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My thoughts on the polite no thank you
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > My thoughts on the polite no thank you       10-26-2013 11:45 AM
Cabernet I tried looking at your profile to see what might cause someone to be so rude to you but I couldn't as you have it blocked to couples. I find that very strange as for the most part if you want to meet with gentlemen maybe you could find it with the male half of a couple. I don't mean to tell you what to do but it seems odd to me.
Watching my wife with other men-women
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Watching my wife with other men-women       10-26-2013 11:32 AM
Mr. lady here I think the reason I enjoy watching others enjoying her is that when you love your partner you just want her to have fun and get all the satisfaction she can from other men. Some times I will join in or just sit back and watch the expressions on her face while being taken by someone else.
Naughty Subs
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Naughty Subs       10-20-2013 17:40 PM
ST, Very good advice and I have had that talk with her and you are so right, if she does it again she is history. I'm beginning to think she will never change and I'm just wasting my time. We'll see what happens next week when she's suppose to be here.
Why So Few Nice Single Men
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Why So Few Nice Single Men       10-18-2013 13:09 PM
We have found the same thing not only at clubs but on different sites as well. Most are guys under 30. We keep trying but it's not happening. We have come to the conclusion that if they aren't at least 50 why bother. I'm sure they are out there we just haven't run into them.
Watching my wife with other men-women
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Watching my wife with other men-women       10-18-2013 12:53 PM
We both love it when possible I will hookup the cam and watch her and a guy on the TV while they go at it. I can hear them in the bedroom but I'm watching live porn on TV. I can not believe how it turns me on and when they are done it's my turn. She gets the best of both of us. I encourage everyone to at least try it.
Naughty Subs
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Naughty Subs       10-18-2013 12:23 PM
Husband here: I'm curious, I have a sub other then my wife and it seems she is always late for a play date and when I'm chatting with her she will all of a sudden disappear. I punish her in different way like spanking and such and also when she finally arrives I'll send her home. Any ideas on how to stop it or does this happen to others as well all the time.
A misbehaving Sub
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > A misbehaving Sub       10-18-2013 11:54 AM
The husband here I have a sub I play with and she will try and get away from me when I want to penetrate her, she will try for a few second but I keep coming at her and I must say it is exciting. She might tell me no from time to time and she loves it if I grab he hair and force her to do what I want. I think this is all in having a good time. Now if she were to say the safe word them it all stops and we go down a different path.
BDSM for Beginners, Newbies and the Curious
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > BDSM for Beginners, Newbies and the Curious       10-18-2013 11:45 AM
We love to swing and if a little BDSM is included it can be a lot of fun. We have been to a few large parties at clubs and we have found that so many people are drinking way to much. In some cases they don't start playing until 11:00 or midnight. By then we are done and just need to sleep. I agree whole heartedly that drinking and BDSM do not go well as has been stated. So have fun and play safely if you need to drink before playing you might want to take a look at just swinging, some people don't mind.
Why So Few Nice Single Men
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Why So Few Nice Single Men       10-03-2013 13:33 PM
I guess we have just been lucky when it comes to single guys, all have been perfect gentlemen and come back for seconds, thirds and more. We recently moved 150 miles north and they still will make the trip. Lately we have been able to ladies come as well but that is usually just for him when I'm not around . What I mean s they want to be with him first then maybe more later.
Elective Surgery
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Elective Surgery       05-03-2013 20:46 PM
Whatever
Dressing Younger or not
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Dressing Younger or not       05-03-2013 20:43 PM
Just have fun no matter what you wear. I'll bet there are lots of people out there that could care less, all they want are your goodies.
Pussy and ass Spanking
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Pussy and ass Spanking       05-03-2013 20:40 PM
I think women of all ages like it they just might not say anything. I love it.
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       05-03-2013 20:38 PM
Whatever
Free Members with No Pics
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Free Members with No Pics       05-03-2013 20:34 PM
We've said it before, just block them they are not worth your time.
