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In these bad economic times where are all the FREE events
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > In these bad economic times where are all the FREE events       04-06-2010 08:50 AM
The only way you get a 'free' party is if you show up and sponge off the people who paid for it. Even if you have another couple to your home you will have to buy refreshments, right? To have a nice, big meet n greet and not incur any type of expense is very hard to do. We have tried setting up and/or attending these things with others and the best that occured was being at a vanilla club, all sort of mixed into the regular crowd, having trouble finding each other. And at worst, having no control over who shows up (there is always at least one certain someone you don't want there--that guy who always drinks and then gets grabby or talks trash). It's not a good place for 'newbies' because they are always nervous, and don't feel safe mixed in with the vanilla crowd, not knowing who is what. After being in the lifestyle for quite some time now, I never see the people who complain the loudest throwing any parties. It is a LOT of work (having helped/watched friends do it) and can be very aggravating dealing with the venue, DJ's, staff, let alone the swingers who complain. Anyone who wants to complain that you don't like the price, location, whatever...go throw your own party. Find out how easy it ISN'T.
Silo Foam Take Over Party
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Silo Foam Take Over Party       04-06-2010 08:34 AM
They had a foam pit at a M&G in York last year. It was really cool! It's amazing how it 'evaporates' on your skin. You can't feel it after that. I'm someone who doesn't like the feeling of residue on my hands, and this didn't bother me. It's a very fluffy, light, bubbly foam. But when you get a LOT of it at one time you can't see what people are doing inside that foam; that's the fun part, I guess. Don't inhale it, that's my only suggestion! Watch out for having it near your face. Otherwise, it's a lot of fun to play with even if you don't want to get inside the foam. It won't hurt your clothes. Dry cleanables you might not want in it, but otherwise it's no problem.
Pet Peeves 2010
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Pet Peeves 2010       02-07-2010 12:12 PM
Pet peeve: same as always. Soooo hard to find another couple where we are attracted to both of them, and both of them are interested in us. Four people need to click, and how often is it three out of four? a LOT. Oh, well, it could be worse. We could be vanilla!! LOL!
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Jersey > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!       09-12-2009 20:25 PM
Not too many rooms left with king size beds. Plenty of rooms with two doubled beds, though. So bring another couple to sleep in the other bed. ;-)~
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!       09-12-2009 20:24 PM
Not too many rooms left with king size beds. Plenty with two double beds. Guess you'd better bring another couple to sleep in the other bed. ;)~
Do you tell “vanilla” friends or acquaintances you swing
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Do you tell “vanilla” friends or acquaintances you swing       09-05-2009 12:53 PM
We told our very closest friends, and I told a male cousin because somehow it came up in a conversation. A few years after that HE had a threesome and I was the first person he called. He started seeing a divorced female swinger and his dreams came true. Mostly we don't tell people just because of our jobs, which involve minors. Best to be discreet. Plus, although I'm willing to talk about my sex life with anyone, not everyone I'm friends with does so. NO ONE in our families knows, altho' hubby told his sister I was bi way back 13 years ago when we were dating. One of my vanilla friends told me, "I live vicariously through you." She wants to swing but her husband doesn't.
SLS question about mail and profiles
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > SLS question about mail and profiles       09-05-2009 12:45 PM
If we block single males from reading our profile, can I still email select single males and open our pix to them, or will they be blocked? It's really frustrating to get a lot of unsolicited mail from single men. There are so many of them.
No pictures of men in couples post
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > No pictures of men in couples post       09-02-2009 19:34 PM
That has been a problem on SLS (and other swap sites) forever; no pix of the guys. I used to hate it when guys could just use a close up of their genitals for the main picture. When you did a search for people or looked at posts you were forced to see someone's groin! Glad those days are gone. Better NO picture than that. We wrote in our profile that we only meet couples when we see BOTH of them.
Delicate question here
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Delicate question here       08-31-2009 09:51 AM
I'm not a back door girl, but it seems like doing it in a shower would be the cleanest way to do about it. If a guy is THAT damn picky about #2 that he is not willing to be exposed to a little of it, then he shouldn't be doing anal sex, hon FYI, enemas are addictive if done regularly. Luckily I have no worries about that!
Know any soft core porn for women
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Know any soft core porn for women       08-31-2009 09:48 AM
I used to see some on Oxygen channel. I really like women's porn a lot. I don't want to buy it (I am not a re-runs kind of a person). I want to rent it or see it on TV. I'm in SouthEastern PA and get Comcast. I am not into regular men's porn. Most of the men are so disgusting looking. Just having a big wanger does not a sexy man make.
Do you know right away when you meet someone that you want to play or do you have to get to know them
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Do you know right away when you meet someone that you want to play or do you have to get to know them       08-31-2009 09:44 AM
Can't tell from online, that's for sure. People we were sure were yes/no ended up going the other way when we met in person. After we meet in person it can go any direction at all: definite yes/no, or maybe. We have the same problem everyone else has that does couple swaps: if one person in a pair is unsure and hesitant it can derail everything. The person who is unsure might not want to spend more time because then there is more pressure to swap if the person who IS sure gets more excited. Did that make sense? Some men I see, I KNOW even if the guy is a pig, I would do it at least once just coz--WOW!!! I want to get my hands on him! ;P
wife and blow jobs
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > wife and blow jobs       08-31-2009 09:38 AM
I don't blow with condoms, but I do it knowing I could end up with herpes top and bottom and spread that joy to others, including my hubby. That's why it's important to know who you are playing with as much as you can if you are willing to take that risk. So far I've been lucky!
Age differences
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Age differences       08-31-2009 09:36 AM
The people who do understand don't bother to write to you. Since most people don't write you can assume most people are either fine with it, or have better manners than those who write to ask. It's a big age difference, admit it; but to me it's not shocking so I wouldn't bother to ask and inquire about it. You obviously are attracted to each other, get along, love each other, etc. etc. Same reasons anyone else in the world chooses to be together.
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Jersey > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!       08-30-2009 18:49 PM
We just called to make our reservation. Be sure to ASK for the package, if you are spending the night. The guy on the phone didn't even mention that special deal (room, show, breakfast buffet). If you want a king bed best call ASAP. Otherwise, you get two double beds (not bad if you go with another couple...but it's easier to change from king to double than vice versa).
