Hedo would be the place for u all to go. Desire has a older group most of the time and is more laid back.

U will have no problem fitting knowing what to do or not to do.

We're new to the lifestyle so to kick things off we're planning a vacation in early February to an all-inclusive, adult resort in Mexico or the Carribean. We are a laid-back, committed, bright couple in our mid-20s/early 30s. An all-inclusive, adult resort would be swell--just child-free and young couple oriented! Please let us know which sites (on or offline) to get the best rates/deals. Hedonism seems to be a hot spot so we're curious to hear about real experiences any of you have had there. We'd love your tips and recs for fun places to meet people and party...suggestions about etiquette are welcome since we're just getting started :)