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       05-03-2013 14:56 PM
Yesterday, May 2nd, we got 10 inches of snow and one of our buildings collapsed from the weight of the wet snow. Two days ago it was 75 degrees , what a mess.
For His Pleasure: A Dinner Party
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > For His Pleasure: A Dinner Party       05-03-2013 14:52 PM
Great stuff guys and gals, we would love to host a party like that but living where we do it's hard to meet with vanilla couples let alone BDSM people. Sure wish we could fine a group close to us that are thinking the same way we do. We watch a video a couple of weeks ago and they were having such a party, it really looked like fun.
finding someone who enjoys giving a spanking
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > finding someone who enjoys giving a spanking       05-03-2013 14:43 PM
Spankings are great, my Sister sub and I get them all the time when we have been good girls but when we aren't the ridding crop comes out. When my Dom's other sub comes over that's the first thing she gets and if I get to watch I get all excited. I guess we're a little kinky that way.
Looking in OH- are there signs
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Looking in OH- are there signs       05-03-2013 14:33 PM
Sorry about the poor grammar on my last post, I was interrupted three times by the phone.
Looking in OH- are there signs
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Looking in OH- are there signs       05-03-2013 14:07 PM
Never heard of a signal like that, maybe someone should write a book on just signals, signs and the ten commandments of swinging or at least post where to get such a thing. Club H out of Minnesota had some thinks but I think they are now club Attraction.
Elective Surgery
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Elective Surgery       05-01-2013 13:57 PM
I agree bandp, it's your body do what you want with it as long as it's not harmful to you. If I could I would get a tummy tuck but as Irish said there is the money factor. Maybe some day.
Why don't bbws want to play with their own size
FORUMS > General Discussions > B.B.W. > Why don't bbws want to play with their own size       04-28-2013 20:12 PM
Why not try to post some pictures of yourself and add your weight to your profile. Maybe people just what to see you, there are lots of people on here that won't even look at your profile without pictures. Give it a try you never know there might be someone close by to meet and enjoy.
How many guy - girls in 1 night
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How many guy - girls in 1 night       04-28-2013 17:52 PM
We went to a club party a few years back and I (Mr.) wasn't feeling very well so I went back to the room and crashed. When Mrs. got back to the room it was somewhere around 4am. I woke and asked her if she had fun the answer was "Oh Yeah" so I asked how many she got to play with and she said she lost count after about nine. Anyway, I guess she did have fun.
new dom in ne ohio wants to learn
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > new dom in ne ohio wants to learn       04-28-2013 12:51 PM
It takes time and practice to be a good Dom as well as a sub that really enjoys what is done. Reading helps but seeing and participating I have found works the best. Maybe you can find a local Dom that will assist you, that's what we did and it was very helpful.
Wisconsin Lifestylers
FORUMS > Events > Wisconsin > Wisconsin Lifestylers       04-27-2013 18:50 PM
I'm not sure anyone wants to meet anymore. We contact people and they never will set a date to meet. We have had people contact us and wouldn't you know it we aren't able to meet. I'm beginning to think none of us have time. But you know what we'll keep trying.
Dressing Younger or not
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Dressing Younger or not       04-24-2013 19:37 PM
You know what, you can dress anyway you want. If it makes you feel hot and sexy do it.
The Good, Bad and Whatever
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > The Good, Bad and Whatever       04-24-2013 19:32 PM
Why is it we see so many beautiful women with guy that look like gangsters. I just don't understand. Can you help me understand their thinking?
BBC For Wifes
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > BBC For Wifes       04-23-2013 15:02 PM
Thank you Bobby Black is Black White is White Black and White What difference does it make if Good is Good
BBC For Wifes
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > BBC For Wifes       04-22-2013 20:31 PM
What about those poor white guys?
Free Members with No Pics
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Free Members with No Pics       04-22-2013 20:30 PM
Mr. sb We have gone as far as blocking all free members because for the most part they all seem to be fake. In our profile we say if you don't have pictures get them or forget it. So I guess if I were you I would just block them.