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!       08-30-2009 18:48 PM
Make sure you ask for the special; I just called for the reservation and they didn't even mention the package deal!
Men with facial hair
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Men with facial hair       08-28-2009 14:42 PM
I prefer hairless face, but if it's a soft beard I'm okay. I like some of the newer, sexy thin beards. Hard to kiss someone who needs a shave; that hair around the lips hurts. I also HATE big mustaches, and usually don't like the look of a muzzy and no beard (kind of out of style at the moment). My ex had one for a while and I hated it so bad, so maybe I"m just sour grapes about it because of that.
Shaving
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Shaving       08-18-2009 21:45 PM
3-4 bladed razor and soap for sensitive skin (e.g., Kiss My Face). I also have an expensive dry shaver that I use the next day; it gets even closer than wet shaving. But it won't work on big stubbles because the pubic hair is too soft for it; it would work on a man's beard. Some peopel swear by baby powder or corn starch with a dry shaver. That one wasn't good for me.
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes       08-18-2009 21:41 PM
Just in terms of allocation of time resources, religion is not very efficient. There's a lot more I could be doing on a Sunday morning. --Bill Gates, Time Magazine, January 13, 1996. The conventional view serves to protect us from the painful job of thinking. --John Kenneth Galbraith The happiest time of anyone's life is just after the first divorce. --John Kenneth Galbrait
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Jersey > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!       08-18-2009 21:38 PM
Bump...going to be a great show!
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!       08-18-2009 21:36 PM
Still bumping. It's going to be a great show!
Masturbation practices
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Masturbation practices       08-16-2009 21:03 PM
I almost always come when we swing. I am typically multi-orgasmic for intercourse. When I do myself it's usually one BIG orgasm and then I am sooo done. I lose all interest in sex for the moment. I might be ready for more in a while, but not at that moment. Whereas if I have a sexy partner I can keep going and going. 2 hours is my personal best.
How to approach my doctor
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > How to approach my doctor       08-16-2009 20:56 PM
Happypa, I'd be interested to know how it went for you.
Divorced and still swinging
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Divorced and still swinging       08-16-2009 20:54 PM
A lot of swingers are in their second marriage. And statistically second marriages are more likely to lead to divorce than first marriages. Whether or not swinging increases or decreases that chance (statistically) I have no idea. I have seen couples divorce over swinging; none of them first marriages. So who knows? If you swing you might flirt with danger at times, IMHO, but we choose to take the risk because of the pleasures. This is our second marriages, but our 10th anniv. is this year and all is going well. Hopefully we will beat the odds long term!
Squeaky Fromme Released From Prison
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Squeaky Fromme Released From Prison       08-16-2009 20:50 PM
She's pretty old now. I hope she appreciates being on The Outside and makes the best of it.
Random acts of kindness, love, affection
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Random acts of kindness, love, affection       08-16-2009 20:48 PM
That's a beautiful and inspirational tale. I am sure that lady was a wonderful partner to her husband all these years, too.
Trying to stop smoking
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Trying to stop smoking       08-16-2009 20:46 PM
No words of wisdom; just a {{{hug}}}} and saying GOOD LUCK. YOu are making the right choice.
Impatience does not pay off
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Impatience does not pay off       08-13-2009 21:26 PM
I think some people get their feelings hurt too easily and read too much into it all.
What's the longest you have played with someone
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's the longest you have played with someone       08-13-2009 21:23 PM
We have had some long interruptions from swinging due to health issues with our kids and some loooong work hours. However, it would be 5 years with one couple. Going to hook up again soon with a single guy I haven't played with in 3 years or so...
Reading area wife seeking ride(s) to TJs
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Reading area wife seeking ride(s) to TJs       08-13-2009 21:21 PM
You are silly! If anyone wants to talk about possible rides, please email me here at this site. I might miss an answer here at the forum. TY.
Too personal
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Too personal       08-13-2009 21:15 PM
Nothing is too personal except if someone expects me to kiss and tell ALL. I will tell a whole, whole lot but not if it's something that I think another person might not want told behind his/her back. We require condoms, but it has nothing to do with bareback being too personal; it's a health issue and a pregnancy issue.
Age Differances
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Age Differances       08-13-2009 21:11 PM
Her: 11 years younger, 13 years older. Most around the same age. Him: Unsure how many years younger, 13 years older.
Anyone here been to HedoFarm in PA
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Anyone here been to HedoFarm in PA       08-13-2009 21:01 PM
Thanks for the info. We got some emails, mostly positive about the Farm. The main consensus seems to be that The Cottage is friendlier but maybe not as sexy. Have to be honest: since we are looking for sex partners, not 'just friends' I would be more inclined to try The Farm. If that doesn't click then I guess The Cottage would be worth a look-see. :)
How to say no thanks to someone you've already played with once
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How to say no thanks to someone you've already played with once       08-11-2009 11:20 AM
Giving and taking refusals is part of this lifestyle. I think I've gotten a lot better at both! Some people never get used to not be chosen, become bitter, and leave. Others get a little thicker skin. How we handle giving a refusal depends on the couple, how long we have known them, and the reasons. Usually we tell the truth, but not be specific: "Let's be friends." That's what it comes down to. Just think how or what you want to be told and go with that. I like when people just kind of fade away and get busy. It's funny, coz sometimes they (like us) really ARE just too busy with life and family and we have ended up playing again with couples we haven't seen in years. With one couple the husband couldn't keep an erection no matter how hard we all tried (play porn, lick his wife, you name it). We played three times and I started to feel like a sex therapist instead of a play partner. I mean, I understand he was just nervous. I'm sure he performed marvelously with his wife! He was handsome, buff, young, and had some good wood before it was time for insertion. But I couldn't stand getting whooped up for another evening of disappointment, especially while the other side of the bed was rocking! LOL! Luckily we really did want to stay friends (my husband wanted to be more than friends with the wife, but they didn't play separately so he was outta luck, poor guy!)
