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WTF
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > WTF       04-14-2014 22:13 PM
Life has been extremely full here, keeping me from spending much time perusing the forums the last couple of weeks. In answer to Wayne's question a while ago, I believe the email I received asking if I was a "real" swinger came from an SLS event organizer and arrived at my personal email, not the mailbox I have here.
WTF
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > WTF       04-07-2014 23:49 PM
Somewhat related to how "customer service" is treating PG and, presumably, other paid profile owners who are taking a break, is that a few months ago we received an email from SLS asking if we were real swingers since we have never signed up for one of their sponsored parties. I ignored it for the trash talk it was, thinking I'll do what I damn well please with my paid lifetime membership, but PG's experience makes me wonder what will pop up in the mailbox next. :-/
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       04-06-2014 17:17 PM
Carrie, would you take a belated congrats from me? I only just now saw the awesome job your son did at the competition.
Latest received or given Pussy Licking
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Latest received or given Pussy Licking       04-06-2014 17:12 PM
The pussy licking received by me and given to another were too enjoyable to bother checking the clock last night. ;^D
Couples who prefer 3-Somes to swapping?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Couples who prefer 3-Somes to swapping?       04-05-2014 08:50 AM
My 2 cents on this discussion as it now sits: just because a person self-identifies as bi, it does not mean they do not on occasion want to have sex with only one person at a time. The same goes for hetero couples and any lifestyle-embracing people, IMO. Just because you enjoy sex with multiple partners sometimes, or even most of the time, it doesn't mean your sexual orientation changes when you have sex with just one.
What the hell are you doing up so early
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What the hell are you doing up so early       04-04-2014 06:37 AM
I wish it were as simple as money, BLT. :-( Between moving my elderly mother last week, handling multiple responsibilities in my volunteer positions and now dealing with one of my kids' major health issues, I'm not surprised that this stiffness has settled in. I study Tai Chi and find the loosening exercises we do help, but it required me to get out of bed. Thanks for your suggestions.
What the hell are you doing up so early
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What the hell are you doing up so early       04-04-2014 06:08 AM
I'm dealing with a lot of stressful situations in my life right now and it seems to have settled in my mid-back. Woke me up a little after 1:00 a.m., then again at 3:30, and now I can't get back to sleep. :-(
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       04-03-2014 09:08 AM
pg, I'm envious! We'll be getting rain this morning, rain later this afternoon, and snow tonight, though not much. :-(
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       04-02-2014 18:33 PM
SA, is that neighbor someone you would invite over for a swim IF he helped you clean it? Ah, nevermind! I imagine that would open up a scenario that you wouldn't want to get into.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       04-01-2014 13:56 PM
New Orleans, LouisianA
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       04-01-2014 07:15 AM
Congrats on the improved health front, Gina!
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       03-31-2014 23:54 PM
Thunderstorms and rain right now
WTF
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > WTF       03-31-2014 18:11 PM
If they had engaged in any other activities besides massage, this would give new life to the old Timex slogan: "Takes a lickin' and keeps on tickin'."
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-31-2014 16:54 PM
According to Wiki, pickled herring (surstromming) is a staple of northern Swedish cuisine. There's more in the article, but there was a particularly pertinent paragraph.... "When opened, the contents release a strong and sometimes overwhelming odour; the dish is ordinarily eaten outdoors. According to a Japanese study, a newly opened can of surströmming has one of the most putrid food smells in the world, even more so than similarly fermented fish dishes such as the Korean Hongeohoe or Japanese Kusaya.[4]"
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-31-2014 16:46 PM
Congrats, Jaycee!
Image Processor
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > Image Processor       03-31-2014 09:37 AM
subhubby, while looking at the couple's profile, click on "Grant Access." That will bring up a menu of your galleries and a menu to define how long you want that access to be open to them.
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-31-2014 09:11 AM
FB: the 2 leads we had for renters to take over Mom's apartment didn't work out, and the current lease continues until October. Back to square one. :-(
Fun Facts
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fun Facts       03-31-2014 08:33 AM
I wonder if the enforcement comes at the payout in current scenarios and of the ones purchased at gas pumps with a winning of over $600, should that pass. The plan to apply the $600 or less winnings back to the credit or debit card is interesting.