How to spot a fake
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How to spot a fake       04-20-2013 15:32 PM
Newrevolt You have some very good points and we agree with 100% , you just have to be careful and don't share your private photos to quickly.
This Could Add Years To Your Husbands Life
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > This Could Add Years To Your Husbands Life       04-20-2013 14:46 PM
TotalBabe No you are just showing the guy who has a wife with D's something different and that's exciting. I love playing with A's as I can rarely find them , so many women today are getting implants and we are losing those beautiful smaller boobs. On another note, the wife is usually the one that points out the nice looking women to me.
What the Eff is wrong with some people
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What the Eff is wrong with some people       04-20-2013 14:37 PM
:-)
MFM thoughts wanted
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > MFM thoughts wanted       04-20-2013 14:28 PM
We to totally love 3somes, MFM or FMF either way it is great, we always have fun and the guys always want to come back for more. As for myself ( Mr. ) seeing how I enjoy the wife being satisfied, I prefer MFM. It's fun to watch her in action and besides I have a hard time satisfying two women. Although I do have fun trying.
I'm so old I
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > I'm so old I       04-20-2013 01:04 AM
I remember nickle candy bars, gasoline for 21 cents a gallon.
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       04-20-2013 00:58 AM
As of right now on April 19, 2013 11:50pm it's 23 degrees and it's been snowing for about 36 hours. We have over 24 inches and the wind is burying everything, we can't see our car in the driveway. Last year we only got about 170 inches all winter and this year it will be well over 300 inches. Our average snow fall is 250 inches. We love it. NOTE !!!
Profile help
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Better Profiles > Profile help       04-15-2013 13:15 PM
Jay I have to agree, you need better pictures and say a little about what you do out of the bedroom. Ask your friends the next time your out and about to take a few pictures of you having fun and by all means smile, it goes a long way.
How's the Weather Out There
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > How's the Weather Out There       04-15-2013 12:59 PM
This weekend we got between 8 and 10 inches of wet snow. We are so sick of winter. Even if it stays around 40 something it will take a while for all the snow to melt. We still have over 2 feet in the yard and piles over 6 feet high. Global warming, right.
OMG,
FORUMS > General Discussions > Soft Swinger > OMG,       04-06-2013 21:56 PM
I'm beginning to think all the senior swingers are gone. They don't post much or maybe it's because they don't want to be shot down by some forum bitches.
Pictures
FORUMS > General Discussions > B.B.W. > Pictures       04-05-2013 20:49 PM
Yes, what's up with the picture approval, we have heard from a few people they want to see pictures of the male part of our profile and as of yet nothing. I surely hope they are not lost in hyperspace.
condoms
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > condoms       04-05-2013 20:30 PM
I agree with Sav, just take it and have a great time.
First sexual encounter
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > First sexual encounter       04-03-2013 14:06 PM
We were sitting around and some how we got on the subject of our past sexual encounters and then it got to who was the first. Can you remember your first sexual encounter, how long ago and what were your ages. Also do you remember how it all came about.
do you cum in your playmate
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > do you cum in your playmate       03-28-2013 20:18 PM
We love bareback and if you need condoms then you must not be clean. We get checked regularly to make sure we don't have anything.
Fake or real tits
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fake or real tits       03-27-2013 21:22 PM
So, what do you prefer, real, natural boobs or as some would say store bought. I'm sure you have a preference so be honest and don't let some forum snob tell you what to think or post.
Wisconsin Lifestylers
FORUMS > Events > Wisconsin > Wisconsin Lifestylers       03-13-2013 14:05 PM
Kividi Wow, you guys are pretty close to us. Maybe what we need to do is locate a bar somewhere between us and set up a meet and greet, or we could have it either to the south , east or west of us and see how many people might be interested. Just a thought, I also see you belong to our group Northwoods Campers, maybe I should put an invite to the other members. What do you think?
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-11-2013 14:01 PM
Stuffed green peppers baked in a tomato sauce , twice baked potato with salsa and a side dish of Mexican corn. Nothing real special but a comfort food for us.
