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Methinks though protest far too fuckin much...

The Mrs has polled every woman we have met at two separate group events we attended in the last two weeks. Every single woman (about 20 or so) said boxers or commando over briefs.

Exactly ONE said "tight little bikinis with colors and patterns" SHE had her BF at the end of a leash....and he had panties on...oh, I mean STYLISH briefs....lmao

I was astounded at how closely these two matched the two here so vociferously advocating for fancy undies on guys. One was bi, the other was a controlling bitch.

I rest my case.

(had a good laugh this morning too)

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Holy cow! Just checked in on this topic... Man, things have gotten ugly in here. Ugly, like Ernest Borgnine... in male lingerie. ;)

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Finally this make sense! I could not figure out why someone would be so obsessed with other men wearing sexy / fetish clothing to costume, swing, or nudist events. It has nothing to do with that. It's homophobia! Just for kicks sometime do a google search on homophobic men and their reaction to gay porn. I'm not saying that describes you. However, in one study they found that homophobic men were stimulated while watching gay porn. Does make sense when you think about it.

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Do you even know the context of 'gay' in this whole thing?

Gay=funny looking, dorky, out of place....not men or women who prefer homosexual relations.

you just became irrelevant.

I'll be turning these posts over to management to decide who did what. Have a nice life.

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Ghost, the only person I see attacking anyone is you! Your talking about guys with a panty fetish. I used the term panties to be cute, but it has nothing to do with what you wear under your clothes! I've made that clear over and over. It also has nothing to do with gays. It's simply that gay men know how to dress with style and you might need to shop on a clothing site that caters to gay men!

Your wife says you look great in a sack. That's wonderful you could save a lot of money that way! That's not attacking your wife. I'm just repeating what she or you said.

Personally we love going to events like Fantasy Fest in Key West, for example. Men and women there dress in very little. It's a very sexy event fun event for us and 70,000 other people. You apparently like S/M? S/M folks are known for dressing in fetish. Fetish wear exactly the same thing as male lingerie. This kind of clothing is very popular at swing conventions, erotic Halloween parties, nude resorts and swing clubs in Europe. Maybe lingerie is not the right term for you, but that is what it is. By the way a lot of S/M folks attend Fantasy Fest!

I'm sorry I fail to understand your rants and it's not worth anymore time discussing it. A person who is into S/M being critical of someone who likes to dress in fetish is rather silly, isn't it?

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What I personally think of bi and gay men? They make me gag, but I don't insist they must convert in order to able to understand...whatever. I ALLOW them to have their opposing views. I do not MOCK them for believing other than what I do. I do not try to CONVINCE them that it really is better/you are prettier/everyone will like you more if you would ONLY wear frilly underwear!...or be straight....

Get it yet? re-read these posts.

Was I allowed to have my own opinion? What if I had said I was bi? Or gay? And been told EMPHATICALLY that I just did not understand, ALL the guys are straight today and you will be left to stand in the corner all alone unless you are straight. Even after I stated IN CAPS that it WADS MY OPINION???

Get it yet?

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Folks, let's get some things straight from the start. What you have is called a fetish. It's more than OK to have them, many of us do... Some like heels-but they do not disparage those that like flats. Some of us like to tie people up and fuck them senseless-some prefer more gentle sex but do not poke fun at those that do not nor do they insist that they are right and you are wrong, which is what happens here repeatedly.

Here is an excerpt from a forum on a site that is a community of fetishists. This person likes guys in panties too, she's just more self aware and honest with it. I harbor no ill will and she knows there are others that dislike this practice and others that like it.

"by MP

The other day one of my good friends just out right said " I just love your husbands pretty panties "

It took me by surprise since i had never told her anything about it . As it turns out my panty sissy was wearing panties and was not real careful about not being noticed Since he had tucked his shirt into his floral prints. ( I think he wanted to be caught I have not been convinced otherwise )

Anyhow when she said it i was floored . I was even a little embarrassed . She said Don't worry your secret is safe with me my ex husband was a panty lover. She told me she did not know how to handle it back then but wished she had excepted it then. She said after the divorce she was loaded with regret and since then has been making her boyfriends wear panties for her . She said she now love seeing a guy in panties and bras. And that almost every guy slips right into them like a school girl late for the bus

My thing is How many of you women tell your actual friends about this? Have any of your husbands or boyfriends been caught by a friend of yours? How did that go ."

She does not try to convince others that 'it's really the only true way' or do anything but state her case and her preference. Those that want to comment, those that have nothing constructive to say refrain-because the there are moderators that enforce the manners needed in any type of forum like this. The rest of the posts are just as civil.

I could care less if you like men in panties. I DO care if you insist that I cannot have the opposite opinion. Or that my opinion is wrong. Or that I MUST see it your way. Or that I MUST be converted to be able to understand. Or anything other than YOUR OPINION is the only true way or some such trash. Beyond that, anything directed at the poster, his looks, his beliefs or anything else beyond the subject in the OP is a personal attack and not allowed per the TOS on SLS.

The only reason you have been allowed to 'trash talk' in this or any other forum is because no one has reported you to the moderator. There are no moderators 'watching' so unless someone reports, it just keeps happening. I do not want to 'escalate' this so it's your decision. Act with manners and the decorum of an adult in these forums or I will report you both. I'm tired beyond measure of room queens hijacking every thread as their own little fiefdom where anyone disagreeing is a target for passive aggressive behavior.

/rant_over

I'm certainly not going to allow attacks on my wife when she posts either

G

So,

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I had no idea you referring to me as Dude! Ghost this is the statement you or your wife wrote that I was referring to.

"To tell you the truth, the way G moves he could be dressed in a sack and half the women in the area would be undressing him with their eyes. It's just plain magnetic."

What part of that statement did I misrepresent?

As for your comment about girly men, usually the guys with the courage to dress sexy have great bodies. They've spend hours in the gym and have pride in the way they look. Personally I like guys who have well toned bodies, but that's just my preference.

In any case this conversation has gone beyond stupid in my opinion. If your only interest is causing a fight there are much better places for you to vent you anger. This thread is about sexy clothing for men! Why would anyone want to fight about that?

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"I seriously doubt any of these pan sexual types that wear lingerie can muster that kind of testosterone"

Thats a very prejudice statement ! Then I also would guess you would think bi or bi-curious men are gay or also lack testosterone ?

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Mrs Muir here:

Vegas, you can go for the girlie boys if you like-to each his own. But IN MY OPINION guys look too much like girls when they dress in fancy underwear. I'm not looking for a metrosexual thank you. I'll take a rugged man that can pick me up and throw me down on a bed and fuck me hard and proper. I seriously doubt any of these pan sexual types that wear lingerie can muster that kind of testosterone, but your are most welcome to them yourself.

Again, this is MY opinion. State yours and we can have a conversation. Tear me down for MY beliefs and I will encourage Ghost to eviscerate at will.

Good day

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