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-31-2014 07:46 AM
Those kinds of decisions are never easy, no matter how necessary they may be. I am so sorry for you, Lady.
Fun Facts
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fun Facts       03-31-2014 07:41 AM
VA, I wonder how they would enforce the minimum age requirement (18) for purchasing lottery tickets in that scenario.
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-29-2014 22:29 PM
I'm so very sorry for your losses, Lou.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-29-2014 21:16 PM
HT - with the help of various relatives and our soon-to-be son-in-law, we moved Mom into her new apartment at a retirement complex where she already knows several people. However, 12 hours spent driving, packing, hauling, moving, unpacking, repeat have made me one tired chica! HT no. 2 - I'm off to the hot tub!
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-28-2014 17:15 PM
That's wonderful news, Lou!
should women shave there pussy hair
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > should women shave there pussy hair       03-28-2014 17:13 PM
BLT, you are completely correct in that rule of etiquette for nudists. In my experience, it is strictly enforced by everyone, not just the staff, so you would not be sitting your bare ass down where another bare ass had been - you'd be sitting on your own towel.
should women shave there pussy hair
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > should women shave there pussy hair       03-28-2014 09:48 AM
BLT, we have stayed at a nudist resort in AZ where people are allowed to dine nude. To each their own, but Mr. Scandle and I didn't mind it at all. One time on a cool evening I decided to wear a top into the restaurant, but ended up ripping it off when a hot flash hit me! I've never been so grateful for the dress code at that place as I was that night. ;-)
Just Wondering
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Just Wondering       03-28-2014 09:25 AM
Leaving stuff behind is not typical at all for the Scandles. When our kids were small we got in the habit of closely checking the area where they'd been to make sure nothing remained behind because it was just too annoying to have to go back to pick up any lost items. The last time we failed at that was several years ago when my daughter's glucometer was left in a dark movie theater, and we DID return to pick it up.
WTF
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > WTF       03-28-2014 08:49 AM
BLT's comment seems as valid as any other on this thread. I've seen similar that weren't challenged.
I can no longer view previously sent emails?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > I can no longer view previously sent emails?       03-28-2014 07:26 AM
"and viola!....results." Not cello or violin, T? ;-)
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-28-2014 07:23 AM
HT.1 - With the help of family and friends, tomorrow my mother moves to a retirement complex. HT.2 - A direct result of all the physical work I've been doing to help her get ready for the move (and making changes to my house to accomodate her stuff), is that my weight is the lowest it has been in years!
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       03-27-2014 09:46 AM
It's snowing here - again! The prediction is for scattered showers, but it looks like that won't happen until later, like in April. ;-)
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-26-2014 21:54 PM
HT - just found out that my 25-yr-old got engaged today! We really like the guy, too. He is very good to her.
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-25-2014 23:37 PM
Good luck, Lady. I hope the doctors are able to get her condition under control.
should women shave there pussy hair
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > should women shave there pussy hair       03-25-2014 23:33 PM
I've been told that a good nudist always knows where their towel is. They're handy for such occasions. ;^D
Lessons Learned the Hard Way
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Lessons Learned the Hard Way       03-24-2014 14:39 PM
A hard lesson learned today: don't send the furniture movers on their way until you are done rearranging the heavy stuff.
Phoning before meeting
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > First Contact > Phoning before meeting       03-20-2014 07:42 AM
I haven't done this myself, but I've read somewhere in the Forums that you can set up a new number through google and link it to your cell phone. If things don't work out, you cancel the new number and you're done.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-13-2014 08:30 AM
I know what you mean, BLT. :^D
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-13-2014 08:25 AM
ScottandTammy, when I scrolled over your thumbnail picture it showed your weight as 310, not the 346 you mentioned. Maybe someone else changed it for you on your profile? In any case, congratulations on the weight loss! My HT - My elderly mother has decided to move back into the retirement complex where she had lived with my late father for a couple years. She will be returning to friends, lots of activities, a pool and hot tub on site, transportation, and meals served in a common dining room twice a day. Given that she is blind and has other minimal physical limitations, this will be a great move for her. The only down side is that we family members will have to squeeze in time to help her downsize her possessions and move in the next couple of weeks, but it is so worth it. She is quite the social butterfly, so living by herself in a "normal" town house was depressing. A related HT - with Mom's downsizing, I am now the happy owner of her king-size Sleep Number bed! It's set up in the guest suite for anyone who wants to come for a visit.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-13-2014 07:59 AM
Thanks, BLT. I thought that was what it would be, but then realized it could as easily be a ram.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-12-2014 23:22 PM
I just have to ask since that term isn't heard around here. What is "barn yard pimp?"
