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Pensive Dom or reluctant sub?
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Pensive Dom or reluctant sub?       10-20-2014 15:16 PM
If she is telling you how to Dom her, she is essentially topping from the bottom. You don't mention how long you have been together or how much experience either of you have in a D/s relationship (together or with others) so it's difficult to give you specific advise but I might suggest you read some blogs or go to sites like fet life for more insight. You may also want to go to a local dungeon and just observe how others interact and get feedback from your sub what she liked as well as didn't care for.
No Single Males!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > No Single Males!       10-20-2014 13:53 PM
"To me, 2 guys fucking the same woman at the same time is a little too gay for me." Seems to me you are the one gay bashing or, more accurately, SM bashing by calling them gay? Either way, you're the hater so maybe you should take your own advice.
SMs, How would you like to be treated
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > SMs, How would you like to be treated       10-20-2014 12:44 PM
Welcome to the forum mufflvr. A reply of "not compatible" or "not interested" is all that needs to be said. They are telling you to move on so don't let it bother you. Rejection is part of the game, if it offends you to have someone say no, then I suggest you don't send any emails.
Hacked Galleries .
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Hacked Galleries .       10-17-2014 16:17 PM
This just posted as a sticky by the Webmaster in the Website Forum: "There was an issue with our galleries that made it possible in some cases for a logged on member of SLS to view a gallery which they should not have access to. The problem has been fixed and an enhanced gallery has been added. SLS was NOT hacked, no member data was at risk. SLS does NOT maintain ANY credit card data what-so-ever in our database."
What's the formula for a successfull introductory e-mail from a single male to a couple or single female
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > First Contact > What's the formula for a successfull introductory e-mail from a single male to a couple or single female       10-17-2014 16:14 PM
Really BT? Your dog did your homework?
Ebola
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Ebola       10-17-2014 16:06 PM
Some get quarantined for being rude in the open forums. *shrug
Any other couples experience this?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Any other couples experience this?       10-17-2014 16:02 PM
"But how do you tell a couple you aren't interested when they are old enough to be your parents?" You say, "You two are adorable, are your kids here? They may be closer to our age." JK....this has been discussed previously and the general consensus has been to be polite and friendly but keep the exchange brief and non-flirtatious. Then smile and excuse yourself. No reason to be rude or offer an explanation. If they don't get the hint or are persistent, a simple, "Thanks but we really don't feel a connection" and walk away. Of course, you could always approach those who you ARE interested in by using the ice-breaker, "Check out the creepy old dude with his thumb in his waistband. ;^D
Post one random fact about yourselves
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Post one random fact about yourselves       10-17-2014 14:39 PM
"I feel that I'm now at 70% the man that I used to be." So the Mrs. left the XL strap-on home? I kid!! Glad you are getting well Racer!
Why are we single swingers?
FORUMS > Suggestions > New Forums > Why are we single swingers?       10-17-2014 08:42 AM
Welcome to the forum, if you want more replies to your query you may want to post it in the open forum. You should also read through the forums and you may find that the LS is not "one size fits all". There are many ways to swing and single guys like myself enjoy the company of many couples who either haven't found compatible couples or simply prefer single guys. Not everyone is here to find a mate, just as not every woman is bi and not every single guy is a jerk.
Ebola
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Ebola       10-16-2014 19:19 PM
Amber Vinson has been quoted as saying she contacted the CDC to ask if it was ok to travel and was given permission as she was asymptomatic at that time. In other news, she visited family in Tallmadge (near Akron) and three of those family members work at Kent State University where my nephew attends. Also, one of my employee's wives works for a company who had a woman on that plane (on a subsequent flight, apparently it flew five times after Vinson's flight before being pulled from service) and that office is closed until further notice.
extra large penis
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > extra large penis       10-15-2014 08:25 AM
Maybe twatberries?
No Single Males!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > No Single Males!       10-15-2014 07:05 AM
Welcome to the forum my fellow Buckeye! Hmmmm, now where on earth might you find a compatible single male for her fantasies here in Ohio....