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!       08-10-2009 21:35 PM
Bump.
teachers and staff
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > teachers and staff       08-09-2009 17:43 PM
When I was an educator (not teacher) with a school district we were all warned that we would be fired if inappropriate material relating to us was discovered. No one was specific; we were just told BE CAREFUL and if in doubt, don't do it. I think that really stinks. This is a web site I paid to join and I try to be discreet. If someone comes here to troll around and sees I'm here, then what? And why is HE or SHE here? Why am I more guilty than the person who came here to look around? I can see not posting things at Facebook or places where students might go. One would hope they wouldn't come to SLS, but if a HS students lies to get in here and sees a teacher, then the HS student broke the law, not the teacher.
spinning class
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > spinning class       08-09-2009 17:36 PM
I hate step classes. I like Zumba, eliptical, Pilates, yoga, YogaFlow... Spinning: You MUST have a good gel seat, IMHO. Also, start slow. After my first class I felt awful. I haven't been in a while but plan to go again, and I'm letting the teacher know in advance that I'll be moving a lot slower than everyone else for a while.
Why is it the single males chicken out
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Why is it the single males chicken out       08-09-2009 17:32 PM
We always have the best luck meeting ANYONE to play when our first meeting was at a meet n greet or house party. Even other couples often chicken out about meeting.
Anyone here been to HedoFarm in PA
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Anyone here been to HedoFarm in PA       08-09-2009 17:26 PM
How is it? We are thinking of joining as a couple. It looks good online; probably depends on what kind of crowd they have going as this time, and that's what I wanted to know. Thanks! --Jen
Reading area wife seeking ride(s) to TJs
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Reading area wife seeking ride(s) to TJs       08-09-2009 17:00 PM
I may join TJs Lasting Impressions as a single female (my husband would know; I am not cheating). Anyone in my area who can offer rides? Anyone who somewhat regularly? (We joined twice before in the past, and got there once a year.) Of course I will pay for my ride. I am not offering to play with the couple/person who is going; just looking for a ride where there will be a safe designated driver. I get way too tired late at night to drive home from that far away, even w/o drinking. Please email if you have questions or think this might work out for us.
anal sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > anal sex       08-09-2009 14:51 PM
If you are really excited about the idea, have vaginal sex first and climax. While you are still hard, then insert. You will have a partial erection and easier insertion. Use tons of lube.
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Jersey > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!       08-09-2009 14:49 PM
For those who wanted to know: They are adding a second show for FRI. There is limited seating; better to get your ticket early to avoid disappointment. Tommy just won L.A. Comedy Award.
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!       08-09-2009 14:48 PM
They added a second show for FRI. to be sure everyone can see him. We are still going on SAT., but just thought I'd let people know for those who want to see him while he's on the east coast...which doesn't happen often. He just won an L.A. Comedy Award.
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!       08-07-2009 20:03 PM
Are we allowed to bump here? Bump...
I'm looking for a life style friendly GYNO
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > I'm looking for a life style friendly GYNO       08-06-2009 22:30 PM
Planned Parenthood, if there is one near you, is always wonderful about it all. I used to live in an upscale area and with my insurance I could have gone anywhere. But I picked PP. The clinician was a woman, and she didn't bat an eye about anything. The intake form asked how many partners I had in the last year, both male and female, and how many in my lifestyle. When we moved I tried using my family dr., but the nurse asked no questions and assumed that since I was married, both hubby and I were monogomous. I told the nurse otherwise and she seemed embarrassed. So I went elsewhere.
Things that do not turn you on
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Things that do not turn you on       08-06-2009 22:24 PM
Hi, can I join in this long list? Things That Do Not Turn Me On: 1. Someone who sticks his/her tongue in my mouth and waggles it around while he/she has his/her mouth open at the same time. I have found more women who do this than men so far. Turn off. 2. Feeling like the only reason the other couple wantd a foursome was so that I could pleasure the wife while he watched. She obviously is bi-passive and he wanted a girl-girl show at my expense. Harsh! 3. Senior citizens 4. Sloppy, horny drunks 5. BAD BAD TEETH or breath; I have spent many hours and a zillion dollars on my stupid teeth so I understand the dental work blues. But people should go to the dentist every 6 months, brush, floss, the basics. 6. I like expensive cologne used sparingly; very sexy. Cheap cologne or too much of any cologne...scary. 7. I don't like being spanked, smacked, hit...makes me mad. I also don't enjoy hitting other people. I like smooooooth lovin'. 8. I also have to say that if it gets really late and I'm tired...I lose my desire, even if I was begging for it earlier in the evening. So fatigue doesn't turn me on. 9. Most porn doesn't turn me on. I like women's soft core porn. 10. Transvestites and cross dressers don't turn me on at all. They might be interesting to watch in a circus act sort of way, but they aren't a turn on.
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!       08-06-2009 18:37 PM
More info. to follow after I get a head count. I invited at the NJ forum, too.
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!
FORUMS > Events > New Jersey > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt in Princeton 9-19!!!!       08-05-2009 19:28 PM
Who else loves comedy? We do, and I really love this guy. We stayed at the hotel and saw him last year. It's a beautiful clean classy hotel, and the show KILLED. There are other comedians who open for Tommy, who is on Sirius Satellite radio (Raw Dog). They have a special: arrive Sat. 9/19, room with King size bed or two doubles, see the comedy show, and then have breakfast buffet the next morning. The package is $149. I 'think' the show alone is $40/person. You would have to check if you are thinking of just doing that. There is a really nice bar next to the club where we can hook up before or after the show. Club: Catch a Rising Star - Princeton, NJ The club is inside the Hyatt Regency Princeton, 102 Carnegie Center, Princeton, NJ Catch a Rising Star: 609.987.8018 Hyatt (can call or reserve online): 609 987 1234 www dot heytommy dot net This is Tommy's web site. He has two shows FRI 9/18 and two shows SAT 9/19. We are going to the SAT late show.
Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Cum see comedian Tommy Savitt 9-19!       08-05-2009 19:28 PM
Who else loves comedy? We do, and I really love this guy. We stayed at the hotel and saw him last year. It's a beautiful clean classy hotel, and the show KILLED. There are other comedians who open for Tommy, who is on Sirius Satellite radio (Raw Dog). They have a special: arrive Sat. 9/19, room with King size bed or two doubles, see the comedy show, and then have breakfast buffet the next morning. The package is $149. I 'think' the show alone is $40/person. You would have to check if you are thinking of just doing that. There is a really nice bar next to the club where we can hook up before or after the show. Club: Catch a Rising Star - Princeton, NJ The club is inside the Hyatt Regency Princeton, 102 Carnegie Center, Princeton, NJ Catch a Rising Star: 609.987.8018 Hyatt (can call or reserve online): 609 987 1234 www dot heytommy dot net This is Tommy's web site. He has two shows FRI 9/18 and two shows SAT 9/19. We are going to the SAT late show. Princeton, NJ is less than 90 min. from Reading. Take the turnpike to I 95 into NJ. It's an easy ride, honest, and well worth it.