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-11-2014 23:10 PM
Thanks anyway, Kibbs, but Mr. Scandle found the solution on Google. He did a search on "dead Ipad" and found out that pushing two buttons at the same time for greater than 10 seconds reset it. One was the raised black power button on the edge, the other was the depressed almost dime-sized button on the front. Hooray! Now I can keep perving profiles while laying in bed. ;^D
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-11-2014 17:21 PM
Belated hugs to you, BT. My FB is that my IPad just died. I didn't drop it, step on it, subject it to extreme temperatures or douse it with anything. It was brand new 15 months ago. Does anyone have a suggestion on fixing it?
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-11-2014 08:51 AM
Congrats, Jaycee! How lucky your grandchild will be to have you in his/her life. Since you are young, you'll have that many more years to enjoy them and actually do fun stuff with them. My grandmother was 44 when my oldest sibling was born. She so hated the idea of being a grandmother that she insisted we call her by her first name. About 30 years into that relationship I said "fuck this!" and started calling her Grandma, though my older siblings never did.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-10-2014 18:23 PM
Tigg, if you know the right people, maybe you could have both! Tonight we're having stuffed bell peppers.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-09-2014 09:59 AM
Maybe so, tiggr!
What the hell are you doing up so early
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What the hell are you doing up so early       03-08-2014 08:32 AM
Driving south to Illinois today to visit Mom, who rather impulsively has decided she wants to move back to the retirement village she left 1 1/2 years ago. Time to help her figure out whether it will actually be the best option for her and whether she can afford it.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-08-2014 08:28 AM
last night, homemade tomato-orange soup, grilled cheese sandwiches made with 5-yr-old white cheddar, green side salad
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       03-07-2014 17:33 PM
40 now. Rain/snow mix expected tonight
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-06-2014 18:30 PM
Agreed!
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-06-2014 10:10 AM
LMAO @ BT ;-)
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-05-2014 20:12 PM
Leftover homemade minestrone soup for one :-(
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       03-05-2014 15:01 PM
FB - Mr. Scandle is on his way home early after coming down with the same illness he has seen at the office. He may be out for a whole week. Usually I stay pretty healthy even when he isn't, so here's to hoping... With his illness, it's likely we won't make it to Madison to use our tickets for "HUMP," the amateur video porn collection produced by Dan Savage. It's also likely we won't make it to the Mardi Gras dinner a friend is hosting on Saturday.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-05-2014 12:38 PM
BT, hopefully the personnel at the retirement complex will be able to do a full assessment of your dad's actual needs and talk your sisters into moving him to where he will be best served. Since it is their business to handle the elderly with all of their unique situations, they should be able to be objective and forthright in telling your sisters where he should go.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-05-2014 11:06 AM
@ BT - I understand that! In Illinois, where my parents lived (and now just my mother), the nicer retirement villages have an enormous buy-in plus high rent for their apartments that just made the whole thing unattainable. Luckily there was one nice place that didn't require the buy-in, but the rent was still very high. People who don't have disposable income in their later years have very limited options. My HT - to be an empty nester at this time in my life. We reconnected with an old friend yesterday who we knew about 30 years ago. This guy (around age 56) and his new young wife have 2 kids, ages 4 and 2. There is no way in hell that I would want to be raising a new family at my age!
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-05-2014 08:40 AM
That's excellent, BT. I'm glad to hear he is choosing what appears to be the best solution for himself.