Discretion and swinging
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Discretion and swinging       10-15-2014 07:02 AM
To expand on VA's answer, you can only control you. Complete discretion implies that no one ever reveals anything about your activities. If you meet one couple or go to one event, you open yourself up to them "outing" you.
Post one random fact about yourselves
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Post one random fact about yourselves       10-15-2014 06:56 AM
RF: I am a very trusting person by nature and it continues to bite me in the ass on a regular basis.
Watching your wife get fucked
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Watching your wife get fucked       10-15-2014 06:54 AM
Glad to hear it JM. Yes, all is well here. I too took a nine month non-voluntary sabbatical from the forum. lol I do agree, the Fantasy forum is my fave, I get some great ideas here so please post more often. ;^D
extra large penis
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > extra large penis       10-15-2014 06:51 AM
"Guys in Ohio, when I was a kid, would tell me their penis tasted like strawberries. None of them did." Hahahaha....gotta watch out for those Ohio guys...
Hacked Galleries .
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Hacked Galleries .       10-15-2014 06:47 AM
"A problem with our galleries has been found and corrected. Galleries will remain offline as a precaution until we can fully test and ensure the fix does not affect site performance as a whole. Galleries will be returned to service soon. Thank you." The thread addressing this in the "Website" forum has been deleted and this is the only explanation we get? What exactly was the "problem"? Private pics visible to other members? Pics hacked and downloaded? An honest explanation needs to be posted here and on the home page so each member can decide if they need to delete all pics until we are certain they are secure. Admin? What say you?
Sperm Donor Mix up
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Sperm Donor Mix up       10-14-2014 17:21 PM
I agree Shelly, why are some seemingly blaming the victim? Just because she chose a sperm donor rather than a "friend" she should accept that they fucked up?
Fucking Bitchfest 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fucking Bitchfest 2014       10-14-2014 17:19 PM
"An exploit of our galleries has been found" *sigh
Watching your wife get fucked
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Watching your wife get fucked       10-14-2014 17:17 PM
Nice to see you posting again JM, hope all is well! ~A
Post one random fact about yourselves
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Post one random fact about yourselves       10-14-2014 12:42 PM
"Inconceivable" You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
Mixed Metaphors and Idiotic Idioms
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Mixed Metaphors and Idiotic Idioms       10-14-2014 11:11 AM
Cam's not the brightest bulb in the tool shed
Would you have sex with the previous poster
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Would you have sex with the previous poster       10-14-2014 11:09 AM
Mmmmmm....oh, pardon me, I was reminiscing. Yes!
Watching your wife get fucked
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Watching your wife get fucked       10-14-2014 08:33 AM
This is true ;^D
Watching your wife get fucked
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Watching your wife get fucked       10-14-2014 07:07 AM
Thanks LT, you two are the best "Wingcouple" a guy could hope for!
Disgusted
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Disgusted       10-14-2014 07:05 AM
Too busy with work to get out and play much pool, pretty sure B wouldn't even need to distract me to win this time around. ;^D
Post one random fact about yourselves
FORUMS > General Discussions > Getting Started > Post one random fact about yourselves       10-14-2014 06:58 AM
I was with a couple one time that when the woman came, she curled up in the fetal position and cried so intensely, she nearly passed out. She was motionless for several minutes and when she finally recovered, we joked that she was "Cumatose"
Watching your wife get fucked
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Watching your wife get fucked       10-14-2014 06:46 AM
Thanks Rolly, that is quite a compliment!
Favorite Spanking Implements
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Favorite Spanking Implements       10-14-2014 06:41 AM
The bruises from the belt take almost 24 hours to rise and are a nice reminder for several days. She gets wet just hearing me unbuckle the belt now.
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes       10-14-2014 06:37 AM
"I assume a Columbus Day Sale means I can just walk into a store and take whatever I want."
Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Quote of the Day - Meaningful, provocative and amusing quotes       10-13-2014 14:56 PM
"Learn from your dog; no matter what life brings you, kick some grass over that shit and move on."
Sports: Football, UFC, Boxing, Wrestling, Golf, BasketBall, Baseball, soccer,etc Or any other Sport u would like to Discuss
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Sports: Football, UFC, Boxing, Wrestling, Golf, BasketBall, Baseball, soccer,etc Or any other Sport u would like to Discuss       10-13-2014 13:53 PM
Interesting year for the SEC so far. Looks like Georgia could enter the championship game from the Eastern Division with one loss but look at the west. Mississippi St has to go to Alabama and Ole Miss, Ole Miss goes to LSU and hosts Auburn and MS St., Auburn travels to Ole Miss, Georgia AND Alabama and Bama has A&M, MS St and Auburn at home but plays at LSU. Early on the question was will there be 2 or 3 SEC teams in the 4 team playoff. Now I wonder if there will be more than one SEC team with fewer than two losses.
NFL FOOTBALL 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > NFL FOOTBALL 2014       10-13-2014 07:02 AM
One advantage of living in between Cleveland and Pittsburgh is I can hear the post game of both the Browns and the Steelers. I was surprised to hear the number of callers who want Tomlin and Rothlesberger gone. I'm happy for Brian Hoyer and looking forward to a stretch of winable games but if anyone thinks this is a superbowl team, I think they are in for some disappointment. It's just nice to see some excitement back in Cleveland now with the Browns winning and LeBron back in town.
BDSM + Swing = More Fun
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > BDSM + Swing = More Fun       10-12-2014 09:46 AM
Sorry, I had to delete my post. SOMEONE chose to use that as ammunition to try to embarrass the lady I was with. Apparently discretion is not a part of the LS for some. And the sad part is, the woman I was with wasn't even the person this idiot is trying to "out".
Watching your wife get fucked
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Watching your wife get fucked       10-12-2014 08:47 AM
When sharing, I love to watch her with a new guy for awhile and give him time to get comfortable and do his thing. Usually there is a lot of oral at first then once he is ready to enter her, I like for her to get on all fours so I can kiss her as he slides inside. The look on her face and the passion in the kiss tells me just ow much she is enjoying herself. By then she wants me in her mouth and the other guy and I alternate positions. SO hot.
BDSM + Swing = More Fun
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > BDSM + Swing = More Fun       10-12-2014 08:42 AM
Exactly!
Would you have sex with the previous poster
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Would you have sex with the previous poster       10-11-2014 11:48 AM
So are you asking if I would like to massage L's neck while unbuttoning her top, caressing her breasts then work my way down and hiking her skirt up to find no panties so I bend her over the bed and enter her from behind as she goes down on T? A definite HELL YES
SMs, How would you like to be treated
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > SMs, How would you like to be treated       10-11-2014 11:24 AM
"I see that our friend Sinbach is no longer 69. He's made his way squarely into the "50-plus" range at 58." I guess this is his way of saying GAME ON to all of those non-white younger guys?
Disgusted
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Disgusted       10-10-2014 14:50 PM
Ribbit.... How've you been? ;^D
I'd be grateful for advice and feedback
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > I'd be grateful for advice and feedback       10-10-2014 06:53 AM
I like your tagline, shows a sense of humor while letting her know her pleasure cums first. The rest of the profile is fine but reads more like match dot com to me. If you are married with permission, is there a reason you two don't expand your network of friends and mention that you are open to playing alone? Or does your wife not want to participate anymore?
No Single Males!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > No Single Males!       10-10-2014 06:45 AM
"To me, 2 guys fucking the same woman at the same time is a little too gay for me." What exactly are you saying? Are you afraid you won't be able to control your urges if there is another naked man too close to you?
why
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > why       10-09-2014 08:03 AM
Sorry, didn't mean to imply that was the only reason. Try shooting them an email and say you enjoyed the chat and if they don't reply to that, ignore and move on. BTW, there are many threads dedicated to what is considered rude (not relying to emails, blocking etc) so read up and you will see a variety of ways that we all approach this. Do what feels comfortable for you, both on the site and when you meet people and most of all, HAVE FUN.