Hugo chavez
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Hugo chavez       03-05-2013 19:41 PM
Another dick is died good riddance.
Getting wife more interested in sex
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Getting wife more interested in sex       03-05-2013 19:35 PM
Husband here It is not only women that lose interest in sex. There was a time I didn't want to have anything to do with it. Luckily I had a wife that was understanding. Maybe you just need to talk with her and let her know how you feel and don't sneak around looking for it.
pregnant from swing
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > pregnant from swing       03-05-2013 19:20 PM
Husband here This topic is total BS, there are people that want help having a child and it is a lot cheaper to do it in the lifestyle then any other way. I know I got shit for it once before but if that's what they want who are we to judge.
Pet Peeve 2013
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Pet Peeve 2013       03-05-2013 14:40 PM
Tig, so does my wife and she's really good at it. What is going on when people use text word in a forum , "pry' what the hell is that. Maybe they just don't know how to use spell check. Misspelling something is fine and I can understand it but the other just seems dumb to me. Oh well, I sure I'll get shit for saying that. :-P
Wisconsin Lifestylers
FORUMS > Events > Wisconsin > Wisconsin Lifestylers       03-05-2013 14:33 PM
I think it could be a good place to say something and hopefully no matter what you say will not offend someone. Most people from Wisconsin are pretty friendly and can speak there mind politely. Now if we could just meet and play that would e nice as well.
men wearing panties
FORUMS > Toys Sexy Clothes and more > Lingerie > men wearing panties       03-05-2013 14:19 PM
I read this thread and thought what the hell lets take a look. I was very surprised at what people were saying, I never thought men would even want to unless they were gay. I guess I was wrong and when you think about it women like the feel of them why can't the guys.
Thongs
FORUMS > Toys Sexy Clothes and more > Lingerie > Thongs       03-05-2013 14:06 PM
I love thongs, they can be as pretty as you want and I have never thought of them as kotex. I find it very sexy when a woman bends over and her blouse rids up and there it is. Also if a woman is walking around a room or pool with a thong on she is just being modest. :-P
What do you wear when you work out
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > What do you wear when you work out       03-05-2013 13:44 PM
Husband here I think I'm working out in the wrong outfit, or maybe the wrong place. You ladies look great, I might just have to buy the wife some spandex. And of coarse turn up the heat.
parties , get togethers that welcome single males
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > parties , get togethers that welcome single males       03-05-2013 11:57 AM
Studly I wish more men would think the same way you do and maybe they would if the people and clubs would instruct them in proper lifestyle edict.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-05-2013 11:24 AM
I just put a sirloin roast in my slow cooker and will have it with mashed potatoes and a vegie. Tomorrow I'll take the left overs and turn it into italian beef for sandwiches.
Would you swap wives for the weekend
FORUMS > General Discussions > Straight Couples > Would you swap wives for the weekend       03-04-2013 15:22 PM
Lookig43 We agree with you, I don't think either one of us would feel comfortable with it. We have had a few chances but never tried it. I think it could be fun but only with the right couple.
parties , get togethers that welcome single males
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > parties , get togethers that welcome single males       03-04-2013 15:14 PM
I think more clubs and people who house parties should let single males come and join in the fun. Whenever we have a house party we always invite several to come and help pleasure the ladies. I see nothing wrong with it as long as you know the guys and they are gentlemen.
What do you wear when you work out
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > What do you wear when you work out       03-04-2013 15:07 PM
We see lots of people in street cloths, party outfits or just naked on this sight but what do they wear when they work out? Either explain it or show a picture of it, lets have some fun.
Where are the older swingers
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Where are the older swingers       03-04-2013 12:40 PM
Yes, where are they. They aren't even posting on the forums much anymore. I sure hope they went on vacation and if so that would explain it.
Latest received or given Blow Job
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Latest received or given Blow Job       03-04-2013 12:37 PM
I got one this morning at about 6am, now that's the way to start your day.
