religion and I'm not even Spiritual any more. I'm more of an existentialist, ha ha. I don't care what people do or don't believe related to religion or politics. I care about having screaming good orgasms.
What does a younger man have to do to prove he is worthy of a mature couple?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > What does a younger man have to do to prove he is worthy of a mature couple?       08-28-2017 19:34 PM
You aren't that young. If they are giving that as a reason I suspect that is NOT the reason. I don't know their real reasons; it probably varies from couple to couple. You're bi, but with a man. Request couples with bi men only for sure. You have to find a couple where both of them want to be with you. That is harder than hooking up with just one other person. It's not easy for me to even play 1:1 with single men, given the duplicity. Fix up your profile, as other suggested, and just keep trying. No other advice. We all face challenges finding good play partners.
Sex Drive
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Sex Drive       08-28-2017 19:28 PM
Mine is higher than his, but mine is higher than almost anyone's. I have only met ONE person (a man) whose sex drive was higher than mine. He always gave me a run for my money. That's why I love meeting other women in the LS; so I know I'm not the only female whose drive is ridiculous. I could do it twice a day. We do it almost every day; sometimes twice a day, sometimes skip a day. We both have jobs, so we try to be respectful of the other person sometimes being too tired to want to get anything going. Some people want it once a month or never. There's nothing wrong with that. How much is too much? If it's interfering with your daily life; you know, missing work for it, or making bad decisions and choices, hurting other people or yourself.
Calling them MILFs and Cougars
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Calling them MILFs and Cougars       08-28-2017 15:21 PM
I sometimes work with students up to age 21 (some students in Special Ed stay in HS past the 12th year). I feel very maternal and caring towards the older students, and having a 25 year old...yes, it just naturally extends to guys who look (or act) like they are in their 20's. -------I notice that I admire younger women's bodies, and I might be turned on when looking at them, but I don't want to be sexual with them. I highly prefer women close to my own age. I am not sure why that is. I have no daughters, so you might think it would be the opposite. I'm only want to be sexual with younger guys (30's, 40's).
The Oral Dilemma.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > The Oral Dilemma.       08-28-2017 15:16 PM
Some of us ladies like a very slow start...touching as softly as possible, and away from the opening to the vagina and from the clit. Build some desire. Most guys just start sucking on my clit like gang busters and it doesn't feel very great as the appetizer; that's an entree or dessert item. It also doesn't work when a guy is trying to jam his tongue into my vagina and fuck me with his tongue. That feels like almost nothing to me. You don't have to work that hard, guys! I also hate a tongue flicking rapidly across my clit at any time. That must be a big move in porno, or maybe a lot of women like that besides me. I try to remember to tell the guy I am with how to approach the whole thing so he is successful for me AND he gets the reward of my response to his attentions. Since I am bi I know how tricky it can be to help a female have an orgasm and eat her the way that she wants. Sometimes I just do it the way I like it and see how she is responding; if she isn't going crazy then I start asking questions.
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