Favorite Spanking Implements
FORUMS > General Discussions > BDSM > Favorite Spanking Implements       10-09-2014 01:47 AM
My favorite is a riding crop but the woman I am seeing now loves my leather belt. I have to admit, the sound and sting of it are quite a turn on and using it to cinch around her waist while fucking her from behind is pretty hot.
why
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > why       10-09-2014 01:42 AM
Welcome to the forum Mary_C One guess is the husband chatted with you and now the wife is on and has no idea why you are trying to chat.
Fantasy of the Day
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Fantasy of the Day       10-08-2014 08:59 AM
FOTD: Meet a couple to do an erotic photo shoot of the sexy lady and after a few costume changes, the husband joins his wife while I continue to snap some pics. I suggest a blindfold to add to the excitement and knowing that she has a fantasy of doing an MFM, (and having prearranged this with the husband), I sneak a buddy into the room to join the action. She is thrilled with the new addition and while focused on the stranger, her husband takes the camera from me and I take his place on the bed. Now her husband has the chance to watch and capture his wife being pleasured by two men. I leave the SD card for the couple but the memories will live on forever.
Photography help?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Photography help?       10-08-2014 01:02 AM
My apologies for my late reply, travel day to Chicago with meetings all evening. It would be my honor to photograph the lovely "Kitten", gratis of course since I am not a pro. Thanks to all of my friends (wingpersons?) and Juicy (I kinda like your new nickname), I would by thrilled to update your portfolio. I'm sorry we missed out on an opportunity a few weeks ago, we could have taken some for you and Peg. Hmmm, I think a small get together is in order soon. If interested, feel free to shoot the bird.
Shaved or Not Shaved for Mens Privates.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Shaved or Not Shaved for Mens Privates.       10-07-2014 20:26 PM
"Nic, For some reason, I think she knows that." ;^D
No Single Males!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > No Single Males!       10-07-2014 07:29 AM
"Definitely like the way you think, Nic." Well color me surprised ;^D
Casinos refuse to pay on 22 million dollar loss.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Casinos refuse to pay on 22 million dollar loss.       10-07-2014 07:25 AM
Cheating would imply deception, seems Ivey simply outsmarted then with his requests.
NFL FOOTBALL 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > NFL FOOTBALL 2014       10-07-2014 07:23 AM
Thanks Jan, I just remember when it WAS a rivalry because there was actually a chance the Brown's could win. Yes, that dates me!
are the single men in here a bunch of losers?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > are the single men in here a bunch of losers?       10-07-2014 06:41 AM
"The point is we as the woman get to say YES or NO..." So we as men have no say so? lol Mutual attraction + mutual respect tends to equal mutual fun.
Shaved or Not Shaved for Mens Privates.
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > Shaved or Not Shaved for Mens Privates.       10-06-2014 19:04 PM
"I prefer nicely trimmed, shaved shaft, shaved balls." Spreadsheet updated and (if you are updating yours at home), that is exactly how I groom "down there".
What are you wearing
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What are you wearing       10-06-2014 19:01 PM
Ummm....khakis?
Fyi - facebook
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Fyi - facebook       10-06-2014 18:59 PM
And other forummers discuss politics, ebola outbreaks, breaking news stories and funny you tube videos...just like on FB. The beauty is, you can choose what to post and where to post it...or not post it. Amazing what a little self control and discretion can do.