Pitiful treatment of single males
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Pitiful treatment of single males       03-04-2013 11:30 AM
I think every couple has run into those single males that just don't get it. Most of the clubs we go to don't allow single males but we enjoy there company and would like to see them there. Just remember to be a gentlemen and not pushy. Maybe there should be a special wrist band for single males including one for single women.
When we swing, I love to hear them say
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > When we swing, I love to hear them say       03-03-2013 20:43 PM
WOW, she's a great fuck and can she ever suck good. ...lol...
Does Single 21 year old males have any luck on SLS
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Does Single 21 year old males have any luck on SLS       03-03-2013 20:39 PM
Whoops, sure wish I would have looked at your profile, I'm glad you're a paid member and you do have a picture. I guess you just live in a bad neighborhood for swingers.
Does Single 21 year old males have any luck on SLS
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Does Single 21 year old males have any luck on SLS       03-03-2013 20:36 PM
I totally agree Tex, get some pictures and maybe you'll have better luck. Also don't be pushy, when you contact someone be a gentlemen and ask if there is a chance that you might meet. You never know it could work out for you. But foremost get some pictures. Also it wouldn't hurt to have a paid membership.
What's for Dinner
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What's for Dinner       03-03-2013 20:28 PM
We don't go out that much but we eat better than most families, to night I made roast chicken, whipped potatoes, our own grown green beans, stuffing with gravy. Most days we eat homemade things and never buy anything precooked. We feel it's best if made with love and not our check book.
Have you ever developed feelings for a play partner
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Have you ever developed feelings for a play partner       03-03-2013 13:17 PM
As we go alone and find playmates we have found that if we don't have an attraction to them in some way whether it's physical or mental it just doesn't work. We are not bed post notchers. Maybe that's why we enjoy house parties or club parties so we can pick and choose. So there does have to be some kind of feelings for them.
Wisconsin Lifestylers
FORUMS > Events > Wisconsin > Wisconsin Lifestylers       03-03-2013 11:30 AM
I'm beginning to think not many people from Wisconsin read the forums. Come on friends chime in.
Black Ring gaining popularity among lifestylers
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Black Ring gaining popularity among lifestylers       02-28-2013 19:48 PM
Hell_storm you are smarter then the average swinger. I think that's a great idea. Maybe people could even get a tattoo on there forehead that says "I'm a Swinger",,, LOL.
Pussy and ass Spanking
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Pussy and ass Spanking       02-27-2013 15:58 PM
Husband here I have played with a few women that were over 60 and they liked there butt spanked when doing them doggie. The only thing they didn't like was if you spanked to hard so take it easy and if they want it harder they'll let you know.
Wisconsin Lifestylers
FORUMS > Events > Wisconsin > Wisconsin Lifestylers       02-24-2013 00:53 AM
Hi Mel Yes, it would be nice to have a bar we could walk in and everyone there would be in the lifestyle. We have thought many times about get such a place but never have. Maybe what we need to do is sell shares so we could afford it,,,lol.
Wisconsin Lifestylers
FORUMS > Events > Wisconsin > Wisconsin Lifestylers       02-22-2013 22:19 PM
Hi everyone, it would be nice to have a forum or thread just to get to know one another. We have a few clubs and a lot of groups but nowhere just to chat it up. Maybe we could use this thread. Join in and lets see where it goes.
What up with all the overweight men
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fitness > What up with all the overweight men       02-19-2013 13:22 PM
Hubby here I think the problem goes both ways, either the woman is heavy or the guy is heavy. I think the problem is that so many jobs today don't need a lot of activity but at the same time drain us and we feel exhausted by the end of the day. Of coarse there is the other problem our eating habit are such that you can't help but put on the pounds. I know myself every winter I gain weight and by the end of summer I'm back in my 34" jeans, so this is why I have summer and winter cloths.
Advise on Pictures Taking
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Advise on Pictures Taking       02-18-2013 20:26 PM
Why is it that a lot of NJ bitches think they know it all. I'm sure there are lots that don't think that way I just haven't seen it. Don't judge us by your fake standards. Give people a break and let them expresser themselves. Unlike you we live in the real world. By the way sed kiss my ass.