Couples who prefer 3-Somes to swapping?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Couples who prefer 3-Somes to swapping?       03-05-2014 08:20 AM
We have enjoyed both MFM and playing with another couple. It is relatively easy to find a SM who I'm attracted to (and vice versa) who is willing to abide by our soft swap limits, and in every case I have fully enjoyed it. It has been more difficult to find a couple that works for both of us, but through this website we did find one couple (so far) who we play with fairly regularly. The fun we have had with them includes almost any combination you can imagine (both guys are completely straight but both women are bi), which means we've enjoyed them as FF, FMF, MFM, MFMF, and, of course, watching FM and FM. Both couples' limits include soft swap with all staying in the same room. I guess my point is that if you find the right couple and have enough time to devote to your experience with them, it is very possible to enjoy them in diverse ways.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-04-2014 08:01 AM
HT - Mr. Scandle and I have tickets to see Dan Savage's HUMP films this Friday in Madison.
What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?       03-02-2014 18:50 PM
Me, too, Kibbie! They're not just hot, they are inspiring!
Latest received or given Pussy Licking
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Latest received or given Pussy Licking       03-02-2014 17:05 PM
Both, multiple times last night and early this morning, by various partners. Yummm! ;^D
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       03-02-2014 17:03 PM
HT - Mr. Scandle and I are happily exhausted after enjoying an amazing night with our fav couple. Dinner, dancing, and lots and lots of sex with them and each other. Did I mention we are happy? LOL
Describe the person above you in one word
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Describe the person above you in one word       02-28-2014 22:40 PM
Fascinating
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-28-2014 12:29 PM
HT - I found a local PC repair guy who got my old laptop up and running within a day, and was very reasonably priced. HT - Tomorrow Mr. Scandle and I will be meeting up with our fav LS couple for a night of dinner, dancing, and debauchery. ;^D
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-27-2014 15:59 PM
HT- my homemade soup is simmering on the stove and in about half an hour I'll set it outside to cool down in the 9 degrees we got today, then reheat for dinner. Soup is so much better when it has had a chance to blend that way. Good, that is one of the other benefits of cold weather that our southern brethren miss out on.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-27-2014 15:59 PM
HT- my homemade soup is simmering on the stove and in about half an hour I'll set it outside to cool down in the 9 degrees we got today, then reheat for dinner. Soup is so much better when it has had a chance to blend that way. Good, that is one of the other benefits of cold weather that our southern brethren miss out on.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-27-2014 13:10 PM
Congrats to your daughter, SA! Hopefully she will be fully launched now.
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       02-27-2014 11:57 AM
I couldn't agree with you more, Good! :-/
BBW accepted or not
FORUMS > General Discussions > B.B.W. > BBW accepted or not       02-27-2014 10:21 AM
"some pictures, not naughty but tasteful, face pics work best, if you get caught then whoever caught you is into swinging," Sorry to say, but I've read elsewhere in the Forums that there are companies that set up fake profiles so they can do searches for employees who may be violating the company's morality clause. In any case, to the OP, for some people size matters but for most I think it's a matter of having a great attitude. Your face is beautiful and your smile is very welcoming. Be confident in your abilities to enjoy others and in giving pleasure to them. If someone rejects you only because you aren't petite, then you know, at the very least, that their priorities aren't the same as yours and you can move on. By the way - you need to correct the spelling of a few words in your profile.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-27-2014 09:36 AM
In honor of Peghey....... ******snort!******
WTF
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > WTF       02-27-2014 07:58 AM
A new product sold by Amazon is the newest thing for body-conscious sexy women. So popular that it sold out and may not be available in the future, My Pink Button promises to temporarily restore the youthful blush to labia. Combining this with the recently popular anal bleach, you will never have to present your sexy self in natural tones again! The comments on the website are hilarious and worth checking out. Mynewpinkbutton.c om
What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?       02-27-2014 07:55 AM
Jinx - yep, along with the big beige mask over my face. LOL!
HELP .ANY ONE IN THE CLAYMONT DE AREA A PLUMBER ?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HELP .ANY ONE IN THE CLAYMONT DE AREA A PLUMBER ?       02-27-2014 07:32 AM
Saw it, BT. You just beat me to the punchline.