Condom Who's Responsibilty is It
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Condom Who's Responsibilty is It       06-28-2009 22:59 PM
As a woman I could appreciate why a man would hate using condoms after I used female condoms. It's like getting screwed through a sandwhich bag! A lot less sensation, plus that stupid plastic ring covering your external goodies. Who should buy the condoms? Everyone! I can't tolerate spermicide; causes me big problems. So I take my own. Other than that, I'm not picky. Just get a rain coat and stick your big dick in!
September At The Silo
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > September At The Silo       08-20-2008 22:14 PM
We have been out of it for a bit. Going to the Silo...can't wait to see our ol' friends! J & B
Menopause
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Menopause       07-27-2007 21:54 PM
I am just coming into it. I don't get them related to "that time of the month" and never have, and I don't see any with menopause. My moods were pretty stable during pregancy and all that, too. I'm not saying I'm always happy or nice, just that I don't seem to have big mood swings with hormones. I just want men to know, not every woman becomes intolerable and crabby during menopause. And the bonus is, I used to be FREEZING cold all the time with too many blankets on the bed, and the house too hot for his liking, and now we are at the same temp. level for covers and such. That's convenient. The thing that gets me feeling miserable is not enough sleep. So I try to be responsible about getting enough of it. Sometimes that means no Nighty-Night nookie, but there's always 3AM or right after the morning alarm to sneak in some lovin'.
Do some women like to see two men together
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do some women like to see two men together       07-27-2007 21:44 PM
I don't get one bit turned on by seeing 2 GAY men together, although it doesn't bother me, etc. And the 2 bi guys, it wouldn't turn me on, either, unless I was part of the action.
Do some women like to see two men together
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do some women like to see two men together       07-27-2007 21:43 PM
My hubby is repulsed at the thought of 2 guys together. I have a fantasy of me with 2 hot bi guys, and all of us doing each other. That is one of my favorite masturbation fantasies. I think if I did that, it might turn my hubby off to me a bit. I can promise he wouldn't want to come watch!
Big Vagina
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Big Vagina       07-27-2007 21:40 PM
I had a boy-friend some years back. He told me about the g/f he had before me: "It was like walking into an auditorium. It was, 'Where is she?' "
Dr Ellenberger, Berks Co, PA :-)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Dr Ellenberger, Berks Co, PA :-)       07-27-2007 21:29 PM
Someone here at SLS emailed me about Dr. Ellenberger. If you see this, can you write to me here at SLS? EVen if it's months from now, that's okay.
Best Make-Up, Filler, etc for those pesky little lines
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Best Make-Up, Filler, etc for those pesky little lines       07-27-2007 21:27 PM
I have about a zillion tubes and jars of creams and lotions for my arms, face, whatever. Some were very expensive, including Clinique, etc. I have rosacea and a lot of stuff gives me flair ups. Some of them give me pimples. I have sensitive skin. In fact, I just tried a sample of Dove Sensitive Skin body wash, which felt so cream and nice. But I had an allergic reaction (itchy rash all over my body), so now I have to take Prednisone for 5 days. That free sample was no bargain. I went to a good dermatologist this summer (where I got the Dove sample, ironically enough). I am using the products she sells for my face and neck. None of them are cheap, but they definitely work well. Anything I don't like I can return for a full refund or an exchange. I have had to return 2 things; one I didn't like the smell, the other made my rosacea flare up. This is cheaper in the long run than wasting my money on all those other products that are sitting almost full in the cabinet...Olay, Clinique, Eucerine (although I got samples of new stuff for people with rosacea and it works great).
Do women really fall for single guys lame attempts to get attention
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Do women really fall for single guys lame attempts to get attention       07-27-2007 21:19 PM
Yeah, if they are good looking! WTF!! Maybe they are nervous.
small penis
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > small penis       06-14-2007 16:04 PM
When I was dating at age 20 (vanilla time of my life) I went to bed with a man (black) who was 3 inches max. The words "Vienna Sausage" came to ming. It was truly an unsatisfying experience for me altogether. Being young, I actually did ask, "Is it in?" and it was. Some women life smaller ones for back door fun. That's not my thing, but I can see where a smaller penis would be more fun for anal. Or at least less injurous. I dated a lot of men before my swinging times, and if a penis is too short I will never be satisfied. I'd rather have less time having sex with a big, long one than all the time in the world with a short one. I feel bad about that, but it's just a physical fact for me. I come best with deep intercourse, not with oral/external stim.
Do you give second chances
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Do you give second chances       06-14-2007 15:57 PM
Any time I have gotten stood up it's because the guy was married and lying about it. I gave one guy a second change, and he showed up, but then he told me he was married. His "legal separation" was a bunch of crap. At least he told me BEFORE my panties were off!
Do y'all get dirty looks at the store while picking up eggs
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Do y'all get dirty looks at the store while picking up eggs       06-14-2007 15:50 PM
DH and I both have jobs around kids, and we know so many people in our town that we keep things conservative when out and about. When we were dating and went to vanilla clubs I got dirty looks from other women. I used to work out a lot, was ultra thin, and wore the skimpiest clothing possible w/o getting arrested. Got tons of hateful glares back then, but I had worked so hard to get into shape that I was unapologetic.
Jokes
FORUMS > General Discussions > Jokes and Funnies > Jokes       06-12-2007 19:29 PM
I love the "clean my house" joke!!!!!!
Experience Orgasm of Other Sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Jokes and Funnies > Experience Orgasm of Other Sex       06-12-2007 19:26 PM
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How Do You Feel About The Meet Greet That Were Held At Mulligans
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > How Do You Feel About The Meet Greet That Were Held At Mulligans       05-26-2007 17:10 PM
Can I be honest? We like going to Mulligan's better than anywhere because it's pretty private. But for that much money, $20 for both of us, I would hope that Mulligan's will go around during the evening and pick up the empty plastic cups and trash that accumulates. Everytime we go, by the end there are no empty surfaces. They also CHARGE MORE for a lot of the drinks inside the club. I'm not asking for a drink special, but I want to know why we get charged higher for our drinks vs. if we walk out front to the restaurant. Okay, I am off my soap box.
