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TOPIC: asking_a_man_if_he_is_bi
Created by: funlyfriend
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when I read profiles and the guy is listed as straight, but in the profile it states will try anything once. Should he be insulted when I ask if he would try bi. when I do ask sometimes a get a simple no, or no thank you. sometimes I get yes, but not with her in the room, or yes I only list str8. But some guys who do have "will try anything once" or words to that affect get down right rude, with responses like I'm not a fag, or what would makes you think I would try bi and much worse things.

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There are assholes in every subculture. Some people really just don't get it.

Personally, I find it much easier to respond with a polite "no" to the [very few] things I'm not interested in doing than to be a jerk about it. I'm pretty comfortable with who I am but not everyone feels that way and I've found those who are insecure about themselves are far more likely to lash out in a strong way like that.

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I'm bi male and she is straight female. she knows and likes to watch/join in

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That's really mean and nasty @curious! I like it! LOL

Knightdale NC
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lmao@curious.

Summerville SC
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I don't get why anyone on here would be offended by any basic question. Just say "Oh you looked gay" and move on. He will be staring in the mirror for hours trying to figure out why

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I agree with both of you, but I currently do not inquire unless the male lists himself as bi, since I figure they will approach me if they are interested.

Knightdale NC
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If a profile says I will try anything once than they should expect questions.

Spring Grove IL
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when I read profiles and the guy is listed as straight, but in the profile it states will try anything once. Should he be insulted when I ask if he would try bi. when I do ask sometimes a get a simple no, or no thank you. sometimes I get yes, but not with her in the room, or yes I only list str8. But some guys who do have "will try anything once" or words to that affect get down right rude, with responses like I'm not a fag, or what would makes you think I would try bi and much worse things.

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TOPIC: asking a man if he is bi
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