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       02-27-2014 07:29 AM
You lucky dog, Nic! I hope your visit to the place I've been before is worth the time.
Whatcha reading
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Whatcha reading       02-26-2014 17:27 PM
At least you aren't saying you're reading it for the articles. ;-)
What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?       02-26-2014 17:25 PM
Hahahaha! I like it!
Kiss 'N Telling Etiquette
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Kiss 'N Telling Etiquette       02-26-2014 14:48 PM
I think it depends on your and your playmates' tolerance for having your sexual practices discussed by others. It may be a generational thing, a regional thing, or something else, but when Mr. Scandle and I talk about what we've done with other people, we prefer to talk about the events and activities we do without giving names, because to do so makes it gossip. If other activities are referred to, it's in the context of what we did that we liked, and whether we want to invite the next playmates to do it with us.
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       02-26-2014 10:57 AM
Your disappointment is understandable, Nic, but if the guy really is facing a family emergency, then it is reasonable for him to be focusing on that right now.
What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?       02-26-2014 10:42 AM
For example, the picture attached here was taken last summer while we were hiking nude at Mountain Air Ranch in Colorado. Of course, we weren't "exactly" nude, since hiking boots, socks, hats and a Camelback backpack were in order! It was a beautiful vacation and location - lots of groomed trails on the property, perfect weather, few insects, and nice people.
What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's the Story Behind your New Public Pic?       02-26-2014 10:39 AM
Many of us upload new pictures in our public galleries whenever the website is working well, and I've sometimes wondered what the story was behind them. Was the person on vacation, was it just a fun photo session, is there more to it than meets the eye? This is an opportunity to spotlight one of your newly-uploaded pics and tell us a little about it.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-26-2014 06:51 AM
Peg, here's to hoping we get to meet somewhere, sometime. I have loved your witty contributions here and will most definitely miss you.
Body Part of the Week
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Body Part of the Week       02-25-2014 22:01 PM
Kibbs, I LOVE that hat! Here's one that is not nearly as stylish.
Body Part of the Week
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Body Part of the Week       02-24-2014 18:41 PM
My hiking hat
Body Part of the Week
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Body Part of the Week       02-24-2014 16:44 PM
Thanks, Kibbs, but I have to admit I really just wanted to show off my new pic! LOL
Body Part of the Week
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Body Part of the Week       02-24-2014 15:48 PM
It's been a week of gorgeous dudes, and I've enjoyed all the eye candy. ;-) How about a week of people in hats?
profile help
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Better Profiles > profile help       02-24-2014 15:44 PM
Your profile and pics are fine. Your only problem, as I see it, is your impatience. You have been members for all of 2 days! People don't always respond quickly for a variety of reasons, such as they need their partner to look at the email and your profile before they decide together whether to respond (and their schedules don't always make them available), OR they are in the middle of making arrangements with someone else and aren't sure of upcoming dates yet, OR they are busy with something else IRL with a higher priority and will respond to you when they have time. Keep plugging away at contacting people, especially making your emails personalized based on their (not your) profile. Generic emails are easy to spot and easier to delete. We've had greater success hooking up with people when we attend parties, so check out that part of the website and get to know people. You two are good looking and apparently literate, so the problem isn't in the profile. Chill!
Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Bitchfest 2014       02-23-2014 14:58 PM
BT, I'm so sorry for you loss. Were you close to your uncle?
Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers       02-23-2014 09:53 AM
Jeff, I am so sorry to hear things are falling apart there. I was going to send you a private message but you have couples blocked, so here's what I wanted to share. Very good friends of mine endured an affair and through a lot of work by both of them have survived it, with more honest communication between them than they had had before. One tool that helped tremendously was a website called surviving infidelity (dot com). It is for both the betrayed spouse and the one who strayed, with different forums and advice from people who have gotten through it. My friends say it is the one place they could go to freely discuss their feelings about the affair, without worrying about judgement they anticipated coming from friends and family. I wish you all the best. It will be a rough road ahead.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       02-22-2014 23:19 PM
Hahahaha! Thanks, Kibbie, though she's not so little anymore!