May 5th @ PGC Cinco De Mayo PARTY Lisa`s Birthday!!!!
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > May 5th @ PGC Cinco De Mayo PARTY Lisa`s Birthday!!!!       05-05-2007 14:05 PM
IT'S CANCELED for tonight...May 26 is when it's rescheduled.
Any Classic-Muscle-Collectible Car Owners
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Any Classic-Muscle-Collectible Car Owners       04-26-2007 19:25 PM
Our very first date was to the Kutztown Custom Car show. Funny, because I took my camera and have pix of us and the cars on our first date. For him it was love at first DATE...a chick who loves custom cars! LOL!
Private Couples - Ladies
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Private Couples - Ladies       04-11-2007 19:22 PM
My hubby would show up just to see YOU, Steph! ;)
Questions for the Ladies regarding ED and Oral
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Questions for the Ladies regarding ED and Oral       03-23-2007 16:53 PM
I have had some guys with problems getting wood. To me it's not a big deal! I would play again with someone who had the problem. The only time I have a problem with it is men who can't ever get a good erection with a condom on, because we HAVE to use condoms. But I still don't hold it against the guy, it just won't work out for us. Hey, I've had a few times where my pussy wasn't as wet as I wanted. I remember once I was so horny and I was coming a lot and hard. But I still had to get the ol' KY out. We don't have perfect control of our bodies. I think, with swinging, it's easy to see the other person as an object to satisfy us sexually. We aren't in a caring, intimate relationship like with someone you date or are married to.
3-10 strip club reading pa
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > 3-10 strip club reading pa       03-18-2007 22:23 PM
Where is Buck Rubs?? Is it a nice strip place?
Anyone know of a product to stop M-B
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Anyone know of a product to stop M-B       03-18-2007 19:45 PM
I have used Insteads for a while. I think they are easy to insert; VERY messy to remove!!!!!!! You have to get bloody fingers. I used them for the last few years, to try to reduce yeast infections, but I am back to tampons. It's kind of like a diaphram. If you have used one of those, Instead is a piece of cake. I used to use a cervical cap for birth control, and it worked for short periods of time for "other" things like oral. I used to use contraceptive sponges long ago; they were slippery and moved around. I thought those were hard to place. I think it depends on how hard it is for you to maneuver things around your cervix. ;)
Ladies, plastic surgeon in PA
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Ladies, plastic surgeon in PA       02-26-2007 20:34 PM
Looking good! And I live in Berks, too. Thanks, also, to the ladies who emailed me with dr. names.
Ladies, plastic surgeon in PA
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Ladies, plastic surgeon in PA       02-19-2007 13:59 PM
Anyone had excellent, above average plastic surgery results? I want a tummy tuck, but it has to be the best of the best. I don't know who to consider. I know to get someone board certified, yada yada. But the proof is in the results. My concern is I want the incision site to be smooth and heal well. I have seen some women whose breasts and tummy's didn't meet smoothly; there was puckering and/or a bump where one level of skin met the next area. pacouple12345 at yahoo dot com, if you don't want to post here.
Last Word Again
FORUMS > General Discussions > Jokes and Funnies > Last Word Again       12-31-2006 18:15 PM
Happy, horny new year to everyone! Or should I say, Happy NUDE year??
Bipolar Holiday Greetings 2006
FORUMS > General Discussions > Jokes and Funnies > Bipolar Holiday Greetings 2006       12-30-2006 16:15 PM
We've done both!
Women over 50
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Women over 50       12-23-2006 15:23 PM
I'm not 50 yet...but I wanted to say, the original post didn't offend me. What DOES offend me is a man who want to get something going, but he doesn't even have his photos here. If you want someone to fantasize about you, you have to have SOMETHING to share visually. That's JMHO.
Bipolar Holiday Greetings 2006
FORUMS > General Discussions > Jokes and Funnies > Bipolar Holiday Greetings 2006       12-23-2006 15:12 PM
This is supposed to be funny, so I hope no one is offended. I wrote it for those of us who won't be sending warm, fuzzy holiday letters this year. Our teen is bipolar, and most parents with a child who has a serious neurochemical problem can relate. My bipolar-teen support group loved the letter. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Bipolar Holiday Greetings! Dear Family & Friends, Well, it has been another exciting year for us, one of unexpected surprises and many new friends. We have still not found the right med. regimen for Billy yet, despite 37 visits to 8 different specialists. But we have met so many nice people at all the doctors’ offices, with all that time sitting in waiting rooms. Our home has been redecorated; stop on by sometime for a look-see. After some of Billy’s manic episodes we were “inspired” to replace a few things including the entire front screen door, the glass sliders in the back of the house (using a Shabby Chic approach featuring pink and white painted plywood to cover the hole), one busted bedroom door, and new carpeting for Billy’s bedroom (don’t ask why! You don’t want to know). A new tradition in our family is Parents’ Night Out. That’s when Billy leaves in a confused rage, and we spend the night canvassing the neighborhood trying to locate him. More new friends: some of the nice local police officers who are good at helping us locate Billy. Although we couldn’t go away on vacation this year, we had adventures right here close to home. Billy tried to open the car door to jump out when we were on the highway doing 60 MPH, and that gets your adrenaline moving faster than any white water rafting trip. He also stood on the front lawn and yelled nonsense and profanity at us in the middle of the night, for all the neighbors to hear, and it was so embarrassing and bizarre, it felt like we were in a movie. Who needs to go to Hollywood? Well, we hate to end the letter here, but Billy is making the same request over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again…so it’s hard to think. Our Christmas wish list includes a big bottle of Schnapps, earplugs, a good respite care provider, a kind and smart psychiatrist, and a padded room. We plan to lock ourselves in the padded room while locking Billy out of it, so that we can drink the Schnapps and get some rest. Warmest wishes, Francis Frazzled and Family
Weirdos in the lifestyle
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Weirdos in the lifestyle       08-01-2006 18:08 PM
IrishRose22, on your original post the weird guy says your wife is a SLUT like it's a bad thing! I'm proud to be kinda slutty. :)
Reading M-G-Playpen
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Reading M-G-Playpen       06-11-2006 14:43 PM
Thanks to everyone who helped make last night possible. Sooooooo much fun! Met some great, new people. We love it. Can't wait for more fun. --Jen & Bryan
Reading M-G-Playpen
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Reading M-G-Playpen       06-07-2006 21:52 PM
I'm getting a manicure and pedicure SAT before the party. Everyone be sure to come over and look at my, um...well, whatever you want to look at!