No Single Males!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > No Single Males!       10-06-2014 18:55 PM
Exactly LT. When I am part of a couple, I love watching for a bit to see her get all worked up with a new guy. In fact, I may wait until he is fully engaged and then one of my favorite parts is kissing her while he is inside her. SO hot. And then there is the simple fact that women can last longer and recover quicker so she can spend some time 1:1 with each guy while the other recovers as well as have both at once. IMHO, the only thing hotter than an MFM is an MFMFM where each woman has her choice of THREE guys in combinations of 1:1, 2:1 and 3:1.
are the single men in here a bunch of losers?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > are the single men in here a bunch of losers?       10-06-2014 18:45 PM
So glad you had a great experience carpevinum, too bad you had to kiss a lot of toads along the way but I'm sure it made you and your husband a lot more savvy how to pick the right guy. Ummmm...Sinbach? Once you get it out of your head this isn't a competition I think you will have a lot more success and a LOT more fun. Couples have preferences, just as I'm sure you do. Not everyone is looking for a 25YO black male model right off the cover of a fitness magazine. Well, maybe that's their first choice but fortunately they often will "settle" for an old guy like me.
Favorite SLS profile tag line
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Favorite SLS profile tag line       10-06-2014 16:17 PM
"Roses are red, violets are blue. We suck at poetry, show us your tits."
NFL FOOTBALL 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > NFL FOOTBALL 2014       10-06-2014 14:51 PM
It was a shock at the time BT, the Saints figured prominently is SB talk early in the season while the local media was debating how long before Manziel was starting in Cleveland. Your schedule is favorable with the Packers, 49ers, Bengals and Ravens at home so even if you split your division games, I suspect you'll get to 10 wins and a playoff berth. PS: Rob Ryan is a reject of the Brown's, should't that have given you a clue into what your defense was going to look like? lol
NFL FOOTBALL 2014
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > NFL FOOTBALL 2014       10-06-2014 14:25 PM
As a lifelong Brown's fan I'm just happy that the game this week with the Steeler's actually has some relevance. I was thrilled with the comeback win yesterday and having beaten the Saints I know a lot of Brown's fans have started talking playoffs (PLAYOFFS?!?!), but my excitement is tempered by the fact that they have yet to play a complete game. Against the Steeler's the first time around they slept through the first half then rallied to almost pull it out. Against the Ravens they dominated the first half then let the game slip away. I will say this and it's not a shot at Pittsburgh, for the first time in years (maybe decades) the Browns may have the better roster top to bottom. Now if they could only play 4 quarters of decent football...
Would you have sex with the previous poster
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Would you have sex with the previous poster       10-06-2014 11:49 AM
Nah but if I ever get to DC I've been told I can be a pretty good wingman.
Are we odd?
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Are we odd?       10-06-2014 11:46 AM
BTW, the closest thing I've experienced from the SM side is a guy/couple I had chatted with over several months who invited me to come to a hotel room at a specific time and he would have her blindfolded and I would walk in, drop trou and get to it. Sure I was a little skeptical but she was as advertised (he had opened her pics and they were current and accurate) and it was hot as hell. He has since brought her to my house, stripped her in the garage and led her in where I had a second guy there to share her with. I have also set up similar scenarios for some women I see. I have blindfolded and restrained a woman then had guys show up to share her with. I know what type of guys she likes and the guys I know trust me to only have attractive women. It helps that I have networked with many single males in the area and host parties where they are welcome so there is a mutual trust established.
Are we odd?
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Are we odd?       10-06-2014 11:44 AM
If your pics are accurate and if you have seen pics of the guys, I wouldn't worry about the attraction. Everyone sees what to expect up front. It sounds like you have pretty good instincts and I think you would pick guys who you could trust and like you said, by meeting them out first you would have a good sense of how they will act. I might recommend you have one guy bring a friend (or two) rather than have 2-3 random guys show up. In my experience, if the guys know each other there is less chance of issues with who is doing what to whom in what order etc. In other words, the guys won't be uncomfortable around each other and not "competing" for space. Make sense?
