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TOPIC: another couple looking for advice.
Created by: kandlm352
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We are getting frustrated looking at all the different lifestyle resorts and reviews. It looks like primarily young supermodels are the only ones going if you look at the ads and videos. We are going to take a lifestyle vacation in 2015 between mid February and end of june. We are mid to late 40s. Not in the physical condition as we hope to get back to but attractive and a fun couple. No bs either about prude/nude, we are going as swingers and not any pretense of anything else but swingers. We may be newer to the lifestyle but we are there. So we are not looking for a relaxing sedate time. We going to party and have fun. We like themed events, contests and party games. We like groups that make everyone feel like part of the family and get everyone involved. This will be our first lifestyle vacation and a big expense for us so we really want to do it right and get the most out of it. looking for advice and suggestions.

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We are heading to Hedo II april 4th thru the 12th with another couple from SLS. they always have a blast there! Come along!

Flint MI
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We have been to hedo II, desire, pearl , and temptations. returning to hedo in feb. We 've to desire every year since it opened and pearl twice. Temptations is fun a bit loud. There is one that doesn't get mentioned often and that is golden Paranassus ! Send us a note and we can provide more info.

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Believe us the website pictures use models to showcase their resorts. After being to Desires 6 times we have seen the guest come in all sizes, shapes and ages. A few look like the models but most are just regular people that you will find at home. As to the amount of action going while you visit will depend on the type of guest. Desire forum has a list of take over weeks and if you are looking for nonstop partying you might want to check that out and book that week.

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We have been to, HEDO 3 (no longer and we miss it), HEDO 2, desires rm, desire peril and temptations.

TRUST US you will not be disappointed with any of them

What we found

HEDO- a very fun party that is always active. LS oriented and a good bit of "action". Note we have not been back since the change in ownership but plan to. Can't wait to go back.

Desire RM - beautiful resort, GREAT staff, mid day hot tub is great, but a bit slower than HEDO ( not that that is a bad thing)

Desire Peril- REALLY NICE RESORT and GREAT food. Understand we only did a day trip there but we found it to be a bit slow for us..

Temptations- we stayed there for 3 nights to save a little money while fishing and before going to Desire RM for another 5 nights. What a party. Didn't sleep much in 3 days. This place is like a upper class spring break. We had a blast. Things to remember though- topless only- have have seek out lifestyler's (but they are there) larger resort than the others, and yes there are singles there but we found that they were not aggressive unless you are looking.

Bottom line you will not be sorry with any choice! You'll just have a had time deciding to take a chance on another once you've had a blast at the first one!

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kandlm352, you are going to have a great time with the Fluffs. We are February Fluffs but there are quite a few that attend both weeks. If you have any questions about them, please feel free to write us.

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Ya know, you're already in Florida, and Caliente isn't that far away from you. Might be a good place to try for a weekend, although since it's "nudist by day, swinger by night" it complicates things a little.

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We just got our passports in the mail. We have also made our decision after a lot of back and forth. Unfortunate that we have to wait until second half of 2015. In the end, we felt a group takeover would be the best situation for us. We went back and forth between Desire, Hedo and a cruise. But we are going to try the Fluffernutters July trip to Hedo next year and see how it goes. Still nervous about our first lifestyle vacation but its an excited nervous. If it goes well, it will open the door to other vacation possibilities. We probably will try different locations and cruises and not settle with one. There is a whole exciting world out there. Thanks for all the advice.

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This is true, I see a few familiar names on this thread. ;-)

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I guess you never know WHO you're going to meet here. :)

Hebron CT
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As many of the other couples have said, there are many people with all types of body styles at Hedo II, I haven't been to Desire so I can't speak on that. But remember that the companies/owners have to market their resort so they use the models and such. It is all marketing. If you need more information you can also go to Adult Travel Forum and talk to many other "normal" people there that will say the same. We go to Hedo II about mid February (President's Day week) and there are all types of people there, I rarely see any "model" types there at all, most of us are all "normal". Feel free to contact me for any information you may want. Whatever you choose, just enjoy yourselves.

S&J

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