Reading M-G-Playpen
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Reading M-G-Playpen       03-22-2006 19:26 PM
All the way till June? Oh, no! How will we make it? We might have to find another party between now and then. Cant wait.
cheating husbands poll
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > cheating husbands poll       01-16-2006 22:04 PM
We met a single guy at a meet n greet. He said he was divorced. Down the road we chatted on the phone about meeting. He was saying I should come to his office to meet him, which made bells go off. That and only having his CELL number. It didn't take much to get him to admit he was still married, and still living in the same house with her, and they were still in marital therapy. Haven't spoken to him once since. I told my hubby about it, and we were both disgusted that he lied to our faces.
Male must be well hung - a survey
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Male must be well hung - a survey       10-08-2005 22:04 PM
I once had a boy-friend who told me that his ex-g/f was like being in an auditorium. He said the first time he put his penis in he thought, "Huh? Where is she?" --Jen
A tribute to our parents and the whole aging issue
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > A tribute to our parents and the whole aging issue       09-16-2005 10:42 AM
I'm on the flip side from you. I, too, used to work in nursing homes and hospitals when I was in my 20's and early 30's. I saw dignity in the patients, even the senile ones. I got over my fear of some day ending up having to be taken care of. "If it happens, then it will be one day at a time. Nothing I can do about it then." I enjoyed the relationships I had with even those who were not totally with it anymore. What was disturbing was the STAFF. If you want to meet some really uncaring people, go to a nursing home and check out some of the staff. There are also some really caring ones, too, by the way. I mean, I worked there, and I was a caring person. Nurses aids, doctors (especially dr's), some of the nurses, the Administrator, you name it, there were uncaring and insensitive people who shouldn't be working with helpless folks. Anyway...I have a fear of LOOKING older, etc. I see the wrinkles coming. My mom has the same fears. She is 68ish. She gets depressed every year on her birthday, even though she is as smart as ever (and she's smart!) and almost as physically agile, etc. She would say, "Getting older sucks." I used to scold her for having that attitude..."It's get older or die, Mom, no other choice." But I internalized that message and now I feel the same way. I did, over the summer, examine how it would be if I just gave that up. Don't plan on getting liposuction or a tummy tuck. Why waste $10,000 on that when we could take some excellent vacations to Italy, Asia, or something fun, instead of painful plastic surgery? I can imagine myself giving up all my fears of looking older and older; I know I CHOOSE to be unhappy about my appearance and the aging process (we all do, on some level, I believe). I get stuck because I had my breasts lifted several years ago (not enlarged, just lifted), and I have to say that it really has made me feel better about my body (at least that part!) I am so happy with it, so glad that my breasts are upright and natural and normal looking. BUT...then it's a trap..."If I get lipo on my tummy...and get dermal microabrasion on my face...and..." If I was rich and money was not a problem then it might not so much of an issue. But getting plastic surgery means giving up other things in life I want, too, like traveling and paying my house off, and maybe not working so many hours so I have more time for family. The whole plastic surgery and cosmetics industry is designed to make us feel ugly. I could kick myself for buying into it! Jen
Satisfying sexual encounters for women, what does it take
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Satisfying sexual encounters for women, what does it take       09-11-2005 16:31 PM
I was going to answer the actual question at this post when I opened it, but now that I read through the responses and see that it turned into a bunch of bitching and banter, I changed my mind. :( Okay, one bit of advice...my last experience with a single man...got hubby to agree to let me do it and go alone, a bit stretch for us. Got out there. He hadn't made the bed. He knew I was coming over a week in advance, but the bed wasn't made. He had a blanket of some sort for the LR floor. No thanks. We put the bedspread over the bed. No pillow cases (he was doing the wash). Y'know, give a little thought in advance! The guy wants to play again, but I'm like..."Hmmm. I can see how much it's worth to you." It was like, if I showed up he'd fuck me. That's as much effort as he'd make. I have, so far, only had very bad experiences with single males. And this was someone I KNEW already! J.
