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TOPIC: Compromising_Personal_Preferences_For_A_Swinging_Encounter
Created by: Z_Z_Krewe
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Our first meeting with another couple from SLS was a public meeting at Frenchy's Rockaway Grill on Clearwater Beach. It was a midday meeting, with a chance to have appetizers or lunch and non-alcoholic beverages, without the theme of a swinging event.

In the open air environment, I felt free to express myself, and asked our female acquaintance, "What would you like to do with us?" We shared rockaway devil crab cakes, and she almost whispered, "Would you accept an invitation from us to meet us, alone?" This couple appealed to me very much, and I wanted to consider her request, but knew I needed to talk in private with Mr. 'Z.' I asked her to write something on a napkin, and I would take it home for us to discuss. The wrote, folded the napkin, and I put in my clutch.

At home, I showed the note to my husband, and we discussed what Janine had written. She included their address, telephone, a day and a time. They wanted a glamorous swinging setting, with Janine and I having styled hair and makeup, and they each wanted to take pictures of us having intimate pleasure that included French kissing and oral sex. She also wanted to take a video of Ramone screwing me. They wanted me to be shaved.

Our conversation was about whether we would accept their preferences over ours. Mr. 'Z' not only wanted to be included, but he prefers me with a furry French pussy, and did not want me to shave. Since I really liked this couple, and wanted to screw her interesting guy, I requested that we compromise this time. I asked El 'Z' if he could think of what would interest him in exchange. "Let me think about it for awhile, and then we can discuss this more.'

Only one day passed, and he gave me his conditions. First, he wanted to take pictures of me shaving my pussy. Second, he wanted me to take a new dildo he purchased, and take pictures of my pleasuring myself in a screw scene with my new shaved pussy. Third, he wanted me to suck his head and coax his cock cream onto my lips, and let him take pictures. That was a firm decision of his, and I had to decide.

It didn't take me long to make my decision.

Who else has an interesting swinging negotiation with another SLS member they would be willing to tell? You don't need to use their names, but I would like you to give a good story of your experience.

~~Zazzy~~

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``~For such a long time, no replies. Now, an erotic interplay about comromise!~``

Treasure Is FL
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As the female in this relationship, if it was the first physical encounter, my answer would be a firm NO. If this was an established fwb relationship, I would consider it. A trust needs to be built before I will go alone

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This very thing is one of my biggest concerns and something I've been thinking about a lot. I am searching for a bi female partner and playing as a bi single man. What happens when I eventually find that partner? Will she want to play with my friends? Will they want to play with her? What if they don't? Will we play alone?

It is a big thing to me in that kind of a relationship, is that we don't leave each other out. I want to be able to play alone, and I want her to play alone too. I would love to come home and find out she screwed to plumber ... I'd love to catch them and watch. For someone to leave me out because their not attracted to me is quite different. To me it is an insult to our relationship, it is something that me and my partner share together even when we are not playing together at this moment. You could insult my relationship in the same way without sleeping with my partner. It has happened before.

I like the compromise that Z_Z_Krewe came up with is interesting, and I do understand how that kind of attraction can happen. I would want the other couple to make a compromise. I would want my partner to demand and negotiate it. It could be finding me a playmate for the evening, taking me with her and cucking me. She could "Sneaking away" and "cheat", then show me pictures. Of course in everything turn about is fair play.

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Yes, it would be insulting. We play 'inclusively.'

Treasure Is FL
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We would compromise in many things.

Personally. As the guy. I have encountered this before and found it insulting.

To me it reads. "Youre wife is hot, but youre a troll"

So in our case it wouldnt happen.

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Our first meeting with another couple from SLS was a public meeting at Frenchy's Rockaway Grill on Clearwater Beach. It was a midday meeting, with a chance to have appetizers or lunch and non-alcoholic beverages, without the theme of a swinging event.

In the open air environment, I felt free to express myself, and asked our female acquaintance, "What would you like to do with us?" We shared rockaway devil crab cakes, and she almost whispered, "Would you accept an invitation from us to meet us, alone?" This couple appealed to me very much, and I wanted to consider her request, but knew I needed to talk in private with Mr. 'Z.' I asked her to write something on a napkin, and I would take it home for us to discuss. The wrote, folded the napkin, and I put in my clutch.

At home, I showed the note to my husband, and we discussed what Janine had written. She included their address, telephone, a day and a time. They wanted a glamorous swinging setting, with Janine and I having styled hair and makeup, and they each wanted to take pictures of us having intimate pleasure that included French kissing and oral sex. She also wanted to take a video of Ramone screwing me. They wanted me to be shaved.

Our conversation was about whether we would accept their preferences over ours. Mr. 'Z' not only wanted to be included, but he prefers me with a furry French pussy, and did not want me to shave. Since I really liked this couple, and wanted to screw her interesting guy, I requested that we compromise this time. I asked El 'Z' if he could think of what would interest him in exchange. "Let me think about it for awhile, and then we can discuss this more.'

Only one day passed, and he gave me his conditions. First, he wanted to take pictures of me shaving my pussy. Second, he wanted me to take a new dildo he purchased, and take pictures of my pleasuring myself in a screw scene with my new shaved pussy. Third, he wanted me to suck his head and coax his cock cream onto my lips, and let him take pictures. That was a firm decision of his, and I had to decide.

It didn't take me long to make my decision.

Who else has an interesting swinging negotiation with another SLS member they would be willing to tell? You don't need to use their names, but I would like you to give a good story of your experience.

~~Zazzy~~

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