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TOPIC: Wife's bi male fantasy-where to start
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I would say that you start by seeking men whose status is bi or bi curious. My 1st wife had the same fantasy and desire...to see me and another man having oral sex and for her to please us both orally and (of course) to have 2 hot sextoys in her bed. I had never even remotely thought of men sexually, but I agreed to it to please her..I was pleasantly surprised at how much I enjoyed oral sex with men. It opened me up to oral bisexuality and we had many many more bi 3somes with men because we both enjoyed it...my biggest turn on was to watch her be a total slut for me and for him. It was more of a hobby than a lifestyle...every 3 or 4 months, she would ask me to go online and find a new bi man for us and I gladly did it LOL I sought men for us who were openly bi or bi curious. I think if you try it and he likes it too..you will do it again !

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I have seen more and more women who are interested in this, and I am glad they are....

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Thank you. Very good post by the way.

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She...

Did not pick up on it at first, but damn good question. My statement still applies nonetheless.

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"Ok ladies, tell me how to get my wife interested because I would love to suck a cock with her."

The simplest, quickest way is the truth. Sit her down and tell her of your new found interest. There is no "how do I get her to do this or that" as a trick of some kind. A SO is a spouse that you care for and love, whether they are accepting of a new idea or not is entirely unto themselves. Being in this lifestyle...hopefully they have an open mind?

Best of luck to you.

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hotin, is she in the lifestyle with you?

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Maybe try some Bi porn. Gay porn might just turn her away even more. But then again, its not for everyone.

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Our thoughts are, no pressure, just let it happen and see how it goes. What works for one here, might not work for you. The wife and I have many fantasies, but will only act on limited ones. She also is very excited about watching MM play, but only likes it when we play with another couple. And since their is such a high level of homophobia towards MM play here, we do not attend clubs. Good luck in your search!

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Good for the goose, good for the gander, good enough reason to give it a try.

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My Wife and I discuss our fantasies each and everytime we have sex, this is how I ended up having my first bi experience and her first mmf encounter. She had bi fantasies that she has yet to fullfill and being a normal guy loved the ieda o her being with another women and the three of us playing and enjoying each other. But I also heard her side of her fantasies of seeing me with another male. I personally felt it wasn't fair for me to ask her (if the occasion ever comes about) to go down on another women, if I was not willing to do the same with a guy. We don't make bi as a rule to be with another cole because we know this is not every guys attitude toward touching or being with another guy, Since I have now suck another mans cock I am not afraid to do it if it comes up in our play with others. This also leaves the door open for another cple who's wife wants what you said, then we can be there for them too. By the way, I enjoyed doing it for her and for her only. We play together as a cple. We are still looking to be with another female and or a cple that is bi so we can all enjoy each other if the need comes up for bi play. Straight male cples don't have to even worry about me touching the male, I would prefer to make love to his wife and watch him make love to mine, then I can go back home with her and lick his cum out of her pussy. Oh and speaking of that, is the straight male going to lick his wife after she has had sex with another male? Food for thought???

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