what's it like without a cervix
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > what's it like without a cervix       09-09-2005 13:46 PM
Mrs., I still hav my cervix and all (and no problems--no surgery in site). But I am like the first lady who posted. I LOVE a lot of deep penetration and stim to my cervix. Did you LOVE that before you lost your cervix? I mean, do you miss having it? Does your husband notice a difference? If you never really liked deep stim then you probably wouldn't care if your cervix was gone, from a sex stand point. Thanks for answering. :) Jen
Controlling the kids online activities
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Controlling the kids online activities       09-09-2005 09:38 AM
Even though kids and teens might do things they shouldn't, that doesn't mean parents shouldn't make a real effort to communicate with their kids and limit their access to those things. My hubby and I took a parenting course last year (we BOTH went, whereas everyone else in the group was just the moms. Where were the dads??) That helped a lot in knowing how to have a good relationship with Nate...the kind where he walked out of a house when a peer was taunting him and trying to get him to watch porn. 'Angel', we do not have any porn movies or mags in this house, or cable access to porn. Obviously we do have Internet. Obviously my son has access to porn at others' homes. I'm not stupid, contrary to what you might believe. But I don't take it personally because I can see that you treat everyone here like they are naive, like they are stupid, like they are bad parents, etc. Not every single kid on the planet is exactly as you chose to be as a teen. Maybe your parents had no influence or control over you. Maybe YOU don't have any influence or control over YOUR kids. But I am confident that we have at least some with our teen. He gets all A's and takes honors level courses at school, and will hug and kiss me in public and tell me he loves me in front of his friends. He is kind to "special needs" students (autistic, MR, etc.), and is the type of kid who will step in and watch a baby or toddler for a mom. He guess he does these things BEFORE he smokes crack, pimps the neighbor girl, and watches porn, right? Sheesh! You aren't here to win a popularity contest, that's for sure. Are you thinking people will want to meet you for sex when you are so mean spirited? I am proud of the parents here who want to make the effort it takes to do right by their children! --Jen
Controlling the kids online activities
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Controlling the kids online activities       09-08-2005 19:26 PM
First off, for us, NO porn for minors. It's totally inappropriate. I can't imagine just giving up and letting a CHILD watch that crap! We aren't talking about the Sears catalogue bra models. We are talking about graphic sex acts. No, no, no. That is not what I want my sons to learn about sex before they have ever even done it. Some people have also not considered that porn can be addictive, even to young teens. I agree with Poly in that I want my child to understand why we say no. I told him that childhood goes by so fast. You are a child for, let's say, 18 years. Then you are an adult for the next 60 years. I told him I am doing it because I think he might regret giving up his childhood so early. I said porn is make believe, it's not reality, and adults understand that. But for kids, it can be confusing. He doesn't know we are swingers, but I assured him that after he is 18 I will respect whatever choices he makes about his sex life as long as no one gets hurt. Last year some of the kids in the neighborhood (12) were watching porn. One kid had videos that he found in his house and would watch them before his mom got home from work. Another kid's mom had cable TV where you can see anything anytime, so he had boys over to watch porn before his mom got home. So I called the elementary school guidance councelor and told her about it and didn't say who I was. That way the boys wouldn't know my son told on them to me. MY SON DID NOT WATCH THE PORN. He came home and told me about it. I am very proud of him for that. That said...he also, being less than perfect, has a tendency to lie when it suits his purpose. So he lost some priviledges, including being allowed to go online for short periods of time when I am not home (i.e., if I was on my way home from work I'd let him log on for 1/2 hr.) He never went to any bad places that I know of, but now we don't trust him. HOW TO STOP KIDS FROM ABUSING THE INTERNET: 1. On Windows XP, make sure your kid doesn't know the password for any accounts. He should not be online if you aren't there, so you should have to log him in. 2. Remove the "network" card, if you have your computers on a network. Only give your child the card when you are home. 3. ONLY have the computer in a common area. This computer is in our livingroom, so yes, it limits my own ability to come to SLS. But then my kid can't go anywhere that I can't look over his shoulder. 4. Be sure to give other punishment if he goes online when you haven't told him he can go online, and if he goes where he shouldn't go. Tell him ahead of time what it's going to be...for SURE loss of all computer priviledges for a nice long time. 5. My girl-friend couldn't keep her 11-year-old from going to porn places, so she just cancelled Internet for a while. 6. Another option is to get a lap top and use that to go online. Take your PC down and put it away. Take the lap top with you when you leave the house. --->If my kid was that sneaky, where I had to go to that length, I would also take him to family therapy where we all communicated better. Because you can bet he's being sneaky about other things, too! Good luck, and DONT give up! Put your kid first. Jen
being approached by BI men (no posting by men please!)
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > being approached by BI men (no posting by men please!)       09-06-2005 19:59 PM
I have had a lot of bi men say that other men really do suck better, because their mouths are bigger and they can suck harder. But that's not something you can "teach" another person anyway. I do think a lot of women lick pussy better than men, because we have the same equipment. Especially if you get a woman who likes to be licked the same way (e.g., I hate a lot of direct clit stim and I know a lot of women do,too. I find other women are more apt to work around the clit, not scrub it repeatedly with their tongues!) So hey, maybe men DO give better head statistically speaking. Who am I to argue? I only give head to men who happen to think that having ME do the job is a turn on...at least at that moment in time, LOL! I think bi men are really sexxy. My husband is straight and it grosses him out. I have emailed bi men who say they lie because otherwise they will not get action around str9 men in a couple. My husband refuses to play or get naked around bi men, and so do a lot of str8 men. I don't really blame the bi guys for lying under the circumstances, if they are sure their agenda is sex with ME, not my husband. No one likes a braggart or someone with a hidden agenda, no matter what age, gender, or sexual orientation. Jen
SLS VS OTHER SITES
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > SLS VS OTHER SITES       09-05-2005 12:18 PM
We have tried other sites. They are often complicated to get through. They won't tell you the cost until you have filled out and submitted pages of info. on yourself. And there seems to be a ton of people with no pictures/age/weight on their profiles. What good is that? That narrows things down not at all. For our state/area, this site is the best.
Handling Surprises or Uncomfortable Situations in Swinging
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Handling Surprises or Uncomfortable Situations in Swinging       09-05-2005 12:11 PM
I think it's a hard problem, when everyone isn't on the same page. Unfortunately, that sort of thing has happened to us several times...where one of us is flirting with another person and ready for action, but the other couple assumes it's going to be a 4some, and one of us is thinking 2some. It's hard to find a whole 'nother couple where all 4 people are REALLY into it, so we will do separate play sometimes. A lot of couples don't do that, and sometimes we forget to ask until it's time to go Have At It. Then it's a big disappointment and seems like a waste of time. Matter of fact, the last M&G in our area, I wouldn't even go. Hubby went alone. First off I was tired, and secondly I just felt like, "Why bother?" Sometimes it seems futile. We have one or two couples we enjoy; other than that... "The Mrs."
Girls-Only Sorority Party September 9th
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Girls-Only Sorority Party September 9th       09-05-2005 11:54 AM
Damn, that sounds like fun. I wish there was something like that around me. Hope it goes well...and that you come back and tell us all the tasty details! ;) Jen
Naughty Halloween Bash
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Naughty Halloween Bash       09-03-2005 21:45 PM
Can I come dressed as a Nudist? How do you dress as a nudist? Hm.........