What is wrong with Married men swinging alone
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Finding Playmates > What is wrong with Married men swinging alone       02-18-2013 15:37 PM
I think the biggest problem would come if the wife found out and instead of taking out on him she comes after the couple or woman and tells the whole town about it.
word association
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > word association       02-17-2013 16:56 PM
Flogger
fu***ng vs lovemaking
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > fu***ng vs lovemaking       02-15-2013 22:15 PM
Lust Fucking, I like it, I think we'll use that from now on.
Women talking
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Women talking       02-15-2013 22:09 PM
We don't have it in our profile but she always wants to talk to the wife just to make sure she is being pushed into something she doesn't want. WOW, what is wrong with that. More times then not the woman won't talk so what does that say.
Do you have a pet name for your penis
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you have a pet name for your penis       02-15-2013 12:21 PM
John Johnny is well traveled he visits all the good places. :-P
Valentine's Day - What are you doing with your sweetie
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Valentine's Day - What are you doing with your sweetie       02-14-2013 18:37 PM
Husband here I asked a couple of single guys to stop by around 8pm this evening and use my Honey like she was there's. I'm pretty sure she'll enjoy it and if not I'm sure flowers will help.
how to meet older women or couples
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > how to meet older women or couples       02-14-2013 18:30 PM
Husband here I don't have a clue, I would love to meet with an older woman that wants to play and just have some day time fun. But I have not found any close to me.
What smells attract a Man
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > What smells attract a Man       02-14-2013 18:26 PM
It sure isn't TUNA !!
Wife wants to be a submissive to a female
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Wife wants to be a submissive to a female       02-14-2013 18:19 PM
Are you kidding me another idiot that hides there profile from couples. I bet they don't even have a paid membership. I think it's time to block those that don't sign up and become a member.
Ever invited her ex to join you
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Ever invited her ex to join you       02-14-2013 13:19 PM
Husband here I don't think so, it would never work either for the wife or myself. Way to much baggage.
Older Lady, Younger Man
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Older Lady, Younger Man       02-14-2013 13:16 PM
Husband here I think it would nice to find a regular playmate either my age or older. Someone that enjoys being in an open relationship and is just looking to have a little day time fun. I know they are out there but I have never seen them on this or any other site that live close by.
Pitiful treatment of single males
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Pitiful treatment of single males       02-14-2013 11:46 AM
cplofun We agree with you about the paid members, we're always a little leery about those who are free members. We have even blocked them for a time because they would email us over and over and never be able to meet. However we do play with a lot of single males and for the most part they have all been gentlemen those that are rude never get to first base. As for verification we never give it out as if the guy is really good she wants him for herself. LOL
new group forming, sex after prostate cancer
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > new group forming, sex after prostate cancer       02-13-2013 14:48 PM
I have never had prostate cancer but I do have a problem with and have had for some time. The pills work but I did find I lost a lot of my sex drive for a while. It's back and my T is so high the doctor thought I was 16, lol, I wish. I like the idea of an open forum on this subject I think it would be useful to all the guys out there. Just a thought
What are the things you can see or not see in a profile which will make you automatically decide not to swing with someone Also what can you see which makes you want to
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What are the things you can see or not see in a profile which will make you automatically decide not to swing with someone Also what can you see which makes you want to       02-13-2013 14:30 PM
Husband here I think I need to look over our profile again you people are scaring me, all I want is a nice body shot of a couple to get an idea what they might look like and if the lady has nice perky tits that is a turn on to me. The wife had Ds so something different is always fun. As for there profile I don't want to read a book about just a few facts or idea what you are looking for and on the other side one liners I pass right on by.
Stamina of the other husband
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Stamina of the other husband       02-13-2013 14:14 PM
thn You are so right, we were with a couple and after her going down on him for a little bit he started fucking her and he didn't last more then a minute. I know she's hot but wow, I guess it happens to the best of us so I was forced to take care of both of them while he watched. Seeing how I was jumping from one to the other I lasted longer then I had ever done before and the woman said I was like a machine. Don't think that will ever happen again,,,lol ,,, lasting that long again.
