ginandtonic5, welcome to the forums!

I must say, you are not the only one who likes thigh highs and a man's hand looking for that lace top...

My favorite to wear is sheer thigh highs, usually black that run all the way to the top of my thigh. That way as the man’s hand reaches the lace band, he is very close to where I want him. I love the feel of a man’s hand as he caresses my legs encased in sheer stockings. The feel of his strong hands against the softness and smoothness of the hose. The feel of his hands working back and forth, gradually going higher and higher under my skirt, searching for that lace band. A man who takes his time and adores my legs will have me dripping wet before he reaches the lace top.

and my wife wears the tall as that gets the lace right up there with the Goodies

net looks cheap....french hose with back seem and fancy deep laced tops....rubs my cheeks just fine....!!!!!!

Fishnet then Nylon here. Thigh High anything gets my motor running.

Expanding on the topic, for me, I enjoy seeing
1.Fishnet Stockings
2.Nylon Stockings/Tights
3.Over the knee Boots
4.Over the Knee Tube Socks

Combine two of the above and I start to drool from both heads.

Stockings of any kind, but never pantyhose.

Fence Nets

I actually prefer all, including nothing, if you look at Mrs john you'll see she wears all of them and looks great in anything.
I count my lucky stars everyday :)

Fishnet for us...

[ insert quivering exhale here ]

and it's barely two hours of high speed driving to Philly...