Simple Pleasures
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Simple Pleasures       02-22-2014 14:57 PM
Warm breezes after a harsh winter, if memory serves! We ain't there yet in my neck of the woods.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-22-2014 14:44 PM
I'd love to see that demonstrated if you ever make it up my way, Lady!
Is there something wrong with my profile?
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Better Profiles > Is there something wrong with my profile?       02-22-2014 14:42 PM
Tim, peruse the Forums for other single men and click on their profiles or even just look closely at the thumbnail pic that they attach to their posts. You'll get a lot of ideas about what might be working for them. Personally, I like the pictures put up by SM NicAtNight, Bridgetender, FunAhoy, along with several other men in couples' profiles. Good luck!
Latest received or given Pussy Licking
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Latest received or given Pussy Licking       02-22-2014 14:15 PM
Latest? About an hour ago! ;^D
Is there something wrong with my profile?
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Better Profiles > Is there something wrong with my profile?       02-22-2014 14:02 PM
Tim, I think the text of your profile is fine, but your one public pic leaves much to be desired. Sorry to be blunt, but there is nothing interesting or attractive in a close-up of your hairy belly. The only time that has worked on me was when the guy had an erection covered, but not hidden, by his pants. Find someone to take your picture while you are dressed up, and/or in clean casual clothes, and/or doing something you enjoy (besides sex!). Since these will all be "vanilla" shots, they shouldn't be difficult to get. At all costs, avoid pictures taken in the bathroom. Be aware of the background, avoiding mess and other things that would distract. You can always crop your face out of the picture when preparing to submit it here. If you decide to include your face, smile, or at the very least avoid the deer-in-the-headlights look.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       02-22-2014 13:35 PM
Eating at youngest daughter's fav restaurant with her tonight to celebrate her birthday.
Just Wondering
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Just Wondering       02-22-2014 00:20 AM
Psssst, Kibbie..... It is point of view.
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-21-2014 23:51 PM
Safe and happy travels to the VA's! You will be missed here, but just think of all the fun you'll have catching up in the Forums. :-p
HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > HAPPY THOUGHTS 2014       02-21-2014 15:34 PM
Congratulations, Melvin!
Dallas
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Dallas       02-21-2014 09:38 AM
ljmac, welcome to the forums. You'll get all kinds of advice here, good and bad, and here's my contribution to the effort: posting your travel plans elsewhere on the website will get more attention. You can put it in the calendar under Hot Dates for the Dallas area, you can change the location in your profile to Dallas and in your tagline say when you will be there, you can post an inquiry in other areas of the Forum such as Travel. Good luck, and have fun!
Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers       02-21-2014 09:22 AM
wolf, I would be interested in hearing how it goes, too. I took a look at your new profile pics and they are fine, but didn't you have one of your wife in your public gallery at first? I don't see it now. Is there a reason you took it off, or did SLS mess up?
Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers       02-20-2014 14:22 PM
Shelly, isn't it You only get one chance to make a first impression? Egad, if I was limited to only one chance to make a good impression, I'd be toast! !
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       02-20-2014 11:21 AM
PG, from what Tiggr has said in the past, his area (and where your husband is now) won't see this nasty stuff until tomorrow. We had gorgeous weather yesterday, sunny and in the 40's!
Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Our first MFM threesome, need some pointers       02-20-2014 11:16 AM
Wolf, I'm not Nic (obviously) but wanted to add my 2 cents to this discussion. There are members of this website that insist on being in the same room as their regular partner and others who insist on being in separate rooms, while yet others don't care. In each circumstance you can find people who are successfully swinging, as well as those who crash and burn. The common bond among the successful people is their open communication, as previous people have explained. Talk to your wife about your feelings now and don't be reluctant or embarrassed to bring it up again in the future. Communication is not a "once and done" thing, especially when it comes to discussing having sex with people outside of your marriage. Your feelings may change or hers may change, and you want to be open and honest about it. Also - It CAN be okay for people to play separately but if either one is uncomfortable with it, then it's time to take it back a notch.