If you could go back in time to fulfill a fantasy, what would it be
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > If you could go back in time to fulfill a fantasy, what would it be       10-06-2014 11:27 AM
When I was 14 years old my older brother and his friends had a party at my parents house and there was an 18 year old girl (her name was Alice) who flirted with me all night, pissing off my brother and his buddies. Toward the end of the party she asked me to come over later that night (she was staying at a neighbor's house). I went over and found the parents weren't home so we started making out on the sofa. I was clueless what to do and fumbled around for about 20 minutes before we heard a car in the driveway and I had to run out the back door. I fantasied for years about what could have been had I known how to unhook a bra!
If you could go back in time to fulfill a fantasy, what would it be
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > If you could go back in time to fulfill a fantasy, what would it be       10-06-2014 11:26 AM
Maybe a missed opportunity or the classic "wish I knew then what I know now" moment.
Black Women and White Men
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Black Women and White Men       10-06-2014 11:15 AM
Truvia is a time traveler, as noted by a previous poster he posted his fantasy on 10-1-14 then went back in time and experienced it on 9-30-14. Hmmm...*IDEA*
No Single Males!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Women Talk > No Single Males!       10-06-2014 07:03 AM
"And when I say it's all about me, I mean that. A sincere willingness and appreciation for the experience rather than going through the motions out of a sense of obligation grudgingly. Who wants that?!" I do! And I think many single males would tell you that is their fantasy as well. For me there is nothing hotter than sharing a woman with another man or being the third with a couple. I think you just need to read profiles of the single males in your area carefully and seek out guys aren't looking for a partner and who mentions their desire to help make other's fantasies come true. You can generally tell from a profile if they are selfish by what they list as their fantasies and you can tell a lot from their certs.
Sports: Football, UFC, Boxing, Wrestling, Golf, BasketBall, Baseball, soccer,etc Or any other Sport u would like to Discuss
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Sports: Football, UFC, Boxing, Wrestling, Golf, BasketBall, Baseball, soccer,etc Or any other Sport u would like to Discuss       10-05-2014 08:49 AM
A shout out to Ole Miss and Mississippi State, must have been a FUN night for a certain forum friend!
Alternative term to play when it comes to swinging?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Alternative term to play when it comes to swinging?       10-04-2014 08:31 AM
Hook up? Get together? Rendezvous? Have a fun friend(s) over?
Are we odd?
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Are we odd?       10-03-2014 13:55 PM
I'll bring the wine...
Sperm Donor Mix up
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Sperm Donor Mix up       10-03-2014 12:24 PM
While Uniontown is predominantly white, the The Akron-Canton MSA is plenty diverse so I believe the reporting was sensationalizing that angle and the attorney further stirred the pot strictly for publicity. Strip away the grandstanding lawyers and shoddy journalism and you are still left with a multi million dollar settlement that is well deserved IMHO.
Would you have sex with the previous poster
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Would you have sex with the previous poster       10-03-2014 08:37 AM
*Volunteering to be the "other"
Describe the person above you in one word
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Describe the person above you in one word       10-03-2014 08:36 AM
copycat ;^D
Sperm Donor Mix up
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Sperm Donor Mix up       10-03-2014 07:52 AM
"If there is no other male then go and pick up a guy and she can see what she is getting and get knocked up. Stupid people, no brains." Irony?
What are your favorite words?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What are your favorite words?       10-03-2014 07:49 AM
Yes
Sperm Donor Mix up
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Sperm Donor Mix up       10-02-2014 08:32 AM
Doesn't matter if she got black, white or purple, the facility will be paying millions for the mix up. Hand written orders? Really??
Are we odd?
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Are we odd?       10-01-2014 18:50 PM
"(That's my second sports reference in one day. What is happening to me?)" Two more and you will have a Grand Slam...does anyone know a GSE (Grand Slam Extraordinaire)?
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       10-01-2014 18:44 PM
"The kind of shot you think of fondly each time you shoot hoops for the rest of your life." Yes, EXACTLY like that. ;^D
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       10-01-2014 14:51 PM
Ahhhh...so friends it is..... Thank you ;^D
Why We Love The Occasional MFM
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Why We Love The Occasional MFM       10-01-2014 07:41 AM
"...however the single male never "makes love" to me, this is swinging not eharmony." Plenty of swingers enjoy intimacy with their play partners, why do you feel the need to disparage their way of playing just because it doesn't match yours?
New Site Preview
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > New Site Preview       10-01-2014 07:37 AM
The profile approval and pic approval links are missing (for Lifetime Members) Can you fix the "Preference" setting so that if I indicate "No Interest" my profile is still visible to that group and only if I select "Block Them" would they not be able to see it or email me? I have no interest in "playing" with other single males but I do want to be able to email them when arranging for extra guys for a woman or couple.
Describe the person above you in one word
FORUMS > General Discussions > Games > Describe the person above you in one word       10-01-2014 06:47 AM
Prolific
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       10-01-2014 06:42 AM
Thank you sweetie...so what are you in the mood for today? Do I need to wear a mask...and invite a few other strangers?
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       09-30-2014 22:04 PM
Thanks VA for articulating in a few words what I tried to express in my last five posts. lol
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       09-30-2014 17:51 PM
Thanks for the clarification. I try very hard to stay on the right side of "fuckhead" status but have been known to veer slightly across that line. Just ask the admin.;-)
Are we odd?
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Are we odd?       09-30-2014 15:42 PM
I don't think it is unusual to want a guy you are going to share your wife with have a personality. I certainly prefer it that way, I wouldn't want the guy to be glaring at me or acting pissed off while I ignored him and flirted with his wife. I enjoy the conversation and having common ground with the guy makes him more comfortable with the idea of sharing his wife. It may not be AS important as her being attracted to me but the guy liking me (in a bro sorta way) ranks pretty high. My best experiences and the couples I continue to see even after several years are all because we ALL get along. Some I see outside the LS and a few have introduced me to their family and vanilla friends.
Off site motel party - PHX, AZ area
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > Off site motel party - PHX, AZ area       09-30-2014 15:22 PM
*SMH.... You have been given some legitimate advice and the one or two slightly needling comments have been apologized for yet you continue to feel victimized. All I can say is, if your skin is that thin, I beg you to stay away from the Politics forum. Once again, good luck and HAVE FUN!
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       09-30-2014 15:18 PM
I suppose "feelings", "connection" & "intimacy" all are relative terms and mean different things to different people. I enjoy feeling connected to a woman in the moment and am able to disconnect at the end of the night and we all go home happy. I have no desire to cause issues in a relationship and have purposely pulled back when I have felt a woman getting too close. It is a fine line and some would say allowing any emotion to enter into it is playing with fire. I am ok with that and am very up front with couples and fortunately, they know and trust me to understand where that line is.
What A Great Name For A Rockband!
FORUMS > General Discussions > Open Forum > What A Great Name For A Rockband!       09-30-2014 12:12 PM
Bottom Feeding Males ~ shooting pussy in a barrel
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       09-30-2014 12:07 PM
"Works well for us." Then we are in agreement. My only issue is with the implication that any SM who has a connection with the wife/gf of a couple is a "fuckhead". In some cases, that is exactly what the couple and the SM want and enjoy.
Why We Love The Occasional MFM
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Why We Love The Occasional MFM       09-30-2014 12:02 PM
As is always the case, communication is key. If I meet a couple and they offer her phone number for texting, I ask for his too. Anything I say to her I assume he is reading and if I have doubts, I copy him on the text. Flirting with her is fun in anticipation of getting together but only if her husband/bf is completely aware and onboard.
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       09-30-2014 08:26 AM
The most important opinion is that of the woman. If a husband tells his wife he wants to share her pussy with random men for his pleasure but she isn't permitted to have any connection, she needs to decide if that is going to work for her. If so, I am sure you can find plenty of guys willing to stick their dick in it. If she says she prefers to have some intimacy, the husband has a choice to make. He can compromise or he can be the fuckhead that uses and shares his wife for his pleasure and doesn't give a shit about hers. Just my opinion of course.
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       09-30-2014 08:08 AM
"That is so far over the line it doesn't even need discussion." I completely agree.
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       09-30-2014 06:59 AM
"In the lifestyle I think there is a basic understanding that its another mans wife and don't look for more then just sex." This would be more accurate if you prefaced it with, "In my OPINION..." There are many secure couples who like that their wife has a connection to the guy(s) she plays with. As for asking her to go behind his back? I agree with you, that is cheating, not swinging. I will say it once again, we should all do whatever works for those involved. Just because YOU feel threatened by your wife having a connection with another man doesn't mean everyone feels that way.
Single males who block other single males
FORUMS > Successful Swinging > Achieving Single Male Success > Single males who block other single males       09-29-2014 22:09 PM
Welcome to the forums CA13, but your profile is still hidden to single males. Of course now that you are on Mrs. Uriah's radar, that may not be an issue. ;^D
New Site Preview
FORUMS > Suggestions > Website > New Site Preview       09-29-2014 19:19 PM
I have a cert pending that flashes on the old design but when I flip to the new page, there is no notification.
Fantasy of the Day
FORUMS > General Discussions > Fantasies > Fantasy of the Day       09-29-2014 19:05 PM
Thanks Perf, good to be back. I know you two enjoy some D/s play, will you be at DJ's next Friday night (the 10th)? I may bring her and do some restraint play and share her with some "friends".
Why We Love The Occasional MFM
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Why We Love The Occasional MFM       09-29-2014 15:50 PM
STANDING OVATION...... Well stated and beautifully articulated, I almost felt I was I the room with you. You have described EXACTLY how I love to see an MFM unfold and it thrills me to know that the couple, and especially the woman is as excited at the prospects as I am. Since I also play as a couple, I enjoyed the part where you maintain eye contact with your husband up until you take the new man in your mouth the first time. I love when she does that. One more note from your profile that I believe a lot of women would confess if asked: "At first I felt almost guilty compared to our other lifestyle female friends that we indulged in this format of play, and their husbands were not open to the idea of sharing them without getting something new in return. But I have matured in the lifestyle, try not to over think something that feels so naturally hot and goof (sic) to us, and I can say now with confidence I absolutely love having my husband and another man make love to me at the same time."
are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?
FORUMS > General Discussions > Men Talk > are most females in the ls more about the emotional connections or the physical part?       09-29-2014 13:49 PM
It has always been controversial for a SM to say he enjoys intimacy (gasp!) but so be it. I have met some couples where they just wanted a fuck toy, completely devoid of emotion and if she was hot enough, I would go along for a one and done. Usually, I would pass. My preference by far is to kiss, touch, caress and connect so that our time together is as passionate and intimate as possible. Some husbands are completely cool with that and I still see their wives from time to time. Some husbands aren't so I don't. Simple as that. My mantra: Whatever works for those involved.
Double vaginal: Bisexual or straight?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Double vaginal: Bisexual or straight?       09-29-2014 13:39 PM
According to a recent Washington Post article quoting the CDC, less than 3% of the US population identify as gay or bi. Let's make the assumption that bi men are a higher percentage in the LS...maybe 10%? Still in the minority by far. As for personal experience, I have only had one guy ask if he could "clean me up" after I was with his wife and I replied, "Sure, you can bring me a washcloth". I don't want to go down the path of bashing anyone's preferences, I have always felt if you are gay or bi, own it and enjoy it. Just stop making the assumption that because YOU like it that every straight guy is in denial.
Double vaginal: Bisexual or straight?
FORUMS > General Discussions > 3-Some > Double vaginal: Bisexual or straight?       09-29-2014 12:27 PM
I always find it humorous that bi guys think most straight guys do it on the DL. Why is it so difficult to understand that some men, in fact, the majority of men are straight?