What's the opinion on taking one for the team
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > What's the opinion on taking one for the team       08-13-2005 23:15 PM
When we started swinging I think it's fair to say that he and I each had sex partners who were not at the level of sexual attraction that we both wanted. That was because the other person really wanted to be with someone from the other couple. I mean, assuming there is a scale of 0 to 10 (zero means no attraction), we each had what is probably a 5. Not repulsed, but not excited. Could be home watching TV and have things be at least as good. In fact, if the snack foods were good, the TV might have been better fun. Anyway, that problem is solved. We know what we are looking for. We know how to communicate with each other quickly and efficiently about the other people. I know that I need to ask my guy outright if he wants to "do her;" I let him know immediately what I think of the other male w/o him asking. Stupidly, we bumbled into some situations where it made it awkward for the other person to back out gracefully w/o hurting someone's feelings, but that has been a while now. It's all juicy fun now! We agree that it's hard to find another couple where both of us are strongly attracted to both of them. But sometimes dreams come true <G>
New Hope- Tonight August 9th
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > New Hope- Tonight August 9th       08-10-2005 23:08 PM
We used to live there. Wish we could come meet you guys and enjoy New Hope at the same time. Love it there (too expensive for us, boo hoo).
What happened to Nibbles-n-Chews (Rich and Michele)
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > What happened to Nibbles-n-Chews (Rich and Michele)       08-07-2005 20:23 PM
Michele's mom lives in the house, so I am trying to be discreet.
When Should one reveal an ''infirmity''
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > When Should one reveal an ''infirmity''       08-07-2005 20:20 PM
We all seem to agree, it's better to upfront from the start. That is why, also, we like to meet people at Meet & Greets. Seeing someone in person, where there is no pressure, is an easier way to assess things. I probably wouldn't have a problem with someone in a wheelchair, or even with cerebral palsy who found walking a challenge. I wouldn't have a problem with someone being deaf or blind. I have worked around children through adults with physical challenges. I have a problem with bad teeth or bad personality, but those you have to see in person! My husband has not had the same exposure to medical and physical issues as I have. But he is still able to enjoy a couple we know; she was finishing up chemo, had part of a breast removed, then plastic surgery (not complete). I was proud of him for being able to see her sexiness and not be concerned about her incisions, etc. Coz at our house, if one of the kids bleeds, they know to run away from Dad and find Mom! J.
Cunnilingus
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Cunnilingus       08-06-2005 10:21 AM
When I started to be sexual with women I suddenly understood why men were usually not very good giving oral sex. I was like, "Damn! This is complicated!" Most guys, if their dick is in your mouth, they are happy. As long as you aren't hurting him (scraping teeth, etc.) they will be happy and cum. Comparing that to eating women, wow! The first women I went down on didn't even give me a lot of feedback. I mean, other than cumming! ("oh, she's breathing hard, I guess she's cumming! Yaaaaaay! I did something right!") But I felt inept. Women...It's sometimes a long process. I felt stupid and clueless at first, eating women. Then I just started saying, "I'm going to do what I like, and hopefully you will like it, too." I ASK if they like something if I am not sure. "More of this, or do you like this better?" Kind of like at the eye dr. exam. "Better with A?....or B?...Here?...or here?" I didn't have orgasms with oral until I met hubby. When I met him I told him, "You don't have to go down on me. I don't enjoy it that much." Now I LOOOOOOOOOVE it and am sorry when it's over. With other men I would get close, then beg to be fucked because I couldn't get over the edge. I can't say I have rules about oral. Sometimes I like a good, brisk licking with a flat tongue. Sometimes I like a lot of teasing with a tongue tip. I am usually a "go around the clit" person. I can have oodles of juicy orgasms just with PIV thrusting and don't usually like/need a lot of direct clit stim, but I know most women like/need it. When I eat another woman I usually try to start in a gentle, teasing way. I always go for the G-spot; I often do a side to side, deep, swiping motion that produces good results! I don't do the "come here" finger movement due to finger nail concerns (they aren't that long, but still). I might put 2 fingers in flat, and rub the pad of the fingers in and out, like penis, and rub the Gspot good that way, while sucking her pussy. I like that myself! If the vagina is not that long I will insert 1-2 fingers and rub her cervix. Now THAT has produced some beautiful orgasms! I love that myself, but unfortunately my pussy is long inside and only men with long fingers can get to the cervix. I haven't had any women be able to reach that far. For anyone who doesn't know how to find her/others' cervix's (and why CAN'T you? It's a dear friend!): Lie on your back and pull your knees to your chest, to shorten your vaginal canal. You can lay your head on pillows if you want. (Sorry it sounds medical.) Stick your middle finger up faaaaaaaaaar until you feel something like a nose at the end. That is the cervix. It's closed tightly unless you are in labor and about to have a baby, so don't be afraid. I love when a nice, long dick bumps or grinds my cervix. I love when someone eats me and can diddle my cervix when I am about to come! By the way...I DETEST WHEN A MAN FUCKS MY MOUTH. I love when he plays with my hair and fair when I blow him, but any time a guy tries to fuck my mouth I end up gagging. I can't deep throat. I have tried for like 25 years, and I know my limitations. My husband lies nice and still, goes into a "BJ Trance," and just moans a lot! I like that! Don't fuck my mouth! If you need that action I'll get on my hands and knees and we'll have sex. I do like when one man fucks me, and I have another dick in my mouth. I don't care if a guys moves a little, but not really pumping a lot. J.
What happened to Nibbles-n-Chews (Rich and Michele)
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > What happened to Nibbles-n-Chews (Rich and Michele)       08-06-2005 09:53 AM
We haven't seen them in a while. They used to be everywhere. Anyone know them to give an update? I hope things are okay. I have a phone number, but I feel weird about calling. --J.
Reading Area Meet - Greet
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Reading Area Meet - Greet       08-06-2005 09:51 AM
After party: We and EasternPACpl will park our Shaggin' Wagons next to each other in the parking lot, and any other couples with a Shaggin' Wagon should do the same. We'll put the seats back, open the doors, and just have free sex outside the club. Wheeeeeeee! Bring your own seat belt. No, wait...wasn't that a cop car sitting at the curb when we left the last event? Guess it won't work. The cops are spoiled sports! :( --J.
Life Philosophies
FORUMS > Events > Pennsylvania > Life Philosophies       08-06-2005 09:46 AM
Et tu, Brutu? No, just kidding, based on previous post. Here is one of my favorites; I have a plaque hanging near the back door that says: Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny. ---author unknown ***************************************************** I love this, because it shows the power of our THOUGHTS. Your thoughts create your reality, even if you don't know it. What comes into your life is a direct manifestation of the thoughts you attend, and give power, to. Jen
My oldest fantasy
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > My oldest fantasy       07-28-2005 22:34 PM
Hey, go for it! Tell me how it works out!