Pitiful treatment of single males
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Pitiful treatment of single males       02-13-2013 14:04 PM
Husband here Personally I would like to see the clubs let more single males in to there parties. If there were 100 lesbians that wanted to come it would be ok but not guys. As for blocking single guy from seeing your profile I guess that's up to them but if you think about it some husbands are afraid of them or they have had some bad experiences with single men. Just recently I was reading in the forums and this couple was asking about house parties with other couples and could figure out how do find couples to invite. I was curious so I went to check out there profile and they had COUPLES blocked, to funny.
HUGE clits!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > HUGE clits!       02-13-2013 13:46 PM
My ex-girl friend had a really nice big clit and I loved playing and sucking on it. Then we went to a Secrete's party and I met a woman whose clit was much larger in every way.
should women shave there pussy hair
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > should women shave there pussy hair       02-13-2013 13:41 PM
YES
Do you have a pet name for your penis
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > Do you have a pet name for your penis       02-13-2013 13:33 PM
Johnny and of coarse her pussy is Frankie. Her tits are Lavern and Shirley and her ass is Alice we do have fun with it.
Inappropiate before meeting
FORUMS > General Discussions > Swinger Advice > Inappropiate before meeting       02-13-2013 12:08 PM
This is a big NO, NO, I would tell him never to contact you again. We had something like that happen to us and the guy was calling our home phone at all hours. We never met and we will never meet. It would be cool if you had his wife's number you could call er and see what she thinks about it.
So sick of the BS
FORUMS > General Discussions > Soft Swinger > So sick of the BS       02-13-2013 11:28 AM
I like it all, just the other night the wife and I were talking and I mentioned that I enjoy the soft part of being with a couple more so then have intercourse. There is nothing better then touching another woman's breast or squeezing her butt while we all sit around talking and drinking a little wine. I have always been that way and we both enjoy the conversation we can have with Lifestylers. They are more open and in most cases more honest. They know as we do they aren't going to go out there and tell the world what we do.
when are you considered senior
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > when are you considered senior       02-13-2013 11:14 AM
Husband here If you have seen our profile you will note that it says I lie about my age, well, it's true I'm 28 years older then my wife and that has made it very hard for us to hook-up. We enjoy being in the lifestyle very much and have met some really nice people. I agree that you are only as old as you feel or act and I try not to wear my pants up past my belly. It is hard though to keep up with the younger crowd when they don't want to start playing until after midnight.
House Party
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > House Party       02-12-2013 14:15 PM
Goldnspice: How do you ever expect to get to know anyone in the Lifestyle if your profile is blocked from couples.
House Party
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > House Party       02-12-2013 14:12 PM
SNT Thank for the input, I guess because we do those things and even more I just assume everyone knew that. I guessed wrong, I'm not sure I would hold a party with strangers or at least not all strangers. We have had a mixed group and that seems to have worked out pretty good. But we still like knowing everyone before we invite them into our home. Maybe before having a house party you might want to go to a club party to meet a few more people. Without knowing your level of experience or how long you have been in the Lifestyle it hard to know what you are looking for.
Where are the older swingers
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > Where are the older swingers       02-12-2013 12:16 PM
sweettart My wife is younger then my kids and I don't have a fat wallet and she sure as hell isn't a hooker. Maybe we just liked one another enough to fall in love and get married. My kids are ok with it and they like her very much. Besides, I'm a nice guy and maybe that's all it takes.
when are you considered senior
FORUMS > General Discussions > Senior Swingers > when are you considered senior       02-12-2013 12:10 PM
When your grand children are joining SLS
House Party
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > House Party       02-12-2013 11:33 AM
It's easy, just invite people you know or maybe want to know and run it like any other party. The only difference is you will have sex with your guests. You might want to let people know to wear naughty cloths or bring a dish or bring what they like to drink. Usually we will have the food but we do ask they bring there drinks. Just make sure you turn up the heat a little so